How To Re-Attract Your Ex-Girlfriend (Ft. Kate Spring!)

hey YouTube Brad browning here and I'm joined by a guest Kate spring here for this video and we're going to talk about how to react your ex girlfriend so this video is only for the guys out there and Kate Spring as an expert in men's dating issues you have youtube channel as well it's very very popular as well. If you want to check that out just search Kate spring here on YouTube.

Today we're gonna like I said we're gonna talk about how to re-attract your ex-girlfriend and we're good talk a little bit dealing with with ladies in general and also how you know specific situations related to your breakup and getting your ex girlfriend back.

Okay I want to start by talking a little bit about some of the stakes that men make in that when they're in that kind of situation when they want their ex girlfriend back. I know a lot of my clients anyway men do some things that sort of drive their ex further away. I'm thinking that those are the right things to do so do you have sort of a specific
recommendation for like it mistakes to avoid things you absolutely should not or be doing.

Yes my number one mistake with that I find with men is during the no contact period and they don't use that time wisely. You should be using that time apart from your ex to be social get out of your house don't sit at home creeping her Facebook or Instagram kind of forget about her for a bit and really focus on yourself because that's all you have control over at this point and we're talking.

So Kate you're obviously a believer in the no contact period then? 30 days where you don't talk to your ex at all you guys can see any of my other video a little talk about that so I see Kate's a believer and you're saying basically use that productively but times that you're not talking to your ex and focusing on yourself.

Focus on yourself improve yourself and then whenyou see her again she can have a holy shit moment you got hot or like you're just like this super duper guy now! At least it's not what she's expecting. Yeah! I definitely agree on that that's what not to do, what should you be doing specifically to to get your ex girlfriend back to make yourself more attractive in the eyes of your ex what are some things you didn't know that guys could do in that situation?

Definitely I think your ex is gonna expect for you to be at home coming through her Facebook maybe crying or watching binge watching Netflix. I think if you flip that on its head and you do exactly what she doesn't expect you to do I think that really puts you it sets you up as a high value guy that didn't let this breakup defeat you. Right.

As I'm being a high-value individual they're not gonna sit around wait for their ex to come back exactly being or whatever they're gonna get up there and live awesome regardless. Right yeah they're gonna be social they're gonna be active they're not gonna just be sitting at home waiting for her to contact you so even those are probably things you're not feeling like doing right now they're gonna help your situation.

Okay awesome, now I want to talk quickly about texting and guys out there are texting with their girlfriends all time are you a fan of texting? Yes. I think you cannot be dating in the 21st century and not text. Yeah I agree. Texting is really any kind of instant messaging. How do you recommend guys use texting or those kinds of things to to get their ex girlfriend back and specifically breakup related texts?

Yeah, I think it really depends on so your first text message that you send her no contact after the no contact when you first start to contact your ex again her response is really important and it's key because you can tell a lot by the tone and that how fast she responds to you and then you can kind of go off of her. So texting too much I would refrain from completely because you can always add text messages you can't take them away! Right so it's better to be safe than then send to me too many - Exactly less is more is my philosophy with this.

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[fawnrosie]

guys listen to brad browning. after 2 months of doing what he says me and my ex got back together!!!

[woodTMC]

Thanks to your expertise Brad me & my ex got back together & we are engaged. Thanks for all your insight. You are a genius

[pranavkmishra]

Brad Brad Brad ! I finally got her back Thanks a lot, ur videos were really helpful. It took me 2.5 months but I got her back Thankyou brad.😊😊😊

[rcorser]

Excellent video...please do more in this format much more fun and informative!! Thank you for sharing. 😃

[dmruggabugga]

After a a week and a couple days my ex came back to me and we are back together thanks to brads advice so thanks

[jamesforeman]

If you are trying to get an ex back and you have them on Snapchat should you still watch their Snapchat stories, or if you stop watching them would it make it seem like you still care about them and are being petty? Love your work guys!

[albertodeulofeu]

I thought about showing up with a ring too lol

[simoncox]

hi brad i watch your videos i am trinidad & tobago your are a boss the no contact really works

[mickehog]

If you are scared that your ex will move on during no contact, then your ex was not so into you.

No contact is not about get your ex back. No contact is about get yourself back. And if your ex really loved you, ex will contact you.

A girl I dated went back to her ex after 1 hour! Not 1 day, not 1 month, not 1 year. But 1 hour! It really hurt but at the same time, I could feel almost all the time she had feeling for someone else. I was just a backup. Someone she could have to seek comfort. We argument many times about she didn't took our dating serious. But she said she was only interested in me.
She started to lie about things. She started to forget things she said. She started to tell different stories.

After she went back to her ex, she started to flirt me. It was like she was a lot more interested in me when she was with him. After they broke up again, she was not so intrested in me anymore.

She denied she wasn't with him during our dating. But of course she was. No one go back to an ex after 1 hour, if they don’t seeing each other. She just waited for the right moment.

[seefourgoesboom]

I'll try and keep this as brief as possible. I met this girl online, we hit it off pretty well within the first few dates. Things got hot and heavy pretty fast, in fact she was the one that initiated talking about sex within a matter of a couple weeks. Our relationship lasted slightly over a month. I confided to her about my dark past and my anxiety, and depression issues etc. I talked to her about it too much. I feel like I worn her out. I talked to her about seeing therapists and a psychiatrist to get medication. Which I did. The day I got to the therapists office she deleted all our photos on Facebook, then later told me she wanted out of our relationship because of the distance apart and because I was too clingy. Then for a couple weeks after that, we talked more casually. I tried making a case for myself that I'm the ideal man for her, and how much she meant to me. (She meant the world). And I tried arranging a couple meet ups, which she declined.. I didn't push much beyond that. Then a few days ago I stumbled upon your videos. I tried the "no contact" strategy. Within a day of it, she sent me 3 messages on FB messenger (in a span of about 20 hours) saying "Hey, how are you". "??" "Are you gonna ignore me now?" Which I was supposed to Ignore her, right? Then, 2-3 days pass. Now, yesterday she sent me a snap. I ignored it. 2 hours later I decided to check my FB, went to my profile, saw that I had one less friend. I saw that my ex unfriended me. :(. I then decided to reply to her previous messages, just saying "No I'm fine. I've just been busy lately and had a lot on my mind. Hope everything is going well." I opted not to say anything about her unfriending me. Then later that night she sent me another snap. And the next morning she sent me a message saying "hi". That's it.. I don't know what to do.. I'm conveying to her that I'm getting better and handling the break up okay, but inside I'm not. Not at all. I feel like I lost the most ideal person for me, the love of my life, my best friend. And I feel like I'm mostly responsible, I pushed her away. I'd do anything to have her back. I will never forgive myself if I can't earn her love back, if that being the case I'll probably end my life. I love her, and I know she still has feelings for me on some level.. I just want one more chance, to meet up with her, and show her that I'm a changed man. Sorry for the essay, any tips would be greatly appreciated.. I haven't sent her any messages for 3 days now.

[Messiahsaint]

Hey Brad so recently a girl that I have feelings for has gotten out of a bad relationship from her ex before she met me and things between us were going good for about 2 months. She would tell me that I treat her with more respect then her previous relationships and very passionate on topics we discussed. Also to note on the previous sentence, she only had to relationship before she met me but her 2nd was very abusive and kept her away from her family and friends. I wouldn't want that for her and try to give her as much time to reconnect back with her family and friends. We live a bit far from each other but not at a very long distance and we would contact frequently by phone, text, and video chat. And she wanted to take things with me step by step so that we don't rush the relationship we have between us. But recently she told me she needed to end things between us cause she was still having difficulty getting over her ex and she would begin to get depressed from remembering him or hearing his voice. From that she needed space and to find herself again. I have been honoring her wish but I've accidentally sent her a message saying that I don't want to be on bad term with each other and to talk whenever she ready. She did however sent me a text late at night but I couldn't reach cause I was working I texted later on the next day and had a short conversation with her and she told me she still dealing with personal issues, and I just wanted to encourage her to stay strong through what she going through but after that we had no contact again. But I would try to say "hi how you been?" But get no answer back, and like a post on her Instagram but now I'm afraid I may have messed things up between us and hope that she can still give me a chance to make her happy. If you have any answers from this can you share some light on what I may be facing.

[brianlee]

I love Katie, she knows her stuff and has great content on her channel

[nurseelena]

You forgot to mention that if I guy did something bad - he should apologize! This is very essential

[sifugurusensei]

I don't believe in faking till you make it. It's basically saying I need to pretend like someone that I'm not. That's exhausting.

[AlexGbats]

I had my heart broken before she said she loved me i think she was lying but im staying strong and moving on.

[krunalkasar]

Hey Brad, your work is exceptional and helping me alot in my post break up phase. I want to seek your help as m getting anxious day by day. I have been in relationship for 6 years. Me and my gf broke up a month ago. We were in on n off relationship from past 2 years. I accept the fact that i had trust issues with her. Twice her clg frnds started flirting with her and she use to respond. At times out of anxiety i use to be very rude and abusive but then when i knew that is hurting her alot i literally stopped being so rude with her. In the month of july she went to another city for a training. Her company sent her there. She is senior to me by one year and m still studying. Her company asked her to live in a 4bhk apartment where 3 bedrooms were occupied by 5 guys and in 1 bedroom she use to live with her clg frnd. She was enjoying her work there. I told her that its her first and new job and she should concentrate on it. I didnt disturb her during her working hours. Not even a single text from my side. It was like only greeting each other in the morning and a bit of talk before sleeping. Aftr 15 days one sunday she slept at 1am and and woke up at 1pm. We decided to talk on a phone call that day. So i was waiting for her to get ready and call me aftr lunch but instead she said she again slept at 3 and woke up at 7. I got anxious and messed up by saying how cud she sleep again for so long. And i dont believe it. Her mom dad got frustrated as well. Her reaction towards me was like"u think m f**king here with someone else". I said, "u have lied me before so i dont believe you on this". I said this because 6 months before she accepted that she use to lie me during her clg days and at times she used to confess lot of things. Especially she use to lie cuz i use to hate some of her frnds from her committee who have caused lot of problems to me before. She use to work with them. Though i never stopped her from working with them. She use to cry alot out of guilt. Aftr the incident that occured on sunday, 10 days later, me and my dad met with an accident in the morning and i had my exam that day. Me and my dad had lot of sprains, cuts and bruises. I somehow managed to write my exams. I didnt tell her instantly cuz i wanted her to concentrate on her project work assigned by her company. It was her project submission day as well. Later that evening i texted her. I needed her. I was in lot of pain cuz of accident. I wanted to talk to her. I asked her if she cud leave her office early and not wait there extra time just for a day cuz we needed to talk. She felt as if i was texting her cuz i was missing her alot. All i wanted was an emotional support. But that day she left her office at 10pm. And out anxiety cuz of my physical pain i messed up saying all sorts of nonsense things like "u aint there to enjoy with frnds in ur company, and much more". I said it because she was posting her pictures with her frnds on social media. She along with her 4 frnds use to leave their office late and others use to leave at 7pm. That night she broke up with me. I tried to apologize and tell her the truth about why i was so upset. 6 years of relationship ended that night. She said m the negativity in her life. She dont need me as a bf and as a person as well. M blocked everywhere on social media. I know i have made a mistake as well. What do i do now? I want her back. If given a chance, i wont repeat these same mistakes. What may come. Sorry for such a long comment brad. Thank you.

[cococly]

Best remedy to wanting your ex back during NC is to date other women. You don't need to plan to get married to those new girls that you mean, just have fun and rebuild your confidence.

Maybe you would found a better woman during this period, and then it's up to you to choose whether to get your EX (who cheated and dumped you) back.

[TheJP]

I love love LOVE this video! Just downloaded Kate Spring's book

[jonathond]

LOL I Did the exact text book list of things NOT to do!! Now i'm looking for help to repair my mistakes. I'm hoping that I can

[Clearconceptshindi]

thanks brad no contact rule really worked for me i got her and m happy but sometimes i feel like she is abit less interested now a days