Psychology of Re-Attraction

[chiranjit]

She was cold during our breakup. I left her to be and went into NC. Gave her space. Sent her a letter expressing my feelings and left it at that. She contacts me after 30 days of me maintaining NC and is crying and apologizing. Her feelings and suffering seems genuine but I will take it slow. Videos like yours kept me going and inspiring when it was really dark for me. I watched your videos and it kept me going and got her back with my dignity intact. Thank you coach

[joegiordano]

I'm so dumb, as I was reading all these comments, I was wondering why everyone seems to have gone to North Carolina! But NC means No Contact! Well, my ex broke up with me May 7, after 3 1/2 years. I spent the first 8 days begging on text. She didn't want to talk. Then I gave up begging. Two weeks of NC, and she started "chasing me, " but I have been ignoring her for 4 months, in an effort to offset my begging. I know I risk her never coming back now, but I accept that risk.

[CJThaGreat]

Won my ex back after 6 months. Thought it was hopeless, but I followed these videos to a T and my ex has come back to me. Please keep the faith and never give up. I know it’s hard, trust me. The only thing you can do is working/investing on yourself.

[SacredVanity]

He reached out today on August 8th and we broke up on June 25th! It’s been 6 weeks of no contact he reached out on his birthday 7/17 when he saw that I went radio silent. He texted and asked “You never missed me? You’re hardcore” coincidently he sensed that I went on my first date since our breakup. It seemed impossible 5 weeks ago but I literally don’t even want my ex back anymore! Coach Lee is so correct in all of his theories always stay strong and push through and NEVER contact them. Your ex WILL come back. If they don’t, you might realize you don’t even want them and you maintain your integrity and self-improvement will attract an even better potential partner. Hang in there guys and thanks Coach Lee 🙏🏾

[kevwritingfantasy]

To all who dispair. No contact DOES WORK EVEN FOR A GAP AS LARGE AS THREE YEARS. I've been in love with the same woman for 13 years, we have both loved, lived and had families with other people but something pulls us back together. If only for short periods. It's a long complicated relationship situation, one not even Coach Lee could probably help me with but the short version is, no contact for as long as three years can work, you just have to stick to it. If they truly love you, if you had a special connection (you know the one) they WILL return. In the meantime, live, love and enjoy life.

[yourskincaresimplified]

He reached out wanting to give it another shot! After two months of me staying strong, watching your videos and not contacting him. I’m so happy!!! Thanks Coach Lee. You got me through. Watching your videos every day. 😄

[EO]

Coach Lee how am I ever able to thank you enough. During my darkest days you were my BEST friend and the only on here for me. I owe you EVERYTHING. My GF broke up with me 3 months ago, acted like the coldest person on earth even though i did EVRRYTHING for her. She turned into something i had not ever seen in my 8 year relationship with her. I followed your advice and went straight into no contact even though i felt sick and had sleepless nights the entire first month. Now 3 months later i can 100 % say that i dont care anymore. If she ever reaches out shes gonna get rejected. Your advice is the reason why I still have my dignity in place. I feel SO amazing. You are truly an angel.

[guilhermenunes]

No contact works. It's been 1 year
since I got back with my ex. Things are ok. But don't think it's a big deal. Never put your happiness on someone else. You are hurt because your ego wants validation. This is not love, or passion, is just ego. Even though we're together we never felt the need to talk about the breakup. But you know, right now I don't fully trust her, I don't feel hurt, I just don't trust her 100%. What if she decides to breakup again at anytime? At this point I don't mind too much. Happiness is not outside, it's inside of us. Good luck!

[mosesfigueroa_]

I got my girl back and I just won the SuperBowl of love! Thank you for your help Coach.

[jayviray]

I loss my ex and i did my best to win her back but it didn’t happen…thank you coach lee for your inspirational video’s that guided us more stronger🙏…to all the heart broken out there stay strong because you are not alone..

[mandygirty]

Okay …let me tell you… it is insane at how well this stuff works. Mind blowing. These videos help you thru the different stages and feelings of a breakup… it worked literally after a week.. I can’t even imagine how well that emergency break up kit works !! ❤️❤️❤️. You have made so many people happy with these videos. You are making a difference in this world brother !! Thank you so much!!

[alangodfrey]

Fellas we have to take that energy off of our Exes and direct it fully into us and watch how they begin to chase 💯💥 trust Coach Lee and the process

[kweb]

Thanks Coach Lee for your work. I purchased your breakup kit after my girlfriend of over three years had broken up with me. I was in the dumps, but I followed no contact. Your work was very reassuring for my lowest moments.Five weeks later I had gone to a dance hall we both frequent and I was dancing with other girls. That really got to her. We talked over our issues and we have been back together over a year now. Because of the no contact, she thought I was happy without her. I did use the time apart to work on some of my issues, like easily getting upset, not focusing on my purpose. By putting attention to improving myself, it lifted me out of the dumps and turned the breakup into a blessing in disguise. Thanks again

[CoachKen]

People should watch this anytime they feel on the verge of talking themselves into reaching out. It's a very common and powerful temptation.

[corylapointe]

Love your channel!!

I wanted to say after 4 months of little to no contact. My ex suddenly wanted to talk and made it clear she wanted to give our relationship another chance. 4 months of seeing her twice a week as our kids played baseball together. I kept my cool. We politely ignored one another and I stayed positive working on myself physically and mentally. We stayed friends on Facebook but made no contact. I followed your advice and kept moving forward. Enjoying myself and being tasteful and respectful with my posts on social.

I feel like our new relationship is just that. Completely new and full of good feelings again.

[summer]

1.exploit being taken for granted
2.demonstrate independence
3.absorb their momentum, Don’t reflect
4.go back to the beginning
5.go back to original attractions factors

[jambogb]

It's so nice to know I am NOT the only one going through this shitty time in my life 💖
❤BE STRONG EVERYONE!❤

[richardschwarz]

As a non native english speaker I really apreciatted that you included transcriptions of the most important points, thanks coach

[missmo]

“…the circumstances of life, the details, the situations are not the relationship… it is about the other person.” 🤯 SO simple and yet so true and overlooked. I will repeat this as a daily mantra.

[risthename]

Thank you much. I can't express what I am feeling in words now. Please guys trust the process and trust him. He knows what he's saying and listening to him changed my life and me and my girl are back, happy and stronger than before. Thank you sir, from the bottom of my heart ❤.