9 Signs he is testing you | How Men Test Women 2020

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We mostly hear about women “testing” men since women tend to be more cautious when it comes to relationships. But men test women too,.
Absolutely.
Now we should note that not all testing is manipulative or negative. Sometimes we all “test” our partner just to get a glimpse into how their mind works and how they might respond in a hypothetical situation.
As the relationship progresses, their final “tests” can be far more confusing and sometimes hurtful. But if you really love your man, you will pass his tests and become the true love of his life. So let’s discuss some of these scenarios, from the mini-tests early on to the final “cold feet” tests later.

1. HE PLAYS HARD TO GET.
Playing hard to get can be a good thing in small doses. It gives you a chance to see that the other person is making an effort with you. Although it’s a game women invented, some men like to play it too. Fine. But it’s not cool if he’s playing hard to get at unfair times like just after you’ve shown him real interest. Pulling away from you is a manipulative tactic to make you sweat.
2. HE “SURPRISES” YOU.
On the weekend he surprises you with tickets to a basketball game—even though he knows very well that you hate the sport. What the heck? He might be testing you to see if you’re flexible and open to other ideas, but why fake what you feel? If you’re not into something, he should at least have the decency not to spring it on you.
3. HE STOPS NOTICING YOU.
He always used to tell you how gorgeous you looked and how much he loved your trendy outfits but lately he’s completely stopped giving you compliments. However, he still wants to see you regularly.
What gives? He could be testing you, trying to see how you’ll react when he stops paying you so much attention. Basically, he wants to see you squirm. The best thing to do is to pretend that his behavior isn’t affecting you at all. That will show him you don’t need his validation.
4. HE FLIRTS WITH OTHER WOMEN.
When you’re out together, he might drop the waitress or his friend a flirtatious comment. It feels so insulting, but if he’s a jerk, he’ll thrive on seeing you get upset. He’s basically so insecure that he has to resort to these tactics to get a jealous reaction out of you or test your interest level in him.
5. HE STOPS GIVING YOU ANSWERS.
If he’s suddenly become vague or mysterious when you ask him a question, he might be testing you to see what you’ll do. If you get upset, he might resort to calling you “clingy” or too intense. On the other hand, if you pull back, he might think that you’re not interested.
6. HE’S SARCASTIC OR INSULTING.
Some MEN will throw you a few sarcastic jokes to gauge your sense of humor. Some might even take things to an uglier level by insulting you and then claiming it’s a “joke” or you should “lighten up” when you don’t laugh at it.
7. HE SHOWS UP WHEN YOU LEAST EXPECT IT.
You had plans for later, but he turned up much earlier with the excuse that he finished work early and thought he’d pop around. He’s probably testing your flexibility. He might even want to see what you look like when you’re not dolled up. It might not be a big deal for him to arrive unannounced but it can annoy you, and rightly so. You have things to do!
8. HE DOESN’T CALL.
If a guy says he’ll call you at a certain time and then he doesn’t, he’s clearly a guy who doesn’t keep his word and he’s not interested. But he might also be testing you to see how he’ll react. He might want to see if you’ll accept his bad behavior in small doses, which means he’ll be able to do more annoying and disrespectful things in the future.
9. HE TELLS YOU HE’S POOR.
Some guys might worry that a woman is just dating them for their money, so they might test you by saying they’ve lost their job or made some bad investments and lost a ton of money. They might even take you to crappy places to see how you react. Clearly this guy doesn’t realize you don’t need him for his money. It’s a bit insulting to have to deal with all this acting!

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Tbh it‘s so confusing to know if he‘s really just ‚testing‘ and that’s why he is pulling back, or if he just lost interest.. maybe it’s a mixture. Maybe he just wants to see how i react if he stopps giving me attention.. if i have enough selflove to stay calm and just reflect his behaviour in ignoring him too.. it‘s annoying but it makes alot of sense if i think about it.. i might have also shown too much that i like him so that he felt a bit under pressure.. Eventhough i like him i will NOT run after him! I will continue with my life, i‘m not in a rush or have to force something! I‘m whole and complete 💞

lolelyn
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Just remember testing doesn't make everyone stronger.

jamiecee
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A lot of BS games! It seems to be more about disrespecting you and seeing whether or not you will tolerate it.

sharmainescott
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WOW! Computers give insight into love?!? Interesting. If you have to play mind games in the name of "needing to know/figure someone out". Thank goodness for brand new days. Everyone isn't interested in that, neither will they play your game. Resorting to or practicing such behaviors will either make someone no longer interested being that it is likely that you will always play some kind of mind game for a needed outcome. As this is how this type of mind supposedly gets answers. Anyone can pass or fail a consciously to play/disrespect you or unconsciously for you to play/disrespect them. Tricks are for kids.

junglekutz
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These are all toxic behaviours that causes distress to others.. because its done on purpose

joaanyu
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But it's not a mean that they test girls long year true na..

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