When a married man cheats…

[gwenallen]

Please if a married man cheats on his wife he dont give a damm about his wife.

[Cateyes]

Why are we telling the women this? If a husband cheats on his wife, he is being abusive to his wife. Cheating is abuse and he definitely doesnt care about his wife either.

[Covrdcovered]

in this day and age, most men who cheat on their wives do somehow love the side chick and will even leave the wife for her. Trust and believe, it is not how it used to be

[mdooms]

If you are the wife that's being cheated on and you stay, you are a fool. Don't underestimate a man's feelings for the side chick. It's not just convenience, it's lust and perverse desire which cannot be tamed by anyone unless that man submits to God.

[rebeccabrown]

Be careful listening to people who is telling you to stay with a cheater. They trying to normalize the disrespectful behavior of a man.

[ChikaNika-nwig]

She not setting standards she knows he out there cheating. I hope she not sleeping with him . She should get a divorce quick. The wife and the mistress means nothing to that trifling man.

[bahamabarb]

Go back home to his wife😂? Not THIS wife!! Goodbye good riddens and good luck!

[Israelite]

It honestly doesn't have anything to do with the wife or the mistress. A grown man makes his own decisions for his own reasons. He does what is convenient and please himself. At that point he don't give a crap about you or her. Only him.

[jacquelinewashington]

Preach Sister! You’re his personal Convenience Store! I wish the Hell I would!

[angeljones]

IF MY DUDE CHEATS ON ME, HE CAN GO WITH HER, IF HE CAN'T STAY COMMITTED TO ME, THEN WE WEREN'T MEANT TO BE 👊✔️💯

[KennyBeeez]

I wish that married men will STOP TRYING to cheat on their wives with me. I’m not a trifling promiscuous woman, I’m very modest and carry a high level of respect for myself. It’s very traumatizing and depressing to be approached and disrespected by them. It’s very disheartening for the wives and I feel sorry for them. I respect women without knowing them. He will not cheat on her with me but someone will do it. The wife always loses.

[kokowalker]

How is the wife high standards? Sounds like the wife is convenient 9×out of 10 she knows her husband is cheating and allow it

[TalkFiftyToMe]

Lies! My cheated then married his side chick! 😂😂😂

[StevePatrick-lb]

Condescending nonsense. Staying with a cheater is trifling. Talking down to the side chick is nonsense.

[shellyjones]

He cheats on his wife with MULTIPLE people and still goes home.

[dewandaf]

Very well spoken! Now could you please say it out loud again to the Jezebel‘s in the back? I don’t think they heard you.

[ReasonablySpeaking]

The standard she’s talking about is being wifed up to even be bothered by him. The side chick settles for the crumbs he sparingly spreads out for her. Until the sidechick becomes crowned as a wife, there’s no comparing the two. Marriage is complicated because the dynamics are all slightly different. No two stories will ever completely be the same. One things for sure that she’s right on, you can’t compare the wife and the sidechick, because he married one and plays with the other.

[jacquelinemontgomery]

And what I find most disheartening is that people assume that the home life is off and that there must be “something” the wife is doing or not doing that is making him cheat. The reality is that cheaters cheat because they want to and they can. Some men never go on a journey of self-improvement. Some men have no integrity and see nothing wrong with that lifestyle. It literally is not about the wife. And BTW women cheat too. Bottom line is this, don’t get confused and start blaming the wife for any of it. Often they are indeed the LAST to know due to the amount of love, affection, sex, care, attention the husband gives her while is also cheating the entire time. So no, side chicks, you aren’t special.

[aspiringrootwoman]

The problem with this absolute statement is that exceptions absolutely exist. Men have, do and will leave their wives and even children for other women. A woman in love with a taken man will cling to these exceptions.

However, it's still not worth sticking around in hopes that you are history's next exception.

[MelanieWesley-uu]

Well the husband need to stay in his land because he put in him and his wife and Jeopardy I'm just saying there's lots of diseases out there so don't bring home to your wife😢😢😢😢😢