The #1 Reason You Can't Move On From The Narcissist

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Have you been stuck and unable to move on from the narcissist?

If this is where you’re at, let me be straight with you – there is an important reason for not being able to move on and it is based on a BIG LIE.

I believed this lie for a long time, I fell for it too but now I know better and I will never buy into it again.

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[Littlemissdirtbag]

Everything you say is on point. I am almost a year out after being discarded. I feel like narcissists get better and better with every relationship. They use what we say and add it to their repertoire. That makes me sick to think of actually. That a person could take my character traits, phrases, and mannerisms and use them on the next person as their own. But I digress. The thing that hurts me the very most is the fact that he moved on to a seemingly Great Big beautiful Life with zero repercussions. Most of us have been left with literally nothing. I ended up back at zero while he sailed right off into a rainbow sunset. He gave me nothing in 7 years, so I have come to the harsh conclusion that I was just put on his path to keep him company because he is so weak and miserable, on his road too connecting with his true love. I really hope I get enormously blessed for all of this! LOL But It kills me that I let myself down. That I lied to myself everyday trying to justify the reasons I stayed or the reasons why he was so weird. It's just crazy. And then to come out of it so isolated because you had to hide the truth from your family and friends. In my case, all of my friends had moved on with their lives. I am 49 and I would love to think that the second half will be easier. Love and light to all of you! I hope we all are able to release our pain and ascend to something better.

[rascallyrabbit]

When learning to play a sport, the teacher, coach, breaks your bad habits asap. If not, you may never be able to swing the bat or the racket or throw the ball right. Bad habits are very, very strong. Similarly, breaking the behaviors that allow us to be treated poorly by mean people is difficult. We need loving, kind caring people in our lives to experience something other than crap.

[angelafalsetta]

Thank You, Melanie for that clarity and peace. I've missed you! I am still following you with much gratitude at all times.

[itisalright]

As an adult child of a Narc and Co-dependent, I have ALWAYS made bad relationship choices. Please don’t do this to your children.

[thechaostrials]

I no longer think we should call these situations "relationships." They are hostage situations. Period. Great video. I find myself telling myself these lies. Thank you!

[kentburge]

I feel like I have had 3 lifetimes of experience gifted to me. I have worked in 8 different countries around the world for over 15 years. I have seen the best and the worst of humanity. My wife of 5 years, the last 2 estranged after police intervention, has taken my mind and psyche to places I have not imagined.
The self lies you discuss are my present experience, and this has caused me to analyze every aspect of my personality and character. I was informed yesterday that my "wife" has remarried. I am truly a mess trying to unravel this overwhelming event.
Thank-you for these video's, they are God sent!!!
I need to join NARP, but everything was decimated with the abuse.
🙏🏼🔥💪🏽 🌱

[jmazibrada]

You are amazing, keep sharing your amazing teachings and experience. In the darkness of narcissistic abuse, you are the light that leads the way out to freedom and thriving. Thank you!

[sueharrison]

What an amazing video Melanie, thank you, I needed to hear this as I have been having difficulty in letting go completely from the toxic people in my life but understanding I never had a true relationship with them in the first place has helped me to see that really, there is nothing to let go of anyway, I was fooling myself all along but that was because I needed to heal myself first before I could recognise these people were bad for me and why I had attracted them in the first place. I love your gentle, nurturing style and I'm very grateful to have found your videos, thank you x

[winniewinkles]

Thank you Melanie. Perfect timing as just got hoovered out of nowhere. Love you.

[almariswart]

Awesome lectures. You're one of few that do not irritate with your tone and hand movements while talking. Very very appropriate, thank you.🌷🌷💞

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[lesleyella]

I jumped from a physically abusive relationship to a bad emotionally abusive one. That was rough. I'm trying to move on now but I feel so emotionally numb now that I feel like I'm in a relationship for the sake of it....

[leannegonzales]

Why do I feel wrong talking to another person after I’ve been divorced ?

[stephentreanor]

I’m sure I’ve just been done over from a narcissist!!! She’s a women who’ve I’ve know for a few years. She’s a yoga teacher and a few years ago we had sex, we was going to have a relationship however I said to her and myself very clear that I wanted to take things very slowly. She said ok, she was going on a date with someone else however she wasn’t going to go out with him now that knew there was something else going on with me and her and I said ok that’s fair enough however if things don’t work out then don’t blame or get angry with me for not going on the date. Anyway I split with her and she went mental at me and blame me for her not going on that date! 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️
Anyway recently we’ve been in touch and we’ve been flirting again and she’s said to me last week that she doesn’t want a relationship with me and that’s ok with me because I said the same and that I don’t want a relationship at the moment! However she said she would like sone fun which to me and she obviously meant sex which I said was ok because I was up for a bit of fun aswell. She said I was coming on too strong with sone of my texts which is and was fair enough and I acknowledged that however she continued and mentioned about a few sexual things re us so I said yes and I agreed however today she’s trying to say that’s not what she meant she was just looking for fun and what she meant by that was just hugs and some kisses and a bit of food and she said that it was just me and what I was wanting basically I was just thinking it up!!! Wtf is that all about

[chrisramsey]

My problem. Is the truth is. Since elementary im only meant to be with my first girlfriend twin flame. The lie is her having a bunch of kids by another man her married to another man. Me divorced no kids from another woman who is re married, me single, me with new girls, me with new ways. Me letting go of the past, me leaving the past in the past.