Retroactive Jealousy: 3 Things That Are Keeping You STUCK

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Hi there, we are Eva & Sean Harrison.
A married couple that has overcome retroactive jealousy, ROCD and general relationship anxiety. The first few years together we really struggled with these issues and today we work together to help individuals and couples who feel overwhelmed, anxious, frustrated and stuck due to intrusive thoughts and mental movies regarding their partner’s past and/or doubts about their relationship today.

Whether you suffer from Retroactive Jealousy, ROCD, Relationship Anxiety or just want some invaluable relationship advice we hope our content helps you.

If you’re an individual or couple suffering with anxiety, confusion, anger, disgust, judgement, intrusive thoughts, trust issues, numbness, uncertainty in your relationship and are trying to keep it together on the outside but are suffering daily on the inside or if you’ve Googled or looked up “Overcoming Retroactive Jealousy”, “Overcoming ROCD”, “Relationship Anxiety symptoms”, “ROCD / Retroactive Jealousy why do the thoughts feel so real?”, “How to stop wishing your partner's past was different”, “How to treat ROCD”, “Intrusive thoughts and compulsions in relationships”, “Feeling doubt/questioning my relationship”, “Cure for Retroactive Jealousy?”, “How to overcome Retroactive Jealousy”, “ROCD / Relationship Anxiety or wrong relationship?”, “Relationship OCD urge to break up”, “ Retroactive Jealousy symptoms”, “ROCD symptoms” you’ve come to the right place.
The people we have worked with have experienced and processed how and why these things showed up in their relationships. As well as how it lead to them having intrusive thoughts, feeling angry, sad, anxious and like they are self sabotaging their relationship.

DISCLAIMER: Any information or advice we give is purely based on our own experience, learning and research as well as the methods utilised in Rapid Transformational Therapy, NLP and Hypnotherapy. These methods can be used to get to the root cause of any issue but are not for everyone. There is no guarantee as there are many variables that will impact your success. We are not doctors and always encourage you to work with your doctor for your medical care. If you are in a life threatening situation or contemplating suicide, please seek appropriate medical and professional help.

[jordanjuliau]

the thing about beliefs is the hardest... i didn't even know i had these beliefs in me, i didn't choose them. plus in my case i'm a bit misogynistic because i never applied them to myself. i'm going to overcome this ####

[LexiEhle]

eva you're such a blessing. thank you for making all these videos for free!

[tracey-sharonrobertson]

Writing down all my questions has helped me.. i can let the urge go to ask a question better when Iv written them somewhere like on my phone and I know they’re there and not going anywhere.. then im able to move on with my day easier thinking, ok, they’re written down let them go, I don’t need to ask these questions today… and I keep pushing day by day & forget most of them eventually. But the thing is when I spiral then I want to wip them out and have them all answered in one go🙈

The compulsions and waiting to ask for the reassurance is spot on
Thank you for this advice so greatful for you! 🙏🏼

[zoborzo]

This crazy mental thing came to me now after 20 wonderful years of feeling her incondicional love towards me since day 1. She told everything about her past relationship and it never bothered for a second. But now, out of nowhere so many years later came this RJ that is killing me. I’m managing and doing the right thing Eva tell us to do. When I mentioned this to my wife her first reaction was that I was talking about people she hasn’t heard or think about in over 30 years. I know I’ll come out this stronger

[Mynhassty]

Thank you so much for making these videos, they are helping me a lot

[scottcourtin]

Amazing explanation. Makes all my feelings make sense

[errelui]

I've found your channel by chance but I must admit I'm really growing into liking your contents. It's not just what you say, but the calmness, the warmth, the tenderness in your voice and attitude that makes what you say so relieving.

I'm a guy from Italy, I'm 35, and I've been heavily suffering from RJ for a long time, but I haven't really ever decided to go to therapy and try to fix it, because the time between relationships where I was hit by RJ gave me the illusion that RJ was behind me.

My English level is B2-C1 and I wonder if that could be ok to book an appointment with you, I'm really thinking about it.

I'm also looking for a psychotherapist here in Italy (Milan) but the research process alone is so demanding and frustrating, because you see these many doctors who will all have their references and different approaches (gestalt, psychoanalytic, cognitive behavioral etc) and I really can't see through it.

Anyway I hope you get this message.

[DFS-yn]

Thank you for the video and for your work Eva !

[MyTherapyJourney]

I really want to get a hold of this. I am absolutely happy and in love with my current girlfriend and have even talked about getting married someday. But, the RJ is driving me crazy because she has much more broad past than I do, with a lot of casual hookups and friends with benefits. I know it was before me and shouldn't matter, but it is driving me crazy.

[megangriffin]

My partner told me on our first date about an uncomfortable part of his sexual history and I’ve not stopped thinking about it since. I look back on what should be happiness in our relationship and it’s not it’s regret and sadness. It’s killing me. Every day I’m plagued with thoughts and images and questions comparing myself. I feel like he is who he is because of the person from his past which makes me feel like I can’t be with him because he “is the past” if that makes sense. Please can someone help me

[Wirnax]

Hi Eva, I am currently in a relationship with an amazing girl whom I really connect with on a deeper level. I want to address it immediately that I have a huge hsitory (way bigger than her) when it comes to relationships, partying, one night stands etc. The thing that bothers me is of course RJ, I can't stand the fact that she had some weird stories before me. It keeps destroying my humor and it makes me even wanna break up with her, which I believe is not a good idea. We are currently having a long distance relationship, hence I can't just let it go and enjoy the tme with her. What could I do to feel a bit less stressed about RJ? I am completely not afraid of the present situation, I am not jealous about "now" i am more disgused about the past. Thank you for the answer and keep up the good work!

[vitalijavitalijaa]

What would you say if RJ makes you really depressed or even suicidal? I have a history of depression and anxiety. Feels like I am so much better on my own but the second i am in a relationship that’s it… I am really trying but I have more bad days than good ones, its so draining, it affects my health, mood..

[izziesvids]

what if my boyfriend feels like this too?