My 10 month old cries and screams whenever I'm not holding him. What can I do?

[omfvibe]

Thanks for keeping it short. Would of hated to wait 15mins to find out I’m screwed lmao

[LatinaMuslimAndProud]

It’s hard to let your baby cry especially when you have Nosy neighbors

[CristinaF]

my dear friend you have FINALLY the very best advice ive seen here on youtube, i also have 2 boys who are grown now, i made sure they wouldnt cry like this, babies eally dont like to be picked up live them alone to grow, they do by self sooth we are the ones with the problem we are the ones who cant let them go, we are the ones who pick them up ALL DAY LONG, especially family members and friends, trust me i asked everyone to NOT pick them up, and they were happy most of the time only got fussy when hungry i made sure i was not late for feedings this way they were trained to sleep right after feeding time, around 6 months old, and solids start to come in the picture they stop sleeping so much i gave them lots to do, by the time night time came, they never cried because they were tired and fell asleep, now, because they werent picked every second of the day, they DID NOT KNOW that so they slept like little angels only woke up to feed.

[countrygirlxo]

I regret breastfeeding with my second child. He is constantly screaming, crying and fussy. Everyone assumes “he just needs boob.”
No he doesn’t I need space and air, all I hear is a crying baby all day everyday. I don’t get any alone time and I never leave the house alone because everyone refuses to watch him. People act like it’s such a privilege being a stay at home mom. I can promise you working all day is 1, 000X easier then actually having to raise your kids all day. You never get breaks, you never get to have fun alone, and everyone thinks it’s wrong to complain about how hard it is. Yet i know more moms who choose daycare over being a stay at home mom.
My first was a breeze and my second makes me question why I had kids to begin with 😩
No matter what the situation is you cannot keep him happier then just a minute or two. And he has always refused a pacifier. So every bank, grocery store, or school stop is literally a ticking time bomb. Living like you’ve lost complete control over your own life 😔 I can’t wait till I get a job. Staying at home is literally 5 jobs in 1 and you’re never appreciated or paid

[atlas]

If only my extended family knew this was normal lol 😂 my baby is 10 months old and acts like this. My family thinks he's just overly spoiled.

[celiumeyama]

Thank you so much for this video.
I'm feel blessed because I have the chance to be full time with my son. But we live in Japan and I'm alone with my baby everyday because my husband works a lot to maintain us.
Last week my son started crying like crazy every time I put him on the floor to play, I can't take a shower because he screams and cries at loud and it is very frustrating not to know why he is behaving like this.
He is 1 year old and I search a lot about child psychology but I cannot find an answer. Am I not giving him enough love and attention???
I've been questioning myself, since everybody say that he is just spoiled and that I'm responsible for that. But I don't know what to do, I'm alone here, we don't have relatives or friends here, Japanese people don't like foreigners.

[lindafelgentreff]

Great tips, thanks :) my 10 months old is starting to show those signs, cries when no one is in the room etc. It's hard not to hold him everytime he cries 🤗

[Blazethedmn]

What if the baby is only 2 months old? His mom and I have to basically hold him at all times, I can't even sit down without him crying, I need to be standing and moving for him to fall asleep, and if I try to lay him down he'll start crying again.

[depressica]

I get so tired of everyone saying I spoil her. I DO NOT hold her constantly- sadly she spends a lot of time screaming and clinging to my pant legs or the baby gate. And I mean SCREAMING. I'd say half the time she gives up and plays independently but at least half the time she will continue screaming until I pick her up. I've never let it go on more than 20ish minutes because I just can't stand for her to be so distressed! There's been many times I HD to walk away and let another caregiver keep her safe while she throws a fit or else I wouldn't be able to keep my sanity intact. I had hoped she'd want down more as she became more mobile and began walking but I've seen no improvement. She was born prematurely, addicted to heroin and abandoned in the hospital so she has been seen by every specialist you could think of, all have said she h no deficits and is developing on track. I am the only caregiver she does this to, she plays independently when with my husband or mother. It's been a year now, I just can't take it anymore HELP US I can't stand to see her red faced and screaming so hard she gets choked up but I cannot hold her all day every day.

[Kayla-tseh]

When you say, they just cry a little bit and they get over it, not this baby I watch she will cry for hours on end until I pick her up. She cried for three hours straight one day because I’m caring for other children.

[JasamanAndEmmaA]

what if my baby cry for 3 straight hours, fall asleep, cry for another straight 3 hours and them I'm back…this is what my 9 months old does when I go to my work 3 times a week…driving me crazy…please advise. thanks

[brynettahill]

My baby cried when I put him down. He is 4 weeks. What can I do?

[mylifeCLHG]

My baby does this and she's only 4 months

[TinaTina-wtwu]

My baby just started crying after my aunt held her is this normal?she is 11 months

[sabaikram]

I have a 10 months old boy and je cries alot whenever i try to do household chores. What should i do? He cries alot for an hour unti I don't pick him up and after picking he cries in my lap too until he get relaxed. I am so frustrated 😢 what should i do

[stephaniebailey]

Thank you so much this is so helpful and my boyfriend and me when we find this it whis so helpful love you thank you

[mariamfishere]

You calling a baby manipulative is just the strangest thing I have heard in a while. This has been disproven for quite a while, and anyone who has a child should know better.

[SampadaPandit-bx]

My 15days old Baby cries whenever he is with me. No matter how much I try to console him he won’t stop crying but he stops crying when with others😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 M I not a good Mom🥺

[manasipritirekha]

I have a 6 month old girl. She is always happy and plays at home. But whenever I take her outside either to a friend's house or to any other place she starts to cry extremely and it's difficult to soothe her. Pls help me out

[brianrosales]

Like I want to build a bond with my son but he always cry’s for his mom an it hurt me inside when I get off work from a 12 hour day all I want to do is hold an spend time with him but he act like he don’t want me to hold him an cry’s for his mom is there anything I can do or is this just a face because it’s also hovering me an my wife promblem we’re I tell her why he never want me to hold him an it hurt you know so plz can anyone help me I’m a first time dad an don’t know what to do I’m crying as I wrote this because I want that bond with him but it seem as if I’m out of luck I know