Why Does He Keep Coming Back BUT WON'T COMMIT!

We've all seen it. A man doesn't seem that interested so you start to move on. Then, out of nowhere, he comes back but STILL wont commit to anything. Why does he keep coming back but wont get into a relationship? Why do men come back? What is his end game? Watch this video to find out!

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[rosieesposito]

They lie and tell you what you want to hear until they get you to bed

[gracelepri-valitutti]

No will he change of his decision. You aren't sleeping with him but attraction is there

[damaraking]

Paraphrasing "Everyone in the dating pool is single because they want to be single. They don't want a relationship. The good ones are already in relationships." I usually enjoy your videos and take something helpful away from them, but today's message was just depressing.

Sounds like I'm just SOL because there's no one left that will ever commit. I don't want to be single for the rest of my life! 😣 I was thrust back into the dating pool by a cheating ex husband, not because I wanted a divorce and wanted to be single forever. 😔

[brendabrogdon]

Don't have to ask because if he doesn't get sex by the second date or so, he ain't stickin around, unless he wants a relationship

[mj]

8 to 9 dates... normally a man knows what he wants... if you don’t have label or a decision by the last date hes just stringing you along... like 4 or 5 months he wants his cake and eat it too... he has more options on the side. While getting the “gf benefits.”

[RowdyYates]

I got the “Wanting to fool around bucket”, never even got a date. He would come back, then disappear for days. Only met twice, hardly know him, only wanted to do things on his terms

[amandamariemullins]

Easy to find out on date one by saying. “what are looking to get out of dating?”

[kimasp]

Like the saying goes "why buy the cow when the milk is free".

[Diabeteslovewithdee]

Mike, I agree by date 2, man will know. Great video and insights! Thank You!!

[anujasanghavi]

So I changed to telling the dates that I am looking for commitment/marriage by date two. This ways he knows what I’m looking for and if that’s not what he wants or thinks is happening between us will automatically move on.

[marlenelacamera]

5 or 6 max. Don't waste your time ladies! And be aware ...actions vs. words. Some will say they want a relationship only to keep a regular sex partner 😠!!

[helensilo]

Honestly I don’t know when or if I’d feel comfortable asking where is this going. I feel like if you don’t know then it’s not going anywhere.

[mariankolb]

I appreciate your advise very much! ... as you say- saves time. Very practical issue solutions so they don't cycle into problems.

[lynnemarylou]

Dating is not for hooking up it's for Gathering data...
Most guys are not suitable for a second date with me... it usually takes me 12 weeks to know if I like somebody enough to possibly consider them for husband material

[inyarays]

You are right! Date 5 or 6 seems reasonable

[GillyDavis]

That story was so worth it - reminded me of one of my favourite films, DEMOLITION MAN where going to Taco Bell was a big deal...made me laugh out loud!! I could even hear Sandra Bullock's voice...priceless!!

[catherinegruesbeck]

Date 8 is good, but sometimes it's love at first sight and to move on, as you say, is very very difficult.

[sfoster]

Yes! This is helpful. If I am very interested in him and I realize I can't tell what his intentions are, ASAP is the right time to ask about it. In my experience, guys usually make a run for it if they are not on the same page -- which, I agree with you, is far preferable to wasting my time, life, energy, emotions, hopes and dreams, and investing in the guy who just wants sex for whatever reason. Thanks for the heads up.

[jennettebaughan]

This is not helpful. I have a guy who I knew a long time ago. We accidentally met again after 20 years. That was 2 years ago. We talk we go out a few times. We get on each other's nerves we stop talking to each. Other. I get on with my life a year later he comes back we talk then we get irritated then we leave another year later here he is again now I am not interested in even talking to him

[sherripuckett]

Mike, Thanks again for the useful information! This actually worked twice to commitment to marriage for me. One no sex for two years as I’am 15. The other, sex on the first date. Though I definitely don’t recommend the later. Here’s the question I think most women find themselves in....when we have “decided” and are all in, we can’t always know about that commitment until 1. We are asked, 2. We push for it and get it. There is a “window of time” where if the man has known since date then clearly as women, we feel we should too! LOL Hopefully you understand? I guess the best way to describe this further is this.... a man is “sitting in his cave not communicating yet knows his intent with us, and carry’s on as if everything is “ moving forward “ when in fact, clearly he’s not going to commit. Intuition and Abundance are key! :)