Why Do Men Look But Not Approach?

[Tactur]

Most times when men never approach you or talk to you is because they can sense you are not the one to be played with. And most times its also Gods protection!

[victoriaxox]

If a man doesn't approach me, I definitely won't say anything to him first. A man is supposed to lead 🎯

[MsK_byTheWay]

Wow! - "A man that do not approach me, is my protection". I will never forget this great word sent from Heaven. Thank you so much Mr. Gaskins!

[char]

If a man stares and doesn’t approach he’s either taken or not interested enough to approach you.

[ed]

"A man not approaching you is a BLESSING" ladies let's not interrupt!

[cherh]

If he dont approach hes taken sis. Just know you still got it. Its on you! Keep looking good & smiling! 🫶🏾😂 New week, new blessings! 💫

[Kyregoodin]

I know there’s some of you women like me who can question themselves and wonder what’s wrong with us. If you’re bettering yourself and have a good heart, consider yourself lucky not to be asked out by a lot of these men, especially the ones YOU find attractive. God may be preventing unnecessary heartache…

[daluckyprincess]

Men around my age will look but never approach me, but old men and married men will, and I don’t want either of those two.

[cinemathequerouge]

I have interviewed literally Hundreds of men about dating & relationships. #1 reason men look & don't approach is fear of rejection. Men run a complicated calculus of whether or not it's safe to approach us. If they don't feel it's safe, they don't approach.

A lot of us shoot ourselves in the foot by going out in groups. Many men aren't going to approach you in a group, unless they are players. Guys don't want to be embarrassed. Ever notice when you somehow end up alone for a minute in a club that a guy might approach you? They feel safer then.

It has less to do with confidence than people believe. I have interviewed firefighters who are decorated heroes & have saved hundreds of lives, that are too afraid to approach a woman. I interviewed a man that climbed Mt Everest, a mountain that has claimed hundreds of lives, but is afraid to approach. Firefighters & mountain climber not confident? Nonsense.

A lot of guys, especially the best ones, are a little awkward when you first meet them. Don't focus on that too much. Once a guy gets comfortable with you they tend to be more confident.

Men are really simple once you understand this.

[Shygirl-bfkx]

So, why look and stare at me if you’re not attracted to me? What kinda mess is that?

[SharonReadsStories]

My husband never approached me because he thought I was married. He thought I was beautiful but wasn’t confident about approaching. I approached him because of his sweet spirit and genuine kindness and we’ll be married 8 yrs this year ❤

[kerryspencer]

Ladies, trust your season is coming!!! It’s better to be approached by NO ONE (even if this is literally for yearssss) rather than get approached by men you find intriguing or attractive and those relationships all fail because they’re not under the foundation of God. Just make sure you’re doing the work as Tony teaches and stay optimistic. You are worthy 💓

[tarahbruno]

“ A man that doesn’t approach you is your protection” that was a whooole word! No man is shy yours will come get you, just be patient

[DaintyAbby]

I get looks the time. Like staring. But they don’t say anything. Which is okay with me because I would only entertain a man thats man enough to talk to me 😬

[Prince-qrte]

A lot of the time I'll see a beautiful woman and think 'she's pretty' but then I remember I'm broke and have enough problems😅

[chaya]

I remember when I was around 21 I had a crush on this intern teacher at my job. We literally locked eyes when we first met and I felt the chemistry but he never approached me. I had the biggest crush on him for about six months ! He would just always stare at me whenever he saw me and only spoke to me like twice. It was so bad even my coworkers were like “he likes you”. One of ‘em even called themselves confronting him to see why he wouldn’t talk to me (I didn’t ask!)

Come to find out, he was the biggest flirt and had about two other female intern teachers that he had in rotation. I thought it was something wrong w/ me at the time (not pretty enough, was working as a custodian at the time so I felt he looked down on me) but now I understand that it was just God protecting me. It was such a shame tho cause he was so fine to me !

[lavonneevans]

Ladies if a man doesn’t approach you, he might already have one of your type in rotation. 😂

[MrsTruthTeller]

Both men and women have said to me, “You look like a woman that men have to bring their A-game to in order to approach you.” They say that I probably make too many men feel like they don’t have a chance. I used to feel bad about this but I don’t anymore. I’m so thankful that only the most accomplished and confident men approach me. Yes that means that I don’t get approached often but when I do, the man is always top tier and I love that.

[PinkHypatia]

Another reason a man would stare and not approach, is because the woman is showing off her body parts, which is visually attractive, but not what the man sees as wife material. So he just enjoys the eye candy.

[jessicascreenwritingservices]

This happened to me the other day while I was running errands. Staring extra hard and saying nothing. Super awkward at times.