5 Signs You Are Asexual

Hey Everyone! Soooooo it's been about a year since I did my first "5 signs you might be asexual" video and I thought to myself there are a lot more signs that I didn't go over so here are 5 more signs that you might be asexual. I hope you like these and if you have anymore signs that helped you figure out that you were ace comment them below!

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[lynnsaga]

I hope you guys enjoyed the video. Let me know what helped you figure out you're asexual!

[lannpast]

I didn't realize that you were supposed to feel physically hot when you find someone sexually attractive until this year.

[FlurryofDestiny]

My first sign that I was asexual was when I was first researching asexuality. My search went along the lines of “how do I know if I’m sexually attracted to someone” 😅

[best_of_ant]

In summary: cake, garlic bread, dragons ect. are the priority for us. Enough said

[danhurl]

Me: is absolutely certain I’m ace and has identified as such for years
Also me: watches this video

[doortjemennen]

I never think about sex, and I don't get why it's such a big deal. This video really helps me understands my asexuality better, thank you!

[squish]

As an aro/ace I just wanna say that there can be a deeper form of platonic love and relationships that can connect with things like sensual or physical attraction. This can lead to holding hands, cuddling, kissing, and even marriage and raising kids just as really good, warm, loving friends. I like to think of it as a super friend. You may be aro/ace if you're looking for a (platonic) relationship that revolves around warm hugs and cuddling on the couch under your favorite blanket while watching finding nemo on repeat and eating ice cream. This took me a long time to understand and I hope I can help at least one other person discover who they truly are. I love you all <3

*edit* h o l y f r i k... i forgot i commented this lol. thanks for all the support <3

[princessaur]

I'm someone who very deeply craves romantic interactions like dates, snuggles, and kisses, but I can't find anyone who's willing to take it slow before having sex. I'm the type of asexual who isn't crazy about sex myself but am willing to do it with my partner if it's what they want. So long as I've spent time getting to know them first and they're not pushy about it or don't expect it from me constantly.

[megsnets]

The only thing that was keeping me in doubt is that I like the idea of sex in a fictional sense, and I sometimes like to think about dating a fictional character, but that’s where it ends. Even then I don’t feel like an attraction, I just think to myself “huh, that seems nice.” I’ve never had a crush or have even felt attracted to anyone in person. This really confirms things for me! Thank you for these videos I am 15 years old and I feel so left out because I am not experiencing the same feelings as the other people my age, so hearing the experiences of others is really helpful!! ☺️

[Cherrycreamsoda]

Holy crap! When I clicked on this video I didn't expect to relate to so many of the signs. I also thought that you couldn't be asexual if you have sexual fantasies sometimes (that I would NEVER be comfortable doing in real life).
As for the last one, as a demi I do feel like my life would be missing something if I never had sex at all, but I don't want to do it unless I meet the right person.

Love your sunny and bright outlook and thanks for the content Lynn :)

[Kotifilosofi]

I haven't seen your first video, but one sign could be that you're completely content and satisfied with mas-turbati0n. Allosexual people usually aren't, since they naturally yearn for a partner for sex. I was always confused why everyone thinks self-pleasuring isn't "enough" like it was such a poor substitute of "the real thing" that you couldn't even compare the two. So, if you've been thinking what you'd even need a partner there for, or that a partner might just make things more difficult and less pleasurable, chances are you're ace 😁

[sukssvk]

I've been questioning whether or not I'm ace for like the longest time and I'm not really sure if I'm genuinely asexual or if it just stems from me being insecure and having trust issues; like maybe I just don't want to be intimate with someone because I don't want them to see my body or because I'm afraid of being used for my body. But like I've had sexual feelings before but they were never directed towards anyone? Like when my friend told me that they literally look at people and think sexual thoughts or only think or look at their crush and get sexually aroused, I was like really surprised since I don't think I've ever looked at someone and had genuine sexual fantasies or arousal from them lol.
But I've watched all of your asexual and non-binary videos and they've helped a lot, so thank you <3

[_anonymous_creature_]

Recently, I was doubting my ace-ness (probably because I'm planning on coming out about it soon and was second-guessing myself), and OMG THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS VIDEO

It reminded me that I truly am asexual, and I don't have to worry about coming out for no reason, because there IS a reason: I'm ace!

October 11, National Coming Out Day...

I hope it goes well!!

[stanjypnorloseurnails]

Honestly, I’ve had trouble figuring out if I am ace, since the thoughts of doing sexual things often cross my mind. I personally do not like the idea of having sex, nor do I feel the need to have it. But these thoughts keep coming back to me. I really can’t control them. They always appear at the most random times, which I hate. I really despise these thoughts. They are very disturbing.

[timefliesaway]

2:34 another version of this:
If you like watching sex, but only when others do it. As soon as you imagine yourself or look at POV Fanart, you cringe and find it really disgusting or unnecessary.
That doesn’t mean you might not like masturbation. You can still masturbate a lot, but it just means you can’t imagine getting intimate in that way with someone else.

[sebastianarviso]

Yeah. Looking back at my life there were a few events that had gotten me considering that I might be asexual throughout my life, but what really made me realize it and commit to saying "I'm asexual" was a friend I made a college.

She was very open and vocal about sex and held some sexual attraction for me, and that relationship really brought a lot of the confusion and doubts I had regarding my sexuality to the forefront and eventually made me realize that I just didn't have those desires.

We are still good friends though!

[vg]

the lesbian masterdoc helped me realise that I'm demi specifically one question which was along the lines of "when you fanatsize about sexual acts with men, they are all faceless" which made me ask "wait...everyone is faceless in my fantasies unless I'm REALLY into someone....is that not normal?" and made me spiral down a rabbit hole of research on the topic

[NetolStargazer]

Only realized I was Ace this year and wow this list hit home with me…
Also got a sign you might be: when you’re actively annoyed at all the books you read being way too focused on relationships
I kid you not when I was a teen I actively was looking for an action adventure book with a female lead without a relationship in the focus of the story…. And wow that was hard to find. I thought I found one by the description, took it home and found in the first chapter she had a vampire boyfriend, closed the book and never opened it again because of how annoyed I was. XD

[cerise]

I am asexual!!!! I can feel deep deep love and romantic attraction, but I never think about sex…

[imogenfleming-yates]

the first point is why i was questioning my sexuality. i can think about scenarios and be okay with it, but then when i've been confronted in real life with a situation like it, i couldnt do it and actually started feeling physically sick and it was horrible. in general, im just questioning everything right now but this helped a little