Is the Death rattle uncomfortable…. And how do we know?!?!

[darcyjeanske]

Unfortunately it's not Tik Tok sensoring you. It was someone reporting you, that should've just continued to swipe. I'm a nurse and have learned so much from you. Thank you so much for spreading your education and experience with us.💕

[SalvusGratiumFidem]

my grandpa's death rattle started yesterday and he died at 5am today at complete peace and pain free

[SuperLuila]

Dearest nurse Julie, I am so thankful and grateful to you ❤ my mum passed away yesterday. I was caring for her this past year but the last two months were so hard. Thankfully I found you and learned so much about the dying phase. I had confidence in my instincts and her cues, and she passed so peacefully. It was such a beautiful experience, so gentle and natural even though she was terminally ill. I held her hand and she took her last breath and then closed her eyes herself. She was laying on her side and the rattle was very soft, then the secretions dribbled out at the end. Thank you with all of my heart ❤️

[jesusnova]

Julie, don't worry about these people that should just move on and not watch your videos. This is educational and very much a comfort to us I'm a former nurse, seen much of this and also sat with my own mom, but she passed in her sleep. You're precious Julie to us, we've got your back!

[chelled]

Thank you for taking the time to reply to us in videos. I asked the drowning question & was worried they might be silently suffering. Explaining how they aren’t acting restless or agitated helped me understand why they’re actually okay.

Side note: It’s unfortunate TikTok doesn’t approve of some content; a lot of us think your videos should be viewed by everyone. This sort of information is so important and can give people real peace when it comes understanding the process of dying.

[georginagarcia]

Ive beem through the hospice process twice in the last 18 months with both of my husband's parents. Hospice staff are amazing. Thank you for your educational videos.

Can you do a video about Death Doulas?

[yawn]

My mom just died. We had hospice for a week. The doctor told me hospice wasn’t available in my area which that was false. I wish I would have researched it earlier. She died of congestive heart failure. I was with her and took a bathroom break. I heard her groan (she had not made any sound for two days) I hurried back to her and she took her final 2 breaths. What do you think the groan was? She waited until I couldn’t see 🤷‍♀️. I’m very sad about that. Graveside is Wednesday. Hospice is wonderful. I wish I had found them earlier.
Oh and my mom died at 8:32. The nurse had a newborn grandson born at 8:31. Amazing. Thank you for your videos. You were a lifeline during this process. ❤

[nikki.watts.]

I have watched almost all of your videos. I have to say that your beauty is comforting. Your nature is loving and it's not messy. Thank you for giving your knowledge to us.

[lunnaticfringe]

Its the Ignorance, I despise, Here you are, a Hospice Nurse, a educator our lifes ending.I witnessed my wifes passing in a hospice home in Redding, Ca.4 yrs back.
Im weeping as im texting, not sad, but remembering how hospice staff were just remarkable to Linda (emphysima) .Hospice Nurseswere soft, gentlegenuine, yet keeping information on her non stop to me her sons, and my after care which they called 2 to 3 times a month see how I managing, for at least 6, 7 months, then a final call after a year of her passing .
May our Heavenly Father continue blessings on you Julie and all that helped w/Lindas crossing over to the realm of GOD.
Please dont stop your educating us, im still learning
Peace and Joy
AMEN.

[bobbianderson]

I recently learned my time is limited with Pancreatic cancer. Thank you for helping me have a better understanding of what is to come. Not afraid at all just a bit sad I will not get to see a few events in my children's life. Plus I got a great husband I hate leaving so much work to.

[amandadavis]

While there are plenty of videos of the birthing stage, they are the only two certain things to happen in life, and since discovering you, you have given me so much hope and knowledge for when the time comes for my elderly parents ❤️ I thank you so much for this and the job you do 🌟

[lauramerrick]

That's one of the things that is disturbing to me, I have had the pleasure of being with loved ones as they were leaving this life behind. Sounds like I'm feeling glad their going but I'm not I have Love for them all to this day. Thank You for the explanation of this..

[powerWithinUs]

Would that we but know…..it’s a natural process, a gentle process, in love and honor.

So gracious and loving…you are doing such a service.

[susiepummill]

i appreciate these videos more than you can possibly imagine. thank you so much for doing these. My mom is dead 20 years now, and dad 18, i still grieve and recall their last days. these videos bring me a lot of peace.

[dandefinds]

Thank you SO much for talking about a topic most do not want to speak about. I was caregiver for my Mother and both my husband's parents as the went through the dying process. Each experience was so different. Kind of like the birth experience. The mechanics are the same/similar but how they play out is unique. Keep sharing with us. It helps so much.

[dmfiar]

I am so glad you do this. Talk about the death and dying process

[pepperjonesugoChristian]

I’m soooo glad for the professional education that this platform provides. I don’t want to go to medical school or read a book on death and dying to get this info or even to know that I need it. Death & Dying is a hard subject to face and I’m grateful to be introduced in a comforting way. Thanks content provider.

[judymelchert]

That was the hardest part for me sitting with my husband as he was passing. You feel lost and want to do something to help them.

[carladowell]

Thank you so much for all your videos. My mother was in home hospice and I was her caregiver. I have worried about so many things and if I let her down in someway. She had the death rattle and I have always thought she drowned in fluids. I was so afraid she suffered.

[sarahrobertson]

Just sat with my mother in law lastnight at hospice house she spiked a fever of 101, death rattled started, breathing was fast and short, her eyes dilated and she was gone.. her poor body had been through so much I’m so glad she can finally rest… thank you for creating these videos it helped me explain the process better to my hubby❤