Get Over 'the One That Got Away'

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[Chunckycheese]

We are here listening to this because we are hurt right now. I hope we all heal from this experience and meet someone who is right for us. With love ❤

[oneliamar]

"We obsess over these things that feel like the're millimeters away. But a millimeter is as good as a mile". This one is so good !

[carolinegalarneau]

I am currently going through a breakup, In the past, such moments left me feeling hopeless, but this time, I feel empowered and optimistic. While I still acknowledge the pain, it was his decision, it isn't mentally draining me as it used to. Thanks to your videos, podcasts, and advice on handling breakups, I have found strength. I love this man and wish him well, but for both our sakes, it is best that we move on, we never know what tomorrow is made of and we can start looking forward with optimism.

[jocelyn]

The tragic dream of what could have been seems to be more beautiful to us than the reality of a true relatioship.
It takes no work, but it also contains no depth

[AbrahamKingston]

No marriage or relationship is flawless; they're all different. What works for one person might not work for another. But I've figured out that there's always a way to fix things when there's a problem. Five years back, my wife and I were on the brink of divorce because of issues in our marriage, but we found a way to fix them. It was hard, but we made it through.

[northshorelight]

Get with a man who loves you and wants to build with you. Anyone outside of that is wasting your time.

[Cata.w]

Remember the other person's actions. Not only what they said. It's a way to help put your feet on the ground again. And not to just stay in "dream land". Thank you bought Matthew and Audrey. Great topic. So relatable.

[MonaMarMag]

When comes to love relationship you do not lose person that was not for you .
Simple as that .

[damienbates]

Note to the dreamers. Get out of your head and live! Choose Do over Dream and you’ll be happier more often than not.

[ruchaabhyankar]

20:52: "It is okay to grieve the disappointment of not having someone turn out to be the one, but do not grieve them as if they were the one."

That one hit hard ❤

[ChickyPuppyDragon]

The right person, always be right anytime.

[reke]

Bro I’ve never felt so positively attacked in my life. I need to get this man’s books. Speaking absolute facts.

[ojaspatel]

I know this material is more for women, but I just wanted to let you know that this 32 year old man has been coming to your content for years through his journey. Applying the lessons I learn from you has helped me heal and overcome pain and longing that was just not ever going to let me be open to the kind of relationship I'm looking for. So excited to be in on the weekly newsletter.

[rachelnelson]

I had an aha moment in this. When you said that a relationship is something you actively construct together. As an artist, it made sense to me - like, just because you can draw really well doesn't make you an artist...it's you deciding to actively engage in art-making on a regular basis. If there's no constructing something together, there's no relationship (only chemistry).. chemistry and talent are sparks that can ignite, but they are not the fire. A fire takes time to build and energy to maintain.

[thecommonsensecapricorn]

His perspectives and delivery of them is just so comforting to me. This is the kind of people I want in my life.

[PtolemyXVII]

If two people are meant to be together, nothing can stop them. Right person wrong time is an asymmetrical relationship which was most likely lukewarm and typically only one person mourns the loss or else both knew intuitively it wasn’t the relationship for them

[retry]

After 9 years of a mature fairytale relationship, a 10 mins of break up talk and 4 years of no contact have been messing up with my mind until now...This episode was so right on time for me and I will share it with him after keeping my silence for so long.If life gets in the way and you quit the right person just like that it means it has never been the right person but it was the right time to end that relationship.Frozen desire can make you waste your soul for a long time.Thank you for the insight.

[cyndijohnson]

It’s only the right person wrong time if you end up with that person later on and you’re looking back at the past . All relationships are the right person at the right time, and that means literally nothing about the longevity of the relationship

[ninag]

The point Matthew was trying to make is logical. We only say it's hard because we're thinking with our feelings but it is absolutely necessary to not think with how we feel, but with our logical minds. I always try to remember that it's never good to be self-indulgent with our sorrow, you can feel it, feel the sadness and grief but orient yourself to see it for what it was. We have to be the adult for our own selves and fighting what is, the reality, is not kind or helpful.

[LaiYunLuk]

The wisdom here is immense. There is no ordained ONE. Indeed relationship is as beautiful as the two people have build it. ❤❤