Will Time Make My Ex Miss Me Or Forget About Me?

Will time make your ex forget about you? Many people believe that right after a breakup and that is what Coach Lee discusses in this video.

Many times people assume that their ex flicked a switch and now feels nothing for them. Coach Lee explains that it seems this way because of the relief your ex feels after going through with the breakup.

This, as Coach Lee explains, is temporary, and time is on your side.
Your ex will begin to experience the reality of the breakup, if you let them by going into no contact and by stopping any begging, pleading, showing up, etc.

Once your ex begins to experience the reality of the breakup, the tables can turn between the two of you and it becomes more difficult on your ex since the positive feelings of getting the awkwardness of breaking up with you over with and the consequences become more apparent.

It is at this point that your ex will remember you in ways even more powerfully than when the two of you were together and this can often work strongly to your advantage.

[kfner]

As a dumper that felt the need to get out of the relationship some time before doing so, I can absolutely attest to what Coach Lee is saying. It was instant relief but then two weeks afterwards, for whatever reason, I just felt empty. I wanted to reach out a few times but decided against doing so as we had some fundamental issues and differences that we could not work on during our relationship. We were not meant to be, and that's ok.

[paradiseisland]

No contact really works, but there’s a wrong way and right way about it, if you’re just doing no contact just for your ex to reach out to you you’re sadly mistaken, when no contact is really working on your end you’ll start to feel like you don’t want that ex back, you can start to live your life without them

[WildSarah]

I’ve seen a lot of people making comments that after few months they should give up, it’s not worth it. Or even after years. I think the main problem is to make it an obsession. It’s extremely difficult to not think about your ex or wanting them to comeback. But in the end, the NC is for YOU. It’s to make you realize you’re in control of your life! You have to believe that your ex will be back even though you don’t know when or how. But at the end of the day, you’re doing this for yourself. To heal and move on. Once they’re back, you’ll be different and that’s the moment you decide to take them back or not. You are in control of all this. You’re the one changing and you’re making a change in your life.

[huzaifamoiyadi]

Patience and Time are the two most powerful weapon

[seankanter]

They may not forget about you but they can emotionally detach from you. BIG difference.

[oneputtsteven]

No contact is the challenge of lifetime. No contact if you do it right, makes you emotionally stronger and more disciplined. Also the dumpeee must confront their demon of insecurity, clingyness, neediness etc,

[deepakanjna]

No contact seems a win-win situation to me. It's probably the wisest strategy to get your ex back and if they don't come back it makes us habitual to their absence, as time passes we start to feel alive on our own.

[mindofzyzz]

You need to be mentally strong for your ex but most importantly for yourself. A weak minded person will come back crying to their ex. So be strong and different from 99% of others who failed.

[freecollins]

One of the strongest points of negotiation, is walking away and meaning it.

[amyjin]

Yes no contact works great. He begged to get me back after 2 weeks of no contact. Thank you coach lee.

[wheatberry]

Absence makes the heart grow fonder ... or go wander ? It's the waiting to find out that is almost unbearable !

[christopherrivera]

Time is the dumpees best friend. I’ve seen and I’ve been through this before that when I did no contact with my previous relationships and focused on myself and didn’t care about them they contacted me out of the blue but not to go back in the relationship is to see what I’ve been going through. Time and space is the best way to create the best version of yourself and focus on it. Don’t do this for your ex do this for yourself and become the price, don’t chase the price because that’s what your ex wants from you, is to become desperate and needy

[usaboyclipar]

Sixty days after NC, she reached out to me (my relationship was LDR even in pandemic, but we were able to meet up) I promise that I thought I had zero odds but... Trust in NC, trust in coach Lee, trust in you.

[robertrachow]

4 yr breakup out of nowhere. She got into a rebound within 2-3 months....been 8 months since breakup. Going from talking to someone everyday to never is a tough adjustment. Regardless of what happens I trust things will work out for the best; regardless of what the best means.

[anewloveofficial]

This is so true and I really hate to hear this kind of reason "It's not you, it's me".
I hate this words so much and It makes us wonder why did they change.

[cmajor]

Month 3 of NC has just begun. Wondering why she hasn't reached out yet. Wondering if she thinks I'm angry at her (which I'm not.) Sometimes I feel like she'll never reach out. But then I remind myself that it's only been two months. Feels like forever, but I know those negative feelings that she had toward me built up over many, many months. Need to give her more time to let those negative emotions fade and let her remember how good of a relationship we once had. Staying strong, but she is always on my mind. Still love her dearly.

[ambriahughes]

I have no desire to take anyone back that didn’t want me in the first place. I was told to move TF on. So imma hold my ex situation-ship to his word and move on. I just want everybody including myself to be happy ❤️🙏🏾

[tesateller]

So true....he contacted me....but I just played it was nice to him....i don't think I want him back....he lost a good thing....he knows that....time will tell where this all goes....thank you for your advice!

[razorts]

These words are so good, I'm going through a break up after 5 years, a week a go I was a mess, today I'm in no contact after a week, feeling better/stronger every day, focusing on myself, getting out socialising with Friends also new Friends, working on my health and my physical appearance, thanks again great channel :-)

[chlochlo]

3 months during no contact 😌🤍
We were together for 6 months

Mostly if people break up with you it’s 2 reasons

1.) they found someone else who they think is better than you.

2.) no more spark.