5 Eye Opening Narcissist Text Messages (and How to Respond)

If you're in a relationship with someone who displays narcissistic tendencies, it can be difficult to know what to do when they start sending text messages like these. In this video, we'll take a look at 5 eye opening text messages from narcissists and offer some advice on how to respond.

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[Carmel-noku]

The worst part of a narcissistic relationship is that feeling even after you know and you see and you trying to get away you trying to leave but they're still that feeling that pulls you like you're obligated and then you actually love them and you want to see him and then when you go back you start feeling the same way he's still doing the same

[arviebyse]

I, just did. I ran away! I never dealt with a narcissist until now. They are liars, liars, liars.

[charlottepembroke]

For me, it went from text messages ALL DAY EVERY DAY telling me I was gorgeous, beautiful, perfect, sexy, amazing - to suddenly nothing. Radio silence, just like that.

[healthadvisor]

I had a friend like this. I know better when she comes back around. Not interested in continuing the relationship. I'm not a therapist; that's all I ever was. I'm sick of these people. Literally.

[Dawood-pily]

Never run. Prove them to be the coward. Stand ten toes down on the truth and as long as you know you were sincere with no agendas then after many attempts to win you back they will shut up and run from you: because you are the strong one. Narcissists a weak and sensitive and I’ve made her cry numerous times with the truth. I gave her what she gave me and she didn’t like it.

[kat-]

Your time is very important. TY for sharing with the abused public.

[Hannah]

OMG I'm laughing so hard at everything you said bc it's ALL so true. I never knew what a Narcissist was until I met one. But after the relationship ended which left me emotionally traumatized, I couldn't figure him out so I prayed & asked God why did he treat me like he did. The message came back, loud & clear, "he's a narcissist".
So I started viewing videos like yours, to find out what in the world was a Narc??
Sad to say it took me 8 years to get over him( my fault, I couldn't let go).
We were not sexually involved, thank God & we lived a couple hours from each other
I'm wondering why is it that all Narcs are the same, as if they're reading from a script...weird.
Ty for your teaching...you're awesome! 👍

[MrRichlisa]

Word for Thank you. To a Tee!!! Sad part of it is I was aware that it might be a narcissist and I CHOSE to ignor the warnings. Because I wanted it to work. I believe always go with your gut feelings.

[ckyung]

1. Love bombing
2. Devalue
3. Future faking
4. Ghosting
5. Bragging

My ex insisted that we could be friends immediately after they dumped me. A week later, out of the blue, without me asking anything about their personal life, they texted and bragged about having fun sex with coworkers.

[yukio_saito]

It's so annoying to read their self-centered messages. Everything they say in a message is tedious and meaningless. Throw it into a trash bin and RUN away🏃🏃‍♂🏃‍♀

[touchofclass]

I truly have to thank you personally! I did not know what a narcissist was until I married one! Happily divorced now!

[fredericklegrande]

Constant behaviors and goals: Always want or are looking for an opportunity to sue you or someone else. They always blame everyone for their mistakes....car accidents, child custody loss, can’t find a job, ch victims of cheating in every way

[sda]

I stopped posting to instagram because of all the ridiculous love bombing messages. I just couldn’t handle it.

[romanrobinson]

I love this woman for real, I wish I knew this stuff sooner, I know what to do now

[michaelpiper]

My EX narc would say tome when I tried to tell her about my day or my problems Don’t bring that negativity home to me. I don’t want to hear about it

[mendy]

Every time I would try to get out he would say he was going to kill himself.

[Kyuslydian]

Absolutely. I've had literally thousands of messages often wall of txt messages from someone diagnosed with bpd but who also fits the npd criteria. "Hey how are you?" quickly followed by a wall of txt message about them and not much if any acknowledgement of how I'm doing. You hit the nail on the head.

[Theunbelievabletruth]

We love you ! U have no idea the job your doing I’m so grateful thank you !!!

[yukio_saito]

RUN away! My ex-friend looks nice and kind. But his first spouse literally ran away from home🏃‍♀ He found everything belonged to her disappeared when he came back home from work😆

[STAR-LIGHT.]

If you don't give in the love bomb you just don't flirt back they will find a way to make you feel guilty. He said to me I'm desperate and checked my Facebook constantly to reach me. And i said why you don't know me? He said talk to me when i'm worthy for you again. Gues what? BLOCK. They come to soon to fast and act like they know you and own you.