5 DATING MISTAKES Westerners must STOP making in Ukraine

00:00 Intro
05:10 1. Pedestalizing women
08:04 2. Trying too hard
09:52 3. No 'real man' mindset
11:08 4. Being boring
13:58 5. Over-invests in relationship
17:00 Why avoid being a beta buck in Eastern Europe
18:17 Slavic Seduction Secrets

[hetisboerie]

The necessity to lead is very important indeed. I have a Ukranian girlfriend for several years and this is one thing I surely have to do. I notice when I got too passive things don't work out.

[posysdogovych]

You make a really good point in regards to guys seeking confirmation that the girl is interested in them. They are used to meeting guys who are desperate to know what they think of them after a first date and they find it to be a major turnoff even if they otherwise had a good time. On the other hand, when you leave a girl guessing, it both demonstrates that you are a secure man and plants the idea in her mind that YOU are the one who needs to be won over. My last two long-term relationships with Ukrainian girls were the result of them falling in love with me precisely because I played it cool and - most importantly - indicated that I wasn't going to worship the ground they walked on.

[Manuel-guls]

One thing for sure certain that do not be frivolous of your wealth whatever influences you are in for especially for foreigners looking for love and culture

[lukaslipajev]

Hey Connor, greetings from Czech republic. I decided to react under this video, does not make me a sense to comment a two years old clip.
Well, as I watch your vlogs from post soviet countries and your struggles with slavic girls, Im thinking: Oh poor Conor, you are a victim of you lifestyle. Match making apps, date and marriage agencies? In what the hell world you are living, man??

The truth is, your characterizing of slavic girls / women is awful generalizing. Most of slavic girls I met are far far from your definitions. These girls study on university, have their interests, hobbies, passions and dreams, which are not about money. With these girls, I never had an experience of being forced to pay anything, what was not my iniciative. These girls you can met through student exchanges, through interests that you share via social networks, through your friends or belonging to some subculture. But not through a Tinder, man. Actually, most of girls anywhere and Ukraina is no difference, are too proud for using Tinder in that way or cheap trick and scams you described. And yes, many of them have broken glass on their phones, not because they cant afford to fix glass on Iphone from their last sponsor, but simply because they dont care.. ;)

Problem is, you never meet this kinds of girls/woman, because on your travels, you live in social bubble of "wealthy westeners" and Tinder gold diggers. And in the end, you get exactly what is your cup of tea and you deserve.

[perfection]

I agree Conor. Without some compliance they don't value or respect you. If they don't want to come to me within 0-2 hours distance I am holding that against them. Especially if I am going to pay for it. However I think there might be a distance cap. I cannot punish a woman for not wanting to make a 6 hour trip from Dnipro to Kyiv for a first internet date for example. I don't think most guys would make that trip either even with limited options. Maybe I am wrong though the simping has gotten out of control worldwide lol

[leblanchisseur]

I feel like the 4th "mistake", a man being "boring by doing what every other guy do", is only a problem for women who are not looking for a serious relationship. To find "boring" what some guy do to "get in her pants", a woman would have to be dating a lot of mens, dozens after dozens at an infernal rate. Trying not to use curse words here, you know what kind of women i'm talking about.

I get the point though, being original is a good thing, but clearly, if a woman is able to find a man "boring", because she's seen tactic A or B being used on her so many times, maybe she just tried too many of them.

[bobbruce]

Love is for fairy tales. How is the short-time scene? How does it compare to Pattaya, Thailand?

[celticknot]

I prefer subordinate (beta) and dominant (alpha) mindsets. But yes, you are correct that the higher beauty value she has then the more she needs to be subordinated unless she doesn't know her father and then you're screwed before the jump anyhow.

[micahthompson]

Good points that are pretty much universal. Women need men to lead!

[tribute_to]

One Beta Buck has downvoted this video.

[Cougs]

So paying to bring her to your city won't have the affect of making her feel special/important (pedestalized) as you are spending money to bring her to your location? This is a little confusing to me...

[gregorylawler]

best blonde central is Poltava Ukraine ...

[GaryAJMartin]

I must be a simp. My girlfriend asked me to get her McDonald’s tonight for dinner and I did. I should have told her to go **** herself😛
I wonder what Conor would have done in the same situation. Told her to get it herself? I got food for myself too, of course.
Maybe I should have got her to get it and pay for it too🙂

[mymedia]

The phrase is "boring as batsh*t"

[Andrij_Kozak]

Why you don’t go to Caucasus or Central Asia to date women ? I mean there are hot girls too.

[lucasbarel]

Another point men should avoid interaction with other males dating ugly women is you have no advantage by a used Fiat Panda owner if you want to drive a Mclaren p1, maybe even new. The problem of west men is sharing the delirium starting to find many qualities to the used Fiat panda and criticising the Mclaren p1, if new even worst, it's grotesque but it is true. Omega men more than beta because a beta something used with a child to maintain can find. Then every Helena Petrovna Shittasky will give problems suddenly when you are relaxed and everything looks fine. This because every 180 cm or taller long dark liss hair high cheekbones superbeauty is also an unstable, hysterical psychopath. The good thing is as the storm arrives suddenly also suddenly it finishes but a man not used to it can be traumatised so better to know other Mclaren p1 owners that will advise you in time 😃

[jmd]

Connor those EE gold diggers love Dubai blessings. Golden rains etc etc. so not boring

[johnmaclean]

Stop trying to justify your greed and shear laziness, your no representative for a woman of love and compassion, money is your motivation not love, your be left on the shelf always, your a bank robber without a mask 😷