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[everythingaboutestonia]

I cant talk about it enough that being half naked and posting sexual content does not mean you are confident and its body positivity. The most confident and sexiest people dont need to show their body to attract people

[arlet]

I could watch a 6 hour video of you just talking about this topic. No breaks.

[Abby-Brock]

The part about voice intonations was so interesting and something I’ve never considered before. I’ve noticed that whenever I’m speaking from the middle of my voice (not to high/sweet but also not intense/aggressive) my husband seems so much more receptive to me. I would absolutely be interested in a video that expounds further on this concept. 🎉 Thank you for all the great videos. I always look forward to them 💕

[taytayqueen]

I love that you don’t caricaturise femininity and remind women that it’s an energy and not just flowy pink dresses and low voices. A lot of femininity coaches online somehow portray a certain rigid ‘ look ‘.

[sunsets]

I don't know why, but I started to cry when you mentioned the voice thing. Something you said opened a very deep hurt inside of me that I wasn't aware existed. When you started to pretend to talk fast, it was like seeing myself in a mirror for the first time and understanding myself. I never connected this behaviour with my childhood. But every thing you said hit home, that is exactly my childhood, always having to fight to be seen, to be heard. Thank you for taking the time in your busy mama life to make this video, it really has helped me. I am enjoying your weekly Spotify podcast as well. Thank you.

[kyliekay]

Is there nothing this lady doesn't know 😅🙌

[star]

"If you are going to be hang the value of your attractiness on current trends you will never feel hot and sexy. " This is on point, now I realize the trend now it is to have big lips, not that is bad, but it is a reminder that beauty or charm is inside of you and connecting with yourself. Thank you!

[MikaylaVillani]

You’re the big sister archetype young women need in a world that’s trying to make aware and sell them all of the things they aren’t. I so wish I knew you in my teens/early 20s.

[denisekiefer]

Years ago at work, there was this guy, 15 years younger than me ta boot, who kept coming on to me. One day, I was hot, literally hot, and I said out loud "I'm so hot" (fanning myself) and he says "yeah you are!!" My ego was riding high that day!

[sophiaggeorge]

I recently discovered your channel, and its like finding the soul sister i never had. Thank you for all that u share❤

[gopikaa.s]

“ Put self knowledge before skimpy clothes “ ❤❤❤❤

[CC-krmr]

I can’t get enough of your videos. You’ve helped me beyond measure. Personally I have tried to put my focus on “evolutionary beauty” vs following trends. For example, naturally healthy long hair and nails, reducing BMI, confifence, skin care, lash serums, self love, Inner peace and leaning into my femininity .

[T-KRD]

Good reminder to interact at your own natural pace with others, I've found my pace is slower than most, and a lot of people seem impatient and end up prematurely judging and misinterpreting my intentions and the message that i had started to convey. I've learned that trying to force a conversation further after that point in that moment does not "fix" it. I'm thinking long term now as in maybe future will show my message more clearly, or not. Quick impatient interactions and quick-to-judge people are not a good fit for me and I'm now much more accepting of whatever they decide to think.

[danica.filipovic]

Finally someone said this major thing, the voice intonation. For the longest time I felt alone in this one, because no one seemed to agree with this fact. The part about true hottness ("the inner value power") needs to be spread more ❤

[daniellerateau]

Thank you so much for talking about being in touch with your own body and being on your own journey...so many women have been taught to put others first and detach from the inherent knowledge our bodies hold. And we can't fully emBODY our power and worth if we don't connect with our own bodies. Love everything you said 🙏🏻☺️

[polkadolt]

THANK YOU! I had good self confidence and sense of self & discovered my boyfriend was cheating in different ways with different women. My spirit's crushed and I feel absolutely disgusting and without value. I'm having to dig really deep here to build myself back up. People like you are helping x

[missbrooke]

Margarita, you’re a total badass & so so right 😍 I literally have a story that proves your body type & attitude advice. I started out modelling when I was 11 in the age of heroin chic. I was 5’9, 36-22-36, a double D cup size 10 blonde with a “classically timeless beauty face”. Basically all I ever heard was “fabulous face, shame about the body”…now I look back at pics & omg I looked like a blonde Jessica Rabbit 😅 I was under constant pressure to lose weight. Every agency in Sydney wanted to sign me….if I could shave an inch or two off my hips & go down to a small C cup. At 15 a very famous agency told me “you’re face is incredible, but you’re far too busty, but don’t worry, when you drop some more kilos they’ll go down”. At that point I was over exercising & at the start of an ED. When I explained that I’d already lost a fair bit of weight but it didn’t come off my bust, they flippantly replied “Oh well, you’ll need to get a breast reduction, you’ll be laughed at at anything over a B cup in Paris”. I WAS 15 😳 Another major agency said they could get me work (after I’d starved myself to a busty size 8) but that I had too much of a “sexy pinup calendar girl look” for high fashion…& I wasn’t keen on doing sexy lingerie, skimpy bikini/topless stuff for surf mags, men’s mags & catalogues. I was utterly miserable, had bulimiarexia, my hair & skin dried out, I looked gaunt in the face & had taken to living on Diet Coke, water & took up smoking as I’d seen all the girls at castings do (I was too naive to realise there were also amphetamines helping some).
Eventually I started getting depressed & was having panic attacks, & my doctor put me on antidepressants. My mood was way better in a couple of months but despite fighting it, I began gaining weight. At some point I decided I’d rather quit modelling than go back to torturing my naturally curvy body into a shape that was unattainable. It was about 8 months later I saw an ad for a plus size models. I had “ballooned” (in my mind) to a size 12-14. I interviewed at the plus size agency & suddenly my face & body were “perfect” even if I wanted to gain a little more weight. I immediately began being sent to go sees at fashion mags & getting booked, & suddenly I was doing quality fashion, tv, print, catalogue, runway…everything I thought was beyond me!

Now here’s where it’s interesting….at a size 8-10 guys would check me out on the street & in bars, but my dating life sucked. The few guys I dated got bored (because I was always mentally counting calories & was miserable) & ghosted or they treated me like crap, just wanting to hit it & quit it. I hated myself, why should I expect anyone to adore me?

After I blossomed out of depression & into plus size modelling & was basically applauded & rewarded for my size 14 body, I was suddenly fighting guys off with a stick!! 😂 The one’s I did date treated me like a princess (I also got a couple of proposals 😛) & I didn’t even have to TRY to attract guys…I just kept doing what I loved & they found me.
Even when later down the track I went up a couple of sizes, it never lessened male interest.
The only times in my life I’ve attracted toxic men is when I have a depression relapse & am vulnerable & well…GRATEFUL someone wants me. Perfect bait for narcissists 😒

But no matter who you are, what you look like, what size you wear, what you have or haven’t achieved…. As long as you’re authentically YOU, as long as you believe & treat yourself like you value & respect yourself, and that validation comes from inside you & not solely from external influences, there will be people who dig you. Accept yourself and your right to take up space, to speak your mind & to receive ❤️

Sorry for the essay Margarita, I’m just passionate about this topic 😛

[ShyannaP]

“That’s just a level of openness I’m not even sure anyone should strive for” 😂

[VickyLashenko]

Girrrrl! You are on fire 🔥 thank you for such INCREDIBLE reminders! Biggest message for me is “take up your space” love it! Thank you! 🙏🏼❤️

[veiledsinisterly]

I can listen to this woman all day ❤❤❤❤