How To Respond To Criticism: The Most Powerful 5-Word Question

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You know the moment where someone gives you feedback or "constructive criticism" and it really hurts?

In this video, you'll discover the most powerful way to respond to criticism. This 5-word question can dissolve the pain of criticism and remove the need for arguments, conflict, defence or attack.

If you no longer want to see your loved one as the enemy, get honest with this question and feel empowered as you respond to criticism.

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Helped so much. I literally teared up seeing something so relatable. Not lying!

Furfocs
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“Did I think it first?”
(Check yourself, how to practice having humility)

Ann
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IF I CHANGE THE LINE BECAUSE SOMEONE DOESN'T LIKE IT THEN I CHANGED THE NEW LINE MIGHT OFFEND SOMEONE ELSE THEN THAT TELLS ME THAT NO METTER WHAT I SAY OR DO IT WOULD NEVER SATISFY SOMEONE THEN I GOING BECAUSE THEIR BE A MOYORITY THAT WON'T MIND WHAT I SAY.

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I have identified my stupid bosses doing phone tapping with criticism 😊

mandarkolhatkar
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I'm glad this seemed to help others.
This reminds me of a criticism levied in the movie 'The Weatherman'... "I hate his stupid face..."

AND THAT'S the problem with judging objective validity (though at least this character was being honest).
Many criticisms are born out of purely emotional subjective happenstance-nonsense or even based on the shortcommings of the audience.
Of course, criticisms will RARELY manifest this way.
Most will feel the need to validate bad-mood emotional takes with dishonest logic to feign validity and gain support. YOu will rarely see criticisms unfiltered by dishonest logic.

But this is why commedians specialize in being liked and deconstructing defences. They are usually neurotic and self-critical (or their performace comes from this realm of consideration); "I'm way worse than you." It's what makes Homer Simpson so funny. They lighten the load on and expecations of ourselves.

Most of us can effortlessly entertain having infinty criticisms about ourselves no matter what the circumtances are, based on various possible contexts. Thus it doesn't work to determine if another's is truly valid. This is especially true the more unique the material, talent, or the individual is.
This is why people like Jesus Christ are spit on and why the mob even wants to let thief-murderers off the hook before people such as Christ. The only thing people despise more than someone who believes they have something unique to give is a child diddler.

Recepton is simply what one is openminded enough to take from someone/something. One person can look at Kurt Cobain and Nirvana and go, "Look at this worthless dumb druggie loser trash, " while another can look and see unparalleled genius and priceless worth.

Are you a person who just kinda' doesn't like the way my stupid face looks? Sure, I get it. I used to have those kinds of immature proclivities in first grade too (Idk why you're having it at 40, but nevertheless, I understand it. I think we all do).
Thus I get why [this or that] unfair criticism is in your head due to having such an immature animalistic disposition.

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The problem with judging validity is that one person you meet will indeed give you GOLD. Another will have so many personal shortcommings which they are judging you based on that it is at the point of even judging how much they hate you merely based on HOW LEGITIMATELY TALENTED or SUCCESSFUL YOU ARE (and presumably because they are envious of your talent that they don't have).

My point is simply that everythng has the potential of being either utterly upside-down OR entirely accurate and balanced, all based on the individual and their leanings.

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