5 EASY WAYS TO RESPOND TO CRITICISM AND INSULTS WITH CLASS AND ELEGANCE

In this video, Carol unveils 5 simple ways to respond to criticism and insults with class and elegance, turning any uncomfortable situation into an opportunity to shine even brighter. You'll learn how to disarm criticism with unbeatable logic, use assertiveness as a tool of elegance, and even turn insults into elegant concerns. If you've ever faced moments where criticism threatened your peace, this video is for you. Subscribe to "Lucrative Elegance," hit the notification bell, and leave a like to keep enhancing your elegance and turning it into something profitable!

[uscitizen]

I had a brother in law who was always trying to provoke me with nasty comments. I "took the bait" too many times and of course an argument often ensued. However, he was stopped dead in his tracks after a very nasty comment to me, when I simply looked at him with a dead-pan look but no words, then turned my attention back to the person I was talking to. He had no way to continue to engage! "Silence IS golden" at times. 🥰

[taylorful]

"Every criticism aimed at you, in reality disguised confession of admiration"

[luluandmeow]

"Is everything OK?" or "Are you OK?" - what brilliant responses, I will definitely remember them.

[Roses-lilac]

Sometimes a slight smile, a stare, and silence. People find silence uncomfortable and intimidating .

[GitchaGoat]

My Mother was the Queen of Nice-Nasty. She was so beautiful and all the other Officers wives were jealous. She threw garden parties and took no sh*t from the women who dissed her. She just threw it right back, with class and humor ! RIP Mother 🌹🦋

[muddyshoesgardener]

There is nothing as elegant as intelligence. Being smart changes everything.

[NadoCrowFriend]

My Mother ( who was brilliant with people) taught me, when ever asked an inappropriate question ( personal, prying etc) to answer :
“why do you ask?” 99.9% of the times that I’ve used this response, it derailed the rude person.

[luluandmeow]

Is it even worth engaging with people who undermine you? I just smile and wish them a good day, then immediately turn my back. I won't hang around a hostile negative environment/person, I don't want them in my life, and I don't give them second chances either, or they'll do it again. Whenever someone attacks me, I think to myself, "They're advertising how unhappy and dissatisfied they are."

[jeannecampbell]

I have used phrases like “thank you for your concern” or “thats an interesting point of view” and then smiled and either left the situation or went silent. Effective and classy while being dismissive and clear that it did not rattle me.

[beatewagner.]

Dignified silence...
🤫
Never complain, never explain.

[Uilani-gm]

You just smile, nod and thank them. That will stop them in their tracks. Someone I worked with would say, "dually noted" whenever someone said anything. That was pretty funn.

[arvettadelashmit]

Thank you. I learned a long time ago to walk away from those who go out of their way to be rude.

[luluandmeow]

My neighbours used to be abusive for no reason, often whispering and tittering, I did not hear exactly what they were saying, but I knew it wasn't nice and that it was directed against me. Their children started doing it too. So I started saying to no-one in particular, "You too!" or "And you!" or "Same to you!". Well, the insults stopped immediately!

[VM-mver]

Silence is golden and speaks mounds, keep your crown, and humbly walk away with grace...body language is powerful.

[beatewagner.]

"Don't wrestle with a pig,
you will both get dirty,
and the pig enjoys it."
(George Bernard Shaw)

[castor]

I was “talked to” by a man who was doing it for his wife who already bullied me earlier. When he finally finished, I looked at him and said “Are you done? I need to go to the bathroom!” He turned red, dumbfounded then nodded. After this incident he and his wife avoided me.

[FutureBillionaire]

The slow look up, down then away HURTS BAD AF😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it's my favorite

[marieantoinettevoges]

Elegance is my secret weapon. Thank you for your wise words.

[ChrisMargiorisGames]

The best quote is by Italo Calvino's: "It is so, if you think it is so!". It's polite, witty and disarming!😊

[davidpar]

The best way for dealing with criticism is to _first_ evaluate it to see if there is any truth to it. What you should do or not do next will then be obvious.