We Need To Talk About Dating As Asian Males

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[CallsignMongol]

If I had a dollar for every time I saw an Asian girl with a white guy, that Asian girl would date me.

[brainysmurf]

The hurt of women ignoring my close Korean friend eventually killed him. The depression and sadness of women dismissing him for over 30 years, literally killed his heart. One day it just stopped and he collapsed in his father’s arms and died. Asian are treated like dirt in the west, whats worse is that no one talks about it.

[atokfozelekazeleg]

Rules: -JBW. (Just be white)
- Min. 6’0ft
- Handsome face
- Muscular/Masculine body, Sixpack.

That’s the truth.

[dzsux]

I went from being popular with all the girls in primary school to being invisible in high school. Decided to hang with the Asian group as I could no longer fit in with the white kids anymore. This was when AzN pRyDe started and I finally started accepting being Asian and stopped wishing I was white.

[degustationsdeseattle]

Love the Fung Bros content. I have been watching off and on since 2012's Linsanity and they bring important conversations pertaining to Asians abroad to the forefront. I will always appreciate them for it.

[magnetmant]

Im 51 5'4" Filipino and totally invisible to women today and live in the Tristate area. I tried self improvement over the years from working out dressing well have a good job nothing worked. All my taller friends Asian to non Asian get dates all the time and most are married now and have families of their own. Dating has been very difficult and the competition is insane here. I see how women gravitate to my friends and my coworkers and not to me. At this age its game over for me. I hope others have better success than me in todays dating world.

[Cherrylimeade]

I feel like Asian men and black women have a lot ot talk about when it comes to dating. We have some of the same struggles as far as dating. I feel like black women also feel ignored in the dating game if we don't fit certain stereotypes. We need to hype each other up!

[ceeIoc]

Dating has become insanely difficult for all men in general. What I’ve learned over the years using dating apps: your perceived market value on dating apps is vastly different from real life. You have way more potential to have quality women if you get off the apps and either approach or expand your social circle.

[lucashuang]

One of my Asian friends was friendzoned by a half-Asian girl he liked. It was because she used to want to date white men only. But ever since she began watching K dramas, her preference changed...

...Now she likes Korean *and* white men only.

My friend isn't Korean.

[rich]

I had no clue this was a thing, thanks for the clear and well-organized presentation.

[ilai]

Bros, I appreciate how your discussion isn't just raising problems but providing possible solutions (besides self improvement, change scenes/ locales/ industries). There's a lot to think about and apply, thanks for the smart take 👍👍

[darrylt]

One time I was at a nigh club, and this white girl walked up to an Asian guy who was about 5'5" (she seems about the same height), and she kindly introduced herself. The Asian guy responded bluntly by saying he's 27, lives with his mom, and plays video games all day. I thought, man, kudos to you for laying it out for her so that you won't waste both of your time. I remember the shocked reaction from her but she was being nice (maybe) and tried to continue the social interaction. I wanted to stay and see how it turned out but friends wanted to get drinks so we had to head towards the bar.

[jjong]

Loved this convo. I feel you guys hit the nail on the head (micro to macro things you can change as an Asian guy)

[starcraft]

Asian male here. Aside from the self improvement, I feel like there is an opportunity to do a better job supporting the film makers, youtubers (like the fung bros), and artists that portray Asian men in a positive light. These projects usually are not mainstream, but with enough support it can become mainstream. Our history here in western society is short and it is going to take time to undo some of the baggage that has been associated with us.

[mimzymarin]

My boyfriend is Filipino and he’s exactly 5 feet tall. I’m Latina and about 5’6 in heels. His confidence is what initially attracted me; he doesn’t make self deprecating comments about his height or anything. I’ve dated other guys around 5’6 and they would make self depreciating jokes about being short and it was kind of a turn off tbh My boyfriend told me that he’s already accepted his height and chose to focus instead on other aspects of himself he could change.There’s hope y’all

[CHAOSZEROE]

I'm a struggling Asian American in L.A. Thanks for the advice. There's no channel for my problems on dating as an Asian man. Subbed.

[fredh]

This phenomenon happens only in Anglo SAxon countries (US, UK, Canada, Australia) and I personally blame it on the mainstream media that eventually affected the mindset and culture among asian female, asian male and white female/male. I used to live in Venezuela as an Asian minority and I really dont see this biased phenomenon. I actually see a lot of Asian males hooking up with Latina girls. In other words, the playing field is more even where as here in the US its so biased against Asian males.

[jerkchickentimbit]

This was a fun and interesting watch, Super Chill Hosts & Beautiful Energy!! 🏆🏆🌹🌹

[KylemcleePRODUCTION]

100% love this segment Fung Bros, miss y'all! Love this topic out in the world now

[jleigh]

I agree you really have to put yourself out there and even approach and ask someone out fearlessly. Rejection doesn’t have to hurt it can also make you better if you put yourself in a fearless mindset. I am attracted to Asian men because they have more traditional family values and value hard work which matches my Polish heritage.