The no contact method | Dating mistakes women make

The no contact method | Dating mistakes women make.

A lot of women ask me about the no contact method, or going no contact on a guy in order to get him to change the way he treats them. This is often a mistake. Even in the cases where going no contact is appropriate, women often make the mistake of doing it wrong. The No contact rule. Does it really work and do guys give a crap?

The no contact rule does work if the guy actually gave a crap to begin with. Too many girls try the no contact method unwilling to accept the results or actually distance themselves. Other women never really insist on being treated better and take a guy back who hasn't changed at all.

The two main ideas of the contact method are to one detoxify yourself from the relationship and life that you've built around it. It's like finding yourself again. Separating yourself from your ex completely in hopes of Developing a new routine and higher self esteem. Learning how to live a single life with no dependency on a partner. During this time it's recommended that you stay busy and live life to the fullest to really start the healing process.

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[KevHick]

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[riledmouse]

The irony is that once they come back around wanting you back, you can’t be bothered with them anymore. If a man really wants to make something work with you, he will make it happen. Don’t spend another second trying to psychoanalyze these fools. Focus on your family and yourself and whatever truly brings you joy. This is about YOUR spiritual evolution and nothing else.

[bessiesimmonsmusic]

If you have to go no contact with someone that’s a big sign they are not for you 😔I needed to hear this

[fionaedwards]

“If you have to manipulate someone to treat you well, then you’re probably loosing”. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[BeautifulDzyre]

No contact is supposed to be for a situation if a "break-up" happens and it's for you both to respect your or his decision to move on. It also helps you to start the grieving process and help you work on self love and restoring your life after a break-up. It's not a tactic to get him to chase you or get him to do something you want him to do. Silent treatments are a form of emotional abuse and this is just a start of an unhealthy dynamic.

The Right man for you will treat you with the care and respect from jump. No begging, convincing or persuasion will change this... If you feel like you need to play games to grab someone's attention... You're with the wrong person. He doesn't want you. The man God has for you will want you like you want him.

[kayladaniel]

Thank you for being so blunt. Us women like to clutter up situations making it more difficult for ourselves. This is what we NEED to hear.

[nidzaboricua]

It's sad how us women will try everything to keep a man that doesn't want to be kept. BUT what's worse is when those women aren't understanding that they allow this treatment because they don't fully love themselves. I learned the hard way, but LEARNED.

[womenwhodate]

"Please change so that we can be together" - I think if you have to say this, at least often, it's time to move on. The change has to come from within. If somebody treats you badly, he doesn't love you.

[msdemeanour]

No contact means NO contact forever.
(no more human garbage) Walk forwards not backwards in life 💥

[CosmicGlitterGoddess]

Listen to them when they tell you who they are. If they’re treating you like trash, then they think youre trash. That’s when you tell them gods luck and keep it pushing.

[chuntayejordan]

Man, when I'm done I'm done, I don't even like you enough to play the no contact game. Blocked and when you see me don't wave. Just keep on going Bruh. I don't know you, lol. I hate my time being played with. You can heal a broken heart, but my time you can't give back my time. Pissing myself off just think about it. 🎯

[seymorepencilart]

The garbage needs to smell it’s own stink, not be told how bad it smells.

[TheRomanPilgriminPerson]

Most of us are so starved for attention that we take anything in pants.

[vikki]

No contact? Ha! When I am done with someone because of their bad behaviour, I am GONE! I don't go back to someone who shows me who they are. I don't care how much they beg me to give them another chance. If someone does not respect you or treat you right, walk away and forever!

100% facts as always Kev! You have helped me be more rational in emotional situations and being more intelligent in dating.

[galinaioffe]

As hard as it may be sometimes it's the best thing you can do for the both of you. For you to heal from the pain you endured for however long and for your partner to realize and understand that not every woman is that desperate for a man or bragging rights of having one to put up with bullshit

[dollieunsudimi]

Man, you better preach to me!! I had to do no contact 3 times with my guy and no charge. On the 3rd one, I decided to end it for good. I decided that I love myself enough to walk away from that toxic relationship. I’m content being alone and am grateful for every lesson learned. I’m working on my inner healing and making peace within. Thank you, Kev. So wise❤️🙏

[liaapjacobs]

So true. Going no contact only works when you are willing to let it go. If you allow bad treatment or condone it nothing will change. Sometimes they will wake up and level up or disappear altogether. Either way, you win!

[n.c.tarheelgal]

I'm guilty of this in some of my past relationships. What you're saying is the absolute gospel truth.

[ShalaynaLynise]

Always a PLEASURE to get a Notification from Yayyyy....im all ears

[judithdorsey]

Kev, thank you for your knowledge about relationships and speaking with a man's point of view. For the past few years, no contact for me means no dating at all. I'm using this time to work on my own issues. It may take a few more years of therapy but that's okay. Your straight talk about relationships are part of my therapy and I've got a lot to learn about myself before I can take on someone else's issues, and I don't want someone to take on mine. I'm grateful that you're on YouTube and that you use your format to coach on these really important issues.