6 Signs That You Are Wasting Your Time With Your Ex

6 Signs That you Are Wasting Your Time With Your Ex

In this video we’re going to discuss;
Sign #1 – Words And Actions
Sign #2 – Your Ex Is Married
Sign #3 – Your Ex Doesn’t Respond After Six Months
Sign #4 – You've Been Pursuing For Years And They String You Along
Sign #5 – Your Ex Hasn’t Proven Things Will Be Different
Sign #6 – You've Been Full On Blocked For More Than Six Months

One of the biggest questions, am I wasting my time?

Here are six signs that will help you see if you are wasting your time trying to get your ex back;

Sign #1 – Words And Actions

One thing I have told clients to not take things at face value, where they say something and don’t follow through with actions. If you ex tells you to move on and he doesn’t want to get back together, then after weeks or months have passed and he doesn't try to contact you at all. Then his actions match his words.

Sign #2 – Your Ex Is Married

A lot of the time when you are having a relationship with a person who is already married to someone else and you are basically the affair. Chances are they are not going to leave their significant other as they have a lot more invested into that marriage than they do with their relationship with you, especially when you shouldn’t have been in that situation to begin with.

Sign #3 – Your Ex Doesn’t Respond After Six Months

We have found that working with a lot of clients, that the average time it takes for people to get to a success it on average takes 6 months, if you are following the process and you haven’t managed to get a response from your ex in those 6 months. Chances are you are wasting your time and you need to move on.

Sign #4 – You've Been Pursuing For Years And They String You Along

Let’s say you have a short relationship with someone and you’ve been trying to a long time to get them back, and even though you remained friends there is no interest from that ex to you. And you’ve spent maybe years trying to get that person back, that’s not a good sign. Even though they’ve never told you outright that they are not interested they allow you to be dragged along because they enjoy the attention that you give them. Subconsciously you’re aware of this you don’t mind the fact because that little bit of hope that they give you is enough to get you to keep trying.

Sign #5 – Your Ex Hasn’t Proven Things Will Be Different

When someone asks me what is the perfect scenario where you know you can get clients their ex back I would say an on-and-off again relationship, where these relationships tend to break up and get back together so often, getting the ex back isn’t the issue here. However, the challenge lies, in keeping the relationship together.

Albert Einstein once said the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, and expecting a different result. So, if your ex hasn’t shown any signs of things being different the next time around, you’re probably going to end up back in this on and off again situation, especially if you are already in this cycle.

Sign #6 – You've Been Full On Blocked For More Than Six Months

My best recommendation for you is to go to our website and read about all the situations that are relevant to you and get yourself used to how we work. Reading through my articles and all the information that there is out there. The only situation where I am not going to be able to help you is if your ex is married. My website can help you dig yourself out of the hole if you are in one of the other situations mentioned above.

[tracybrighton]

Hi Chris, just want to give you an update. My boyfriend and I are back together again :)

[alisaiful]

Face reality and move on.. Relationship need two side commitments. If it is one side? You know the answer

[lelanievanheerden]

Back ground music is very distracting!

[marycatherineryan]

My aunt wasted almost 20 years on a married man and I've known other women who have too or the guy has a longterm girlfriend and maybe a few are in the equation too, so he's not going to leave you, you're just a booty call to him, so why put yourself through that? Get some self respect and tell him to pound sand! Same goes for people involved with a married too and remember " How you got them, is how you're going to lose them."

[tracybrighton]

can you please remove the background music. pleasssee... you have a great video but the background music just does not work for everyone.

[Overforce]

😁Awesome video again I got a 67 on the quiz I think big factors that played into is there’s a 7 year age different and it was long distance for the 8 months we were together( while she was finishing school)

[melissamiller]

This pandemic is so hard in helping me get my ex back

[mariannakrejniuk]

It's totally normal that an ex doesn't reach out after the break up because of negative emotions which occured on the way. The time factor and the current situation have really no impact on getting back together, so six months are no expiry date! It all depends on the actions you make and don't make. Being in a friend zone with an ex can be a good sign because then you have the oppertunity to show them your changes and the new version you've become.

[johncornicello]

I have a question regarding the length of the relationship. You've done research, and I commend you for that. However, what about someone like me who lost their partner after 16 years? Do you think a seven-month window applies to the longevity of my situation? I'm confused because no one seems to mention long-term commitments. I'm struggling with this and heartbroken.

[tracybrighton]

after no contact rule my ex started sending me messages how have i been, when will i be back in town, he sent me his new dads car, sending me cute puppies (which he said before remind him of me).. but he is still on dating sites? what does this mean?

[josephplt]

I really need some advice cuz it has me confused. My ex and I have been broken up for 7 weeks. The first 5 weeks, she never said she didn't love me, she just kept saying she wants time to be alone. Then for the last 2 weeks, she's been lashing out at me saying she doesn't love, hasn't loved me for a long time and that she doesn't want to be with me. Let me remind you that 2 weeks after we broke up, she did text and say Hi. But went back to being cold. I didn't cheat or hit her, but was very insecure and jealous in the relationship. So insecure that I kicked her out of my house cuz I thought she was cheating. What I want to know is, am I trippin for thinking there is still a chance for us? 7 years together.

[GoldenAngel-]

what if your EX is your wife or husband as Separated?😥

[augustayarteh]

I wish I have Ex here to this part of the world if I have one he left me and walk away let him go peaceful. I think I will move on quietly with the help of God.

[pallavilondhe]

Hey Chris my ex blocked me 25 days done no communication should i wait or move on

[LanaClarkLC]

I got a 70% of that quiz. Is thatceven a good chance?

[AlexandraRuizMartinez]

We broke up 2 months ago and i didnt do no contact but we didnt talk every day maybe every 4 or 5 days, right after the break up he said we are never getting back together because the attraction is gone, 2 days ago he said maybe in the future and now he said again he doesnt want me back ever because he doesnt feel any sexual attraction for me and thats gone forever and there is nothing he can do, that we are done for good. Should i move on or start no contact?

[JuanitoMedz]

Chloroform is the only way now. Society forced us to do this the wrong way. Retribution.

[stephb]

Is there hope when you and your ex have remained in touch for a long period of time?

[ghaniyaroohan]

Heyy, I had been in a veryyy long relationship with a boy. Since class 5. We had 3 amazing years in which he was badly into me. However, idk y out of the blue he decided to end things with me which made me panicked n I over reacted resulting in worst breakup n he left me for other girls. An year later he returned realizing about me n approached me n merrily accepted him. Things went great. He was passionate n much interested. I became really happy n so I began to imagine n fantasize our wedding thinking that this is how things will go between us in future. Days later he friendzoned me n I came to know that this guy had been cheating on me. I caught him but he lied. Because I was young at that time I did the worst mistake of my life n it was to jump between the two, panicked n forcefully ended his relationship. After that he became embarrassed n idk y I was never able to trust him. However, we stick together for years, 8 years, I was badly in love with him. He was not in love but liked me n acknowledged me. Time flew n one day when I least expected he told me that he was thinking about marriage. But I became rude telling him about his cheating. But deep down I was overjoyed. He became interested in me n all of this began to happen all of a sudden when I wasn't expecting it at all. Months later I became busy with my studies n so did he. I came to know he was studying so I distanced myself from him to not disturb him. Meanwhile, in my free time I again began to plan n expect our wedding n etc. Just a week after this, to my surprise this person had changed his mind overnight telling me that he has no feelings for me. Idk why I didn't do anything about it bcz I was pathetically confused. I didn't ask him for an explanation but I remained like I used to be with him. Then he began to ignore me n he became disinterested in me. I invited him to meet me n he gave me the stupidest excuse to not meet me. This ripped my heart. I told him to Go to Hell n cut him off from everywhere. More than a year passed n he did not contact me but I could see him checking my snaps etc. Idk y I was expecting him to come back one day n he did! However, he only wanted me as a friend. I realized he was better off without me n didn't care when I had left. I panicked n as usual yelled at him. However, I went on apologizing BUT he has been exhibiting all of the above signs since 2 years n the last messaging I had with him was: "interestingly I was thinking about you Last night n I was shocked to see your message. I don't like being hard hearted but this is the only way I think idk y" so I didn't reply him back n then the same night he messaged me with "are u ok?" I only replied with "yes" the next morning I saw his request.I asked him what was that for n he told me that he doesn't know why he felt like seeing me. but when I wanted to add him up he gave me a lame excuse to not add me. Meanwhile, I again expecting things but the way he talked to me proved that he is done with me. I tried convincing him, tried to flirt. he showed his longing to see me so he video chatted me. All this time I remained so confused. What should I do now?