What Psychologists Can Tell You About Ghosting

If they ever disappear from your life, you may feel it's your fault or start to question what you did wrong.

The truth is that ghosters are emotionally underdeveloped. Whenever they feel emotionally compromised, they disappear to feel that they are in a position of power. This is abusive!

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[sallyvilleza]

...and it's intentional. Exchange a few texts, small talk, then they will ask you an open-ended question, your response may be thought-out, detailed perhaps lengthy....and then poof!

[AunaturalBrej]

I’ve ghosted when I was going through narcissistic abuse (still am) I feel terrible every time. It’s wrong to waste others time especially when you want to gain a real connection someday.

[angelbeauty]

Thank you.
I was looking for answers. Because I got ghosted and after it happened I sent the person a text. That they could just cancel or say No. They're childish and they need to put their adult pants on.

[myportal]

Ghosting has become an umbrella term apparently. I'm Casper and underdeveloped. Feels good to dip back into my authentic self. I think I'll keep going.👍 And not give in this time.

[bryalee]

I had to the relationship only two months was non emotional bossing me around he did not see this so I cut it off, now he is calling me THIS even though he even says in his last letter after a no contact...he has great difficulty with emotions.. well, I know that is why I had to STOP ASAP...so I had to. So we are told to go no contract when someone is hard to handle and has no boundries and takes takes takes.

[schoolwerk]

Some people will find this clip and use it to justify their unhealthy attachments to people. I say this because an ex-friend/roommate of mine used to cite YouTube content during his vitriolic rages and threats to unalive himself because I was “abandoning” him and “emotionally abusing him” by leaving. He would block the doorway, take my phone and physically restrain me every time I attempted to leave during his hours-long rages over situations he typically created. There’s simply no way to respectfully bow out of a relationship like this, and it’s exhausting trying to explain to the toxic person that the YouTube video he’s using to diagnose me doesn’t take into consideration the history of his behavior that absolutely warrants my leaving, ghosting or not.

[judyjudyyahoo]

OK I may be incorrect saying this, but for example, I stop speaking to somebody because breeding a puppy one years old I had to working dog kennel. I was very neurotic you have to have them x-ray. Do you wanna know what the puppies are going to develop so you end up hanging onto one or two but when you’re doing something that’s inappropriate and you’ve told them and as far as I’m concerned, the veterinarian would say the same thing because breeding out a year old is abusive and I was just watching this because I was wondering, but when you can keep telling somebody over and over again and they do not listen and you know what’s going to cause damage and could cause death. How do you continue speaking to somebody? You can go around in circles as far as I’m concerned as well that’s being abusive, making a puppy mill. How many people go to counseling because of messages being left call me right f ing now this was before I disconnected from the person and I would go on my phone and see that they called and I would contact them immediately I have Epilepsy I pass out which is a difficult thing to go from being a very functioning person to not bite because of what I was doing thinking that it’s going to earn them millions of dollars when it’s not I do not want to be involved with somebody where I’m going to end up with a bad reputation because they’re going to use my name. I worked very hard in the community that I lived in donated over $30, 000 worth of dogs that we use for canines for protection police dogs and then the ones with low drive pets. To end up on the news because of the kindness that I did it wasn’t for people to say what a nice lady it was because of one particular officer with knock on my door and ask for assistance, and it would be for a period of time, where an animal would leave and then I would replace with a puppy and offer free training, but nobody deserves to go through rape, a child molested am I incorrect I’m not doing it to be abusive something that is going to cause damage death. I am going to ask a lawyer because I don’t want to be abusive but I don’t want to be involved.

[honorx]

Kenny, I want to thank you for being on earth.
I did a lot of work and became an expert on clúster B. It lent me to cognitiv dissonance. Yes it helped me to understand what happend to me, but my soul will never grasp it. My soul doesn't want to controle anybody. My soul knows respect since I am an infant. I respect others, but I allways respected my self. So I left, my family, my country, my profession and continents.
One time I stayed. It had to become a life lesson.
But I have to exept controle, I will take more controle of my emotions, I will respect them more.
And there it is my soul. My true self.
My soul felt by listening to any «expert», they are sick deap inside. So much hate. No responsability.
I felt my soul, I am not that sick.
This is what I really love about me.
I ghost my ex psychopathic narc girl, it might be abuse. I won't call it «no contact» to make it legal.
I ghosted myself for two years with her, this is the real no contact. I abused myself.
Sometimes abuse is a consequence of a dicision.
I had a.loaded gun in my face, hat cuts of a knife all over my body. It took that much to make my soul take controle.
Coming out I said: I am no longer me, I am sad.
Then: I am no longer me, I accept it.
Then: I am no longer me, it feels good.
Now: Who am I?
I am so curious, not a bit afraid.
One thing is for sure: I am an abuser. I have to decide whom to abuse, it won't be me.
I love that boy I care so much.
I am not good, I am not bad, what I know for sure, I got soul, I trust myself, I can be trusted.
Who decides to not trust me, won't be trusted.
There is not a rest of cognitive dissonance in me.
I have to ghost the whole world now for a while, it will be abuse. But first I have to make contact to a really kind man, it has been a while 57 years.
Desde Sudamérica

[geoffsaunderson]

Oh what isn’t abusive now! Lots of things about human nature could be deemed abusive lol! It’s called being human!