5 Weird Ways Toxic Family Members Punish a Truthteller for Going No Contact/Lisa A. Romano

#toxicfamily #scapegoat #truthteller In this video you will learn about 5 Weird Ways Toxic Family Members punish a truthteller for going no contact. Toxic families can become highly narcissistic, especially toward a truthteller or scapegoat child who dares to tell the truth. If you are dealing with a toxic family, you will be punished for speaking the truth, asking for clarity, and for wanting to confront unhealthy behavior.

1)You will be accused of things you are not guilty of.
2) They may dig into your past to discredit you.
3) They may twist reality and gaslight you.
4) They will accuse you of wanting attention, for making things up and do what they can to triangulate others against you to protect the family secrets.
5) You will be accused of wanting to cause trouble and your intentions will be challenged, and discredited.

Sick toxic family systems, hide secrets and protect those who should be held accountable for their actions. If you are a truthteller, you may become a scapegoat for the family's sick dysfunction. If you dare to go no contact, simply for needing to take care of yourself, a toxic family is swift to band together against the one who is looking to self care and save themselves.

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Lisa A. Romano is a Life Coach and bestselling author who specializes in helping people reclaim their lives through ascending old thought patterns and healing faulty childhood subconscious programs. She is an expert in the fields of codependency, narcissistic abuse, and elevating consciousness. She is also one of the most popular meditation teachers on Insight Timer and is the creator of the 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program. If you feel invisible, unworthy, and lack a sense of self or purpose, Lisa's work in the field of personal development can help you gain the self-awareness required to breakthrough.

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[childrensreading]

Haven't seen a video yet that compares to this one. You explained my narcissistic mother and narcissistic sister perfectly. 100% on point. I've been no contact for almost 2 years now and it's been the best decision I've ever made, I have grown SO MUCH mentally and emotionally. Anyone still stuck with your narcissistic family members - it does get better if you decide to go no contact. I promise.

[Joelswinger]

It's actually the strongest person, not the weakest person who is targeted for scapegoating. It takes strength to have self-control, empathy, and awareness. It takes strength to endure abuse. The Narcissist is the "weakest link." They are too weak to face reality.

[BigRebel]

“The most hated person in the room is the one telling the truth.”

[safeeffective]

'No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth.'
Plato —

[Tom-vqhw]

Being a scapegoat is like growing up in middle school: your family are the cool kids who score points with each other by picking on you

[johnmaurer]

The more Real you get, the more Unreal the World gets.

[herbalina]

You don't even have to be a truth-teller. Just going about your own life in your own way is reason enough to be "othered" and gossiped about. It doesn't even have to be anything shocking, just little stuff that you do differently or liking things that they don't like or the totally benign preferences that you have can set some people off. It's ridiculous.

[SusanaXpeaceu]

I've paid for telling the truth. Entire family, incl extended family believe I'm angry and insane. My mother is ''worried'' about me. It's been hard to acknowledge that my mother would literally rather gaslight me and try to make me doubt myself than take a small bit of feedback and show me a bit of empathy.

[gojub]

I'm 47 now, and it took me 30 years and the death of my daughter to finally say no more and leave the toxic parents and siblings behind. Peace and quiet at last...

[LivingInKerala]

Toxic family members hate boundaries ! Just leave!

[CameronJohnston-pfgy]

The only true way to win with a toxic family/workplace/relationship is to walk away and let them deal with their own BS

[nathanosterhaus]

I’m the truth teller, the cycle breaker, and the scapegoat. I’ve definitely paid the price.

[adamflint]

An anger issue is another that can’t be talked about in a toxic family.

[life-is-recovery]

This resonates. When I told my mother about being sexually abused by my step-dad, I was kicked out of the house. They're still married, and they're the ones invited to family events. They've gone out of their way to disparage me to everyone they can think of. I've gone no-contact. And I'll never understand why a mother would fail to protect her only child, and the same for grandparents choosing an abuser over their only grandchild. It's been devastating, but my life is about recovery. Going no-contact is the best thing I've ever done. I know the truth. God knows the truth. That's become enough for me.

[glendaruiz]

That's why i went no contact with my narcissistic mother and entire dysfunctional family, when you speak the TRUTH they hate it, since you don't go along with their lies and bs they have to gang up on you and punish you, im so glad i cut them off from my life, i always felt alone anyway they always treated me like an outcast, so there is nothing to miss! Blessings to all my scapegoats that been through so much.

[vacationeyes]

Truth tellers - You are a force to reckon with. You grew up in a dystopian nightmare that intermingled reality and fantasy. Yet, you were wise beyond your years and saw through it all. They couldn't gaslight you into doubting yourself, couldn't break your spirit, couldn't alter your reality or steal your truth. You fought a demon at such tender age and survived. You are still standing stronger and smarter than ever before. You are God's favorite child. Own your power.

[synthonaplinth]

It really really SUCKS to be punished for being truthful.

[scapegoatsarepowerful]

The gaslighting, the back stabbing, the slander all pointed at the scapegoats. we are the healthy ones since we had to get therapy over the abuse in the family.

[UncleBooker]

As an adult I watched an old Mr. Rogers show. In it he said: "In a healthy family one of the first lessons a child learns is to trust." This hit me especially hard being that one of the first lessons I learned was to distrust.

[matilda]

"no-one is willing to go up against the narcissist"... except the SG.. "a simple truth will upset a toxic family system"