The Horrid Pain Of Learned Helplessness

The reason we suffer from learned helplessness is because someone in our childhood, directly or indirectly, did not allow us to be ourselves.

To see more of this video, search for "Learned Helplessness and the Psychology of Escaping" on my YouTube channel.

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[teresachamberlain]

I'm not frozen ! With 5 years of isolation, I have d9ne so much healing and I have been MELTING! thank you for this video!❤

Yes my father always made me feel like I could never achieve anything took me many years to overcome that too 😡

[J_Honor_]

I appreciate you speaking on this issue because it took me nearly thirty-eight years to deal with the trauma of multiple things that occurred in my childhood which led to this learned helplessness but I was always a fighter and I never gave up and I put my faith in God which really helps

[haniish]

Yep, too many people played that role but later on in my life I proved them wrong. Their words were the constant reminder 😄

[evadebruijn]

Where is the full video please? Because this diagnosis is just the teaser, everyone who resonates with the concept of learned helplessness yearns for learning all the skills to evolve out of this maladaptive programming ✌️

[jooliagoolia]

After no contact for 28 years, my "mother" still tells people what a loser I am. I had a career for 28 years, happily married for 27 years and have good friends. She never has had one of those...And she always says I'll never finish anything. Self reporting, as always.... I ask people not to share with me, unfortunately sometimes they still do.

[shaggydog]

yes my mother considered me a worthless girl. didn't want me. my entire life kept telling me how worthless I am. because of it I now struggle with PTSD and have my entire adult life. I'm in my 80's now and life has not been happy.

[Justme-wy]

My mother and stepfather always made me feel not good enough or worthy.

[Dalecasey]

I am not helpless anymore I am me even more now than before Amen glory to God for his love and guidance.

[Jeri-]

I dont agree with the "learned helplessness" tag, l was critized daily by my two narcissistic parents who had more issues btw them than any other person I've since met, they compared me relentlessly to my older brother & two sisters who grew up exactly like them, its like walking on eggs around them to keep from offending them, they push advice & find fault just like my parent's did. I became Christian, all the self help books l read did nothing but reading scripture daily into a born again spirit changed me totally, praise God.

[thecrazycamplady]

I've felt that way with just not completing things. I'm a single mom and can't ever get it all done. I'm doing well in my career and parenting, but struggling with financial management and house cleaning. I'm taking financial peace university to have a solid financial plan. If i can carve out money in my budget to hire help with my house, I will. My kids are teens, so they do help a lot. I'm still always behind. I get used to things being undone and walk right past things that need doing. Usually I'm not walking past it actually... I'm running.... always running late for the next thing. It's a struggle. I'm a really good time manager and organizer... but it's just so much to manage. My outlook is still positive and grateful.. I'm blessed to be raising two amazing teens. I noticed this habit that I have of just feeling like it's not worth stressing about the messes. I'm still happy, but aware of my helplessness.

[KathySemrau-oude]

My life was filled with these people. l can remember, don't wear that; or you're reading a crazy book. Learned helplessness got ten times worse when l moved to this place. It seems like everyone here victimized me even worse than in my childhood. So far, these people are just a little creepy like they as usual. How can you fight with a hate group online and in your hometown? At times, you have to speak up for yourself no matter how long it takes. Blessings be to everyone. 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼 🧡 🙏 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼 🧡 🙏 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼 🧡 🙏 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼 🧡 🙏 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼 🧡 🙏 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼 🧡 🙏 🌹 🍀 ❤️ 🌼

[stilllearning]

Sometimes it is us, ourselves that will not chose to live free. We too have to do our part to put aside fear. It is not just about the victim mantra.

[evelynchester]

True statement but I learned not to let someone project their limited mindset on you. They believe that they can’t do something so they want you to believe that you can’t do it either. I learned to surround myself with people who had the same beliefs and dreams I had and we encouraged each other.

[normalimbaga]

Since birth I'm very better in my experience because my mother said i am a rebel but I'm independent in my own life thank you to my spirit guide me thank you for your messages

[joprocter]

Battling for grandchild not to be limited by others put downs. I lost most of my life to betrayal for devotion to mother n family.. Had a dose of terets now feel moved on but part of me is lost n lonely and frighten of sustaining friendships n trust. A feeling of needing to attain peace n happiness and be accepted. I do best to ensure grandchild catches full bloosom of life.

[emilygalarza]

I finally realize that ! I got rid of my family and I feel like I found my voice and it feels so good. I wish them well.❤🙏🏼✝️

[kwsdgys]

I'm a senior and I still don't know who I am. The whole damn family treated me this way. I never figured it out.

[olgaharris]

💫 No lies detected, and it stifles your growth. I’m over 70 and it’s a real factor of this journey called LIFE! Some people have to suppress you to make themselves feel better! Identify, pray and push through! That’s where your faith in God comes in!
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[sherineeman]

I was raised to the age of 12 as a Jehovahs Witness, and my adopted mother taught me to fear life 😢