When she can’t get to the point, call it “Shelaborating” 🤣#shorts

[josephwilliams]

Worst part is, they don't even answer your question.

[IanCanada-nbdy]

This is the reason we don't ask questions. Women think we are quiet or dont care when, in reality, we are protecting our peace.

[tristanmoore]

Hahaha, just recently, I had to explain to my wife why I can never remember dates and times she tells me for upcoming events. After she had been yacking for 10 minutes, I said, "Stop, what is the time, date and place I need to know?" She started the story all over again. I said, "NO, what is the time, date and place I need to know?" I then had to explain to her why I couldn't remember those things because the important stuff was buried in the novel of WHY I needed to be there, rather than just telling WHEN to be there😮‍💨

[ab_ab_c]

Shelaborating (aka shebabbling) is mindless & often incoherent babbling that almost never makes a clear point.

[thomasboyd]

I don’t think women can give a yes or no response! They need to shelaborate in order to live!!, 😂😂😂

[kylemackinnon]

My wifes got the opposite problem where she will bring me into a conversation shes been having in her head without a shred of context

[virgilcoxon]

“Shelaborated” - LOL
Adding it to my dictionary.😂😂😂

[jeremiahdelafuente]

After she says all she has to say i always pause look at her and ask So, is that a yes? 😂😂😂😂😂

[m.d.banfield]

They'll never admit to anything. Remember? Phobias of being held accountable?

[Private-GtngxNMBKvYzXyPq]

That word is going into my lexicon for occasional use when appropriate. Brilliant.

[narineramdihall]

Mansplaining
Shelaborating
And for the nonbinary, Theylucidating

[AForever-wiyj]

woman “ how was your day”
Man “ Okay”

Man “how was your day”
Woman” you won’t believe it today Mary called and said she wanted to see if I thought it would be ok if Tonya spoke to Francine who was going to be … (15 minutes later ) and then Mary said
Man( I knew I should have worked overtime )

[penndiehl]

I used to work with a woman who did this, and she was a LEAD! It was terrible because you could never get the help you needed.

[rancecraig]

Yesss. God bless 'em
It's hilarious how differently we parent, too

[andywatson]

Women talk in circles. Men talk in straight lines.

[DHM]

That's great counter to that misandrist term! Lol!

[davidhilborn]

Every single day It's a yes or no question. I don't want the verbalization of every feeling that men will simply keep to themselves.

[JaM-vzhr]

My Mom does this and I ask for the short version(with humor) than my Dad says yes.

[jagsr]

I held my head soon as my brother said the word 💯 😂😂🤦🏾

[ElzaMusic]

I agree, both men &women need to grow in patience, vulnerability& maturity with each other’s differences. But I believe that the connection that both men and women seek can be maintained and strengthened by simply having 15 minutes of uninterrupted, active listening, she will do much less shelaborating 😊 if she feels seen and heard with heartfelt listening while looking into each other’s eyes ( no phones no TVs ) every single day. I actually wrote a powerful song about this exact topic 😂🎉And guys, it’s OK to let your woman know. I need a moment to decompress before I can be present to listen to your shares. And ladies utilize your female friends to fulfill your need to talk 😂!! And Guys sometimes when your mansplaining you inadvertently are talking down to your woman which is definitely not a turn on and what you really want is to show how smart you are .. so maybe try asking her” hey do you want me to explain how I do this? Then you get her buy in instead of unsolicited advice. I know how hard it is you just wanna help and you want to fix things but most of the time there’s nothing to fix. The same advice can go to the ladies ask them if they want your help rather than swooping in and mothering them or emasculating them that’s not a turn on to them.
Just be present and listen (stay away from anything that is an escape or replacement for your partner ( for example porn/ too much screen time )numbing out ( daily alcohol/ drugs / workaholic and your relationship will flourish !!! I am a musician, not a physician, but I’ve been through an awful lot lot in my life, and these are just some of the pieces of wisdom that I’ve learned through the school of hard knocks . If you’re curious, check out my music and if you like it, please subscribe to my YouTube YouTube channel / Spotify/TikTok etc.. ❤❤❤ may the force be with you -all couples out there!!!🎉🎉🎉