6 Ways to Stop Self Sabotaging Your Own Success

In the journey to success, we often talk ourselves out of what we are capable of doing! Learn more about this internal conflict and the irrational beliefs that you may be holding that are holding you back!

[Lifeislive]

1. Fear of failure (not just trying to change or do new things)
2. Fear of success
3. Not believe in yourself
4. I don’t deserve success or this job or this woman/man or this car or something else that I what like to integrate into my life, maybe to taste it for a while.
5. I want to fit in, I don’t want to be different as I truely am.
6. perfection is fear of shame or be not enough
7. Don‘t change your circumstances and friendships.

[Neongreenravoe]

Perfectionism was something I’ve always struggled with and I’m finally breaking free from it. Thank you for this word Pastor TD Jakes

[Anayamila]

"Just because they're shooting at you, dosent mean they shot you"

[kellyofficer]

I've spent my life sabotaging my career, my education, my standard of living. I know I do it and don't know why! I see a pattern but not until afterwards. I feel my potential is abundant but my self sabotage hides it. I have excuse after excuse to the point of hopelesness.

[kehonan]

I don't go to church anymore but his words are beyond true and I needed to hear this, thank you for your wise words sir.

[rubym]

I was asking Divine to send this message - perfectly timed and ingested. I give myself permission to succeed

[prepperspray]

My self-sabotaging comes in the form of substance abuse and promiscuity when I begin to reach my goals. It has taken me a lifetime to realize I don't feel deserving because of all the lousy, hurtful things I have done to other people, most of which are dead by now. It makes no sense but I can't seem to stop this thinking/behavior. It feels as if it has taken on a life of its own.

[yomommasbehind]

It's true. I was always worried about trying to fit in but we live in a narcissistic society and we'll never fit in. Screw it! Better be myself. I've been alienated by my relatives first because I wasn't good enough for them and they trained me to self loathe. And we always surrender to peer pressure. This words made me change my perspective...

[denisef]

Thank you for uploading this gem! Thanks to this man for his true, amazing words!

[YoutubeYusra]

It's 2020 and self-sabotage is still an important topic to address! I just dropped a youtube video on my own journey through self-sabotage and limiting beliefs.

[analives]

I'm going to be secretly gifted by staying home :) this is common...

[esotericebony]

Just came to the realization that I've been doing this to myself my whole life. Stops now!

[GraceTruth]

Thank you Pastor for this message. How much the devil has stolen from me because I did not love and believe in myself and believe the truths of God about me. I always thought I was less than anyone, the very bottom. This ends now. I am a NEW CREATION and my LORD IS JESUS CHRIST. The old patterns only have power if I give them power. I am not a slave to any old thought patterns or substance. I am a slave only to Jesus and I am called to success, peace and love in Jesus. I will seek Your will and be successful in following it through. Blessings to everyone and much success in your lives in Jesus' name! The devil is a liar!

[fbisono]

That is the key, “ what people think of you “

[jesusstmylawislove]

Wow . I now understand that perfectionism is the root of SELF - sabotage ! There's a human never able to be "perfect" so we perfectly make us unable ..to do anything "imperfect" at all . Called us all out. this was loud right ?! ©👑🕊️

[blacksugar]

Beautiful Word. Thank you, I needed to hear this because without realization and action the cycle will continue. God bless everyone, and I hope you all find healing .

[mck]

The best part is : secretely talented - I am gonna sing at home!!!

[Giaaannnaas]

THANK YOUUUU TD Jakes.
OMG sorry for the capital letters but you've made may day greater. Blessings.

[elisalozano]

This person is encouraging me to believe in myself ❤

[FrancescoGranieri]

What a fantastic speaker, and accurate message...