Growing Up Without A Dad Is The Main Reason You're Messed Up | Attachment Issues

Growing Up Without A Dad Is The Main Reason You're Messed Up _ Attachment Issues... Growing up without a dad can lead to various emotional and psychological challenges, which may result in difficulties when forming healthy relationships. I want you to understand the implications of growing up without a dad, how it can affect your development, and the various ways we can take proactive steps to address these issues. To learn more about growing up without a dad and how it's the main reason you're messed up, embrace this dating advice and watch the entire video.

I want you to understand the main reason why you’re messed up so you can begin to heal and grow. Recognizing the impact of growing up without a dad allows you to address any emotional wounds and work towards building healthier relationships. Pay attention to this dating advice video to understand that growing up without a dad is the main reason you’re messed up.

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Love is the answer, people! Don’t give up. DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. HOPE. God loves you and so do I! You got this. DADS MATTER!

[hansjusmeus]

This video should be taught in school worldwide 👏

[RobertDiederichMDPhD]

I’m always impressed by Anna’s emotional intelligence that clearly has been a life-long journey for her. Her sharing of her own struggles brings this home concretely. It’s so refreshing to see this in a woman given the number of damaged women out there who tend to blame men for all their problems.

[Phaedrus-thbi]

Happy Father's Day ! (laughing when you said, "Dad's aren't good for just fixing leaking faucets", because I am literally taking a break now from fixing a leaking outside spigot. LOL !!!!) Many years ago I was dating a woman who worked a summer position in a daycare. I visited her and her dozen kids. About half of them literally clung to my legs and kept asking for me to "flip" them etc.like gymnastics. When my girlfriend and I left, she asked me if I knew why half the kids literally held on to me and wouldn't let me out of their sight. I said, "No, why?" Her answer, "Those are the kids growing up with just their mothers. They crave the attention of a Dad-figure especially when they are trying to have fun."

[SteelFanther]

I remember once when I was little I went to my dad and asked him, "Dad, what's an alcoholic?"
So Dad replied, "Do you see those four trees? Well, an alcoholic would see eight."
I was really surprised and said, "But Dad, I only see two." ...
* Moscow, Russia

[jonathanmoore]

That's why I have always been there for my daughters as a role model for what I think a real man looks like so that when its their turn to find a guy, they will choose wisely

[sgk]

Thank you Anna for delivering a better fathers' day sermon than at any church I've been to.

[actmyage]

Just wanted to say "Thank you!" for covering this topic today! Too much of this world is screaming about the worthlessness of men in general and fathers in specific. You hit the nail on the head repeatedly and drive it in flush (how's that for a dad-minded illustration?)! That you are able to tackle an issue so intertwined with your own childhood speaks volumes of your depth of character (not that this surprises me, though -- you've repeatedly shown your significant depth of character many times over my years watching you). I can only imagine that your father would be deeply impressed by the woman whom his little girl has become. As much as I appreciate your unicorn-like appearance (being a truly beautiful redhead), nothing physical can match the beauty of the person you've become. Bravo! Please accept a non-creepy virtual hug from a man who is both a father and grandfather. You are a truly impressive person, Anna. Praying for you always. -- Russ P PS/Don't know if you'll see this. Responding late in the day because my daughter surprised me by coming to my church this morning so we could catch lunch together for Father's Day. My daughter + Mexican food = great afternoon! ;) PPS/Doing my best trying to provide the father role while raising my teenage granddaughter in her father's absence. It's far from simple, but it so very needed. The teenage years are no time for a girl to be without a father.

[glenbateman]

I grew up WITH my father in the house, so you never can tell.
I'm 63, and still working to repair the damage.

[ptyleranodon]

The scenario with the mom inadvertently raising a people-pleasing son rings very true. Growing up I visited my dad a couple of weekends per month and he was only partially present during those visits. My mom was my main influence and never pushed my brother or I to take those risks.
It definitely has brought its challenges as a husband and father, but over the years I’ve slowly become more comfortable being assertive and setting boundaries.
To all the current and potential fathers out there, your children don’t require perfection. They just need your honest effort to be present and for you to show your love for them. Working through your own stuff can help you to do that.

[mckeeasdf]

One of the main reasons why so many men these days are refusing to even become fathers:
The legal system actually encourages mothers to reduce fathers into little more than child support payers.
If your offspring are very likely to be raised by yet another single mom, then we don't even bother to try.
Fathers have little or no rights these days in the court system, so, many of us don't invest in a family that can just be taken away at any time, for any reason, or no reason at all (No fault divorce). Bad bet.

[Cee_Eff]

I grew up with a father, but he created a bunch of issues that eventually required therapy to heal the wounds he created

[appskobadr]

I grew up with both of my parents but my father was always emotionally unavailable and very critical of me because I was not the son for him he expected to be.. I was the guy growing up being very insecure, shy, no discipline and without purpose in life just like my father.

5 years ago I started to read books about improving my own life and tried to start businesses to rebel against this weakness, my father once told me he would burn my books, to this day I never understood this because I would be so grateful if my future son would do this.

After I’ve traveled the world on my own, started a few businesses that worked out well and transformed myself into a confident man he still never shows the appreciation and that makes me very distant to him even though I always appreciate that he stayed together with my mom even when she still doesn’t respect him.

[MonsterTomten]

I grew up with my mom having full custody due to my dads problem with alcohol, I saw him just a few times each year. In retrospect I see my mom wasn't better, mental and physical abuse/discipline. Alot of loud fighting with all her different partners and alot of bashing my dad. In a sense she was right about him, he never came to visit me, he barely called me. When I was visiting him as an adult we didn't really do anything together. I love/loved my parents but in this last year I have learned about attachment styles and I now see how much of a mess I am and why I am that way. I haven't really ever been in a relationship, I am 38 and had my first relationship 1, 5 years ago. It lasted 7 months before she monkey branched away from me.
Now I have cut off contact with my parents, after learning this all those memories resurfaced. None of them have really taken action to apologize or do right by me. I have a few tight friends. But when it comes to family or romantic partner I am all alone

[gertbenade]

So much of this is true! Both my parent's Dads passed away at age ~10... and it shows in my life. But recognising the patterns is the first step and actively working on your behaviour by taking OWNERSHIP of your life WILL make a difference in all facets of your life!

Great video, thank you Anna!

[jessejamessimons]

All right my lady friend..."Rejection is God's protection"...I wish I would have came up with that. Thank you for adding that to my scruples. God bless ✝️🙏🏼❤️😇

[jamieseiple]

Sorry you lost your dad. I lost my children. It can mess a person up, I'm proof of that. Love your channel💖

[vernemil]

I'm sorry that you grew up mostly w/o a dad Anna. Hoping you had a good Father's Day, wishing you such a day because in a sense you're advice to young men is taking on the role that fathers mostly have failed to do. Well either failed or don't know how to do. Anyway kudos to you.

[philipmazonson]

This is really helpful, my dad died when I was 7..it’s a really deep wound . Thank you for this vid💚

[juddgoswick]

Sorry about your dad, and glad you found your peace. I am sure both of your parents can be proud of how you help people with your work. God bless!