How To STOP Being Taken For Granted by Men

[cherylannebarillartist]

Even if they’re incredibly busy, the busiest person still makes sure they prioritize a loved one!
NO excuses!!!

[bapparawal]

Society also needs to teach men to stop doing such toxic behaviour.

[AngelEyes-xmel]

I over valued him, he undervalued me.

[britniturner]

If he breadcrumbs you, he doesn’t like you

[airdrumchick]

Yes, put yourself first again!! Get confidence back

[christineribone]

Don't put up with guys that won't start out by dating one woman at a time. You'll NEVER get an exclusive commitment from someone that's dividing himself up among other people. Especially if he's having s&x with them. That's absolutely nasty and disrespectful to the people he's sleeping with and to you.


Don't be a fool or an idiot. Get some morals and standards.

[X_Majoue]

I love this. I was in this position after my divorce when I was dating. I made these mistakes many times. But then I met my current SP after I made changes. He and I did get attached really early. He’s the only that asked for us to take a step back. We continued to date and I gave him some time and spent more time on myself. Over time our connection strengthened and I achieved a better understanding of myself. I was in a very dark place after my ex husband. It was a long hard road but it was worth it.thanks for sharing this

[Stellarchick]

People don't change. If someone treats you as an option, dump them. 9 billion people in the world. You can find a good one as long as you don't waste your time on a loser 3:58

[jackiebarton]

Oh Bernardo, I needed to see this. I've just been where you are describing. I left, gracefully, then spent my days feeling empty and wanting him to come back to me. He didn't. Watching this post literally woke me up and I'm now feeing happy with myself for leaving and taking back my power. Thank you so much. x

[kathrincoulter]

I thank you for wanting to help women find a good men. I have to be honest though. All of this just seems so overwhelming. I feel confused, and like it's all some sort of game I'm supposed to play, or some riddle I'm supposed to solve. We are told there are no rules, yet there are so many rules, we are told be exclusive, but don't be exclusive, be strong and have boundaries, but be soft and feminine. To me this is all very confusing, and honestly just incredibly frustrating. It makes me feel like men just get to be a certain way and women just have to take it, gracefully not say anything, act like they are ok, and walk away, otherwise they loose their value. It is not ok . How can we say that women loose their value because they are reacting to men behaving badly and causing them pain??? I think all of this is upside-down. It just makes me not want to even engage with anyone to be honest.

[DeePie]

I did this last night with the guy I was over valuing and tonight I have a date with the guy I was under valuing.

[susanwalker]

I got out of a relationship 7 weeks ago with a guy that love bombed me, pulled me in then mentally and emotionally abused me. The physical I'm sure was the next stepbut after driving me so low and loosing my job I had it now I see him for what he was thank God I got out. Now I'm starting to look after myself again!

[aileen]

Exactly right, 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻....take back yur power always choose yourself than yur lover ...if u felt something wrong....give a break, so u can realize if u still want the connection or No....don't be fooled by feelings ..always be guided with what u feel is best for you...❤
Thank you Author

[melissasmuse]

Bern, thank you for this video. I realize these videos are geared towards people who are dating or in relationships. I have been single for two years decided to back off from dating because I was finding the same pattern in relationships where men don’t choose me. And I miss or ignore the red flags. Would love a video on how to step back out into the dating world when you’ve been out of it so long. I’m not sure where to start.

[outsidethebox]

This video has helped me so much. I’m about to go and text this person right now & let them go. I can’t do this anymore. Ty for this.

[ritanightingale]

Thanks, what you said about shame is so true. Talk to yourself as if you are motivating and supporting your own child that you love unconditionally. It is a game changer, and it will snap you straight out of that negative ruminating downward cycle.

[AkireMaru]

It’s never about there not being another human being who has those qualities. Very few people believe that. It’s about the chance you’ll meet such a person. Literally it’s like a needle in a haystack…finding someone who is single, who is looking for a partner, who is the appropriate age, and who has this massive list of other qualities and oh btw - decides to approach you and ask you out (since women realistically can’t approach men without lowering their value). Therein lies the rub. There are many women going into their 40s who are scared. Acting like there is an endless supply of eligible men works when you are a 10, well connected and 19 years old.

[l.r.]

This has been a cycle w a toxic scorpio man over n over and I am Thank you so much for this video I really needed it

[nicoleschultz]

I think this is a great video with really good advice. My only thing is though why tf do I have to be the one doing all the changing of my internal processes and my behaviors and the guy doesn’t have to do anything. Why tf can’t they be held accountable ever. I pray for the day to come when I meet an accountable man who works in his inner shit.

[leenaheist]

What a healing video. Well structured and easy to follow. Your energy is encouraging. Thank you Mr. Mendez.