The Red Flag To Watch Out For!

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In this video, I talk about how a seemingly positive trait at the beginning of a relationship could actually be a big red flag to look out for.

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I’m Thais Gibson, welcome to my channel, and thank you for stopping by!

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[mel]

Hi Thais!
Your videos are so insightful!
You mentioned "60 questions to ask before marriage" in one of your previous videos and I'm wondering if this is something we can still have access to?
Thanks!

[fuzzy]

I think this conclusion is over-simplified since fawning or limerence might also come off as love bombing, but those reactions don't necessarily come from a place of narcissism.

[Michelle-qqsd]

Lots of gifts, jewelry, text, phone calls, fancy dates, excessive compliments…too good to be true. Danger sign.

[kelseycoca]

I'm an FA and I've noticed that love bombing is really effective on me, it has definitely tricked me into bad relationships since I have this need to feel wanted and loved so it's easily manipulated via love bombing. very insightful, Thais!

[crystalsears]

And maybe not narcissistic, but one who is extremely codependent. I call it "chameleoning" into my life. Which that isn't necessarily good either because you can't know who that person really is if they're always agreeing with you, giving you what you want etc. Basically zero conflict. That's not reality. Anyway.. right is throw that out there. Love PDS!!

[joshuadamata]

What's the correct distinction between love bombing and someone who is forward with their feelings? Both as the recipient or "bomber"

Asking as someone who is very forward with how they feel and has no problem being loving with someone I like, even if it's early on.

[deedeewells]

Am I the only one who is SO CONFUSED about what a narcissist is?? Like I only hear them referred to on the internet in a very othered way that seems to imply they are just bad, calculating people. But that doesn't totally make sense to me? Like, why are people narcissists? What needs are they trying to get met? How can we spot if WE are the narcissist and if we are, how do we get help?

Love your content btw!!

[HP_Quinn]

Wow, this is great advice to keep in mind and look out for.

Do you think they do this subconsciously or with intention?

[tinkerz]

Do APs do this as well? As a means to secure connection ? I’m still on the fence as to whether my ex was a covert narc or just an AP who needed a lot of help.

[sherriflemming]

It's manipulative and controlling. It can be any cluster B disorder. Ive experience it with a covert borderline with NPD comorbidity.

[talsingh]

As someone who is empathetic and accepting of others but displays these tendencies, I disapprove of this message 😅. Jokes aside, yes, it could be a narcissist but it could also not. I guess just be careful?

[brianhill]

I just feel like you can’t go around labeling everything “love bombing.” Now when you innocently give someone your attention and value them, you’re accused of putting them on a pedestal. You can appreciate someone without doing that.

[JDoomhauer]

One size does not fit all. “Often” doesn’t mean Always.

[Brandon-yrnj]

the one perk of dismissive avoidance .. love bombers are cringey.

[yorhaunito]

I’m a victim, he’s so different now. Idk what to do

[hunnyb]

Dismissive Avoidants do the same thing in the beginning