How to communicate in a straightforward and direct way

Thanks for asking this question! I Hope these two main points help you in your communication style making it direct and unequivocally straightforward.

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[richy]

This is so what I need right now, trying to solve some communication tangles as we speak!

[fyn]

I think there is a lot to learn from sensing types in this regard. They often have such clear communication.

[bio.Luminescence]

It depends on the degree of intimacy we share. Within our close family circle, we are all ruthless with one another 🥰. Outside, politeness predominates, unless you have it coming your way!

[connorparks]

As an INTJ, this is a difficult thing to achieve when I have a nonstop cacophony of overlapping voices madly free-associating from one idea to the next in my head.
EVERYTHING IS RELATED. 😬

[franknelson]

Thanks Lindsey. I’ve always said, when in doubt be quiet.

[jessenceq]

I would truly value simple and effective resources that would help me figure out what I want, collect my thoughts and leave little room for misunderstanding. For a Te PoLR creature like myself, that means so much. I usually can tell someone I need marination time, but the process of my Ni and Ti together leaving no stone unturned is daunting and I end up not saying everything I felt like I needed to say. Opportunity and the now is also something to keep in mind.

[SOULJAJOE]

Looking forward to this video Lindsay :D

[jasongodmere]

Sometimes I'll start a sentence and I don't even know where it's going, I just hope I find it along the way.
- Micheal Scott

[tmerema]

Those of us who are more introverted are most successful with the "less is more" approach to communication. The more concise the conversation, the better off we are. Maybe not always the best way to look at it, but I see a conversation like a negotiation. Sell your item (which is making your point if you aren't genuinely selling something), then shut the hell up. The first person to talk afterwards loses. Maybe not a great idea to treat communication like a contest, but what isn't these days? I realize this doesn't help the notion that people of my type are heartless and cold, but then people of my type don't care if they're perceived that way.

[OzonatedOil]

Your videos are set out exactly how I like. Usually I think up of many flaws of things but I can't find any for this video.

[happytrails]

I find it to be quite fun to ask whether they would like the short or the long version...

[hafizahjasni]

I'm curious about the video. Looking forward to it. :)

[botanr]

Love this! I think extroverted thinking types are better at this while your other video on NE where you said have the end in mind helped - can steer the interaction towards the goal /enjoy the interaction vs. them waiting for you to shut up. Seeing other peoples reactions to other people "throwing cake at a wall" demonstrates this.

[ryanquick]

there ABSOLUTELY IS (possibly) MORE VALUE in knowing what you dont know // WHAT ARE THE LIMITATIONS than there is in understanding what you do know.

HUMILITY.

it is often a bittersweet pie BUT, it ABSOLUTELY CAN FREQUENTLY provide THE BEST INSIGHTS.

ABSOLUTELY.

FOR SURE.

- intj

[FaronGA]

Finding the most common denominator is the key to it all. Quick maffs.

[claytonpayne]

"And If by the rare chance you actually are the CEO of a Fortune 500 company, and have 10 takeaway points. You already know that you have to have an outline for, such a measure." She says from experience.

[glueball]

This sounds great!!! And if you could, go complete 180 for another video .. sometimes one could be too direct (not me of course XD)

[wit]

The title: How to communicate in a straightforward and direct way.

The thumbnail: "hi"

[heartpoint]

Ahhhh! Was this made for ENFPs or Ne doms in general? Cause I’m an ENFP and certainly have communication strengths, but these are weaknesses! And thank you for the helpful tips, much appreciated.

[glueball]

Wow, that was freaking amazing. I loved the Ni reduction to 2 points. I may feel over-validated on making cue cards for certain phone calls. ( cake 🎂 at a wall .. hahahaha) thanks