GERMAN PARENTS DO NOT SAY THIS TO THEIR KIDS🇩🇪

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[fatdadable]

Now as a German, I find that pretty interesting. It describes us….. it’s one of our good sides…….as well as our worst 😂😂😂

[gillianmuspic]

I have found in North America that the phrase 'good job' has become ubiquitous for anything a child does no matter what it is

[DanielleBabyBliss]

I will continue to give my kids all the hype they deserve 😅

[felixro]

And then there is my father: You could have bought the post stamps tax optimized😂

[deanyaschempp]

There's a new psychological approach called the Neuro-Affective Relational Model, based on the idea that neo-natal development also plays into the whole child's picture. These NARM psychologists talk about how German children during the war years did not get everything they needed, so they learned to deal without. These things would include food and home security, lots of attention, etc. It only makes sense that their children who are now in their 30s are also not great at giving their own children very much attention or "positive strokes" as we would have said in the 70s.

[blackbunshin]

One of my biggest irrational fears is being handed a horrible scribble made by a toddler and being expected to say something about it.

[jessicaely]

What people do in the US to encourage kids to draw is "oh that's good. Tell me about it." If the kid says it's a tree, the parent says, "Do you want me to teach you to make it more realistic?" Doing it this way kids will always be proud to show their parents whatever they made. The German way some kids (not all) aren't happy with showing their parents whatever they made unless it's absolutely perfect. When children get older parents drop the "oh that's good" out.

My husband is Swiss/German. He was brought up the German way, and he HATED it. He felt like nothing was ever good enough. His mother was German, and her parents weren't happy when she brought home perfect grades. When she didn't bring home perfect grades, her parents complained. She just gave up and stopped going to school. You can do constructive criticism. You give a good thing and immediately follow up with something that was wrong.

[svenny]

What? 😅 Of course they do, especially for children. They won't look at a drawing from a child and say 'it's alright'. I think that's more of a bad parent problem.

[enderdavid_hdde]

we learn our kids german productivity at a young age xD

[natashaw]

So true. Germans don't compliment often