Former CIA Agent Explains How To Get Others To Respect You

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Evy Poumpouras is a former U.S. Secret Service Special Agent and multi-media journalist. She is also the co-host of Bravo TV's series ‘Spy Games’ and author of the best-selling memoir, ‘Becoming Bulletproof’

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[DrMikeOckhertz]

Nothing will destroy a good employee faster than watching an employer tolerate a bad employee.

[dylanhill]

You get what you tolerate. Sometimes walking away is better than going to prison.

[MarkusAudio]

Be aware of what you tolerate from people. You are teaching them how to treat you.

[HeavenlyLights]

Disrespectful bullies literally destroy good companies.

[dejiokusanya]

"You train people how to treat you" is my favorite saying.

[paulogarcia]

Some people don't care about your boundaries.

[dave]

Key takeaways:
- Set clear boundaries first
- Give people the opportunity to explain their mistakes
- Offer your help to avoid further mistakes.

[ReallyStrongGuy]

My typing teacher, Ben Enriquez R.I.P. said, “You can tighten up, then lighten up, but not the other way around."

[KMC]

If you find yourself in a situation where you have to demand respect you've already lost. Respect is given and earned, not asked for.

[deusnsubuga]

There are people you can never reason with, you try being calm and talk out an issue they get aggressive.

[azarel]

Reminds me of extreme ownership. You have to look at yourself first and see if you're creating the issue. Great leaders think similarly.

[ShermanBMason]

I’ve learned that sometimes, your appearance is all you have to do to cause people to disrespect you. Don’t confirm those assumptions with lack of action.

[pj]

Yep doesn‘t work with narcissistic family members. best is to ignore. or go no contact

[CastleHassall]

I'm good hearted to everyone but it usually ends up with people being mean to me as they think they can be mean or disrespectful with no consequences to them

[bacul]

Well that's something every good teacher knows: Set your boundaries good and firm. Once that's established, you can get away easily with a more relaxed way of doing things

[lennybreeze]

To be honest some ppl are just disrespectful. If a person disrespects you, that's accountability on them. We all should have been taught basic home training on how to have manners and have mutual respect.

[hsbwjyf]

People aren't afraid of conflict. There afraid of the truth .

[mattcastellanos]

Agree with the CIA station chief. Still, meeting people socially naturally exposes you to social predators of all degrees. Upshifting to higher gears is sometimes required with such people, know and understand directness and walking away as tools, confrontation is not the goal but is in fact the last tool in the kit - use it wisely.

[brandonhughes]

Saw a few people say you can do this to people over you like your boss.

My real world examples ive had to use:
set boundaries and consequences if they cross those boundaries. If your boss is condescending, simply call them out on it and say you dont appreciate it. If your boss is overcontrolling just let them know they are borderlining what is bullying or harassment.


And the key is to be as cold and unemotional as you possibly can.

[mickyeverton]

She is good & has a great delivery!! Was told many years ago PART OF BEING WISE IS KNOWING WHAT TO OVERLOOK!! 🙏🙏