WHY INFJs overshare

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[tonidelisa]

Yup. All the time. Which sends me back into seclusion. It’s become a cycle. It’s starting to feel very dysfunctional.

[hamdafarah]

Absolutely, when i feel comfortable with some body i will tell everything even i never share with my family, then i said oh thats too much.

[saatchisaatchi]

Yes, that's me i'm not in sync i can be as cold as a polar bear, but when i meet up with a kindred soul the floodgates spring open and i could go blah blahing like forever. The remorse i feel afterwards is beyond words.

[benjaminfischer]

Wenzes, please... can you make a longer video about this very topic? This is something I'm dealing with right now and I would like to hear what such an outlet could look like for an INFJ, and how to best approach this.

[sethebloom]

I know this... It's so important to have an outlet and participate daily in what really matters to us to avoid this. It's so true for me. ❤️

[TheLassy]

Finding out in life that people Mask themselves in order to fit it.. blew my mind as a young adult or teenage years - i also never understood why ppl thought "breath of fresh air" is a compliment, like i don't think a person could come close to that, - a breath of fresh air cannot be faked 😊 I would give almost anything for a breath of true fresh air rn

[ashleylarsen]

Only very few people deserve the true you. Be careful out there, lots of wolves in Sheep clothing who will use, abuse and hurt you. Let people show you who they are first and then over time, after being worthy, give them pieces of you.

[aquariusstar]

Learning how to temper this has been hard. 😢 Thank you for confirming this behavior.

[freshstrt]

You just got my subscribe with this video🙏🏽thank you

[vannayoung]

Oh my goodness, it's as if you are talking about me personally, I am indeed an INFJ. My over sharing makes certain people extremely uncomfortable, bc I misinterpret just how close of a relationship I have with others. My husband blames me for our lack of friends and he is right. I scare people away by thinking we have a closer bond than we do.

[roseaduke]

Be mindful of this tendency. Catch yourself. Don't talk/Stop talking.
Train yourself in self-control.

[MerylKeioskie]

I do it, to allow people to feel at ease. Be an open book so-to-speak.

[MrM-mbll]

This is totally me and what bugs me most about it is how some people (I call them simpletons) don't know how to react when you start oversharing with them. They either don't know how to reply and carry on a meaningful conversation or they just nod their heads and then you know they are poor listeners.
However, when you find someone who has the gift of conversation and great listening skills, then the conversation can go on forever.
Last year I stumbled upon an INFJ of the opposite sex and we could talk about anything and forever. We had no problem sharing our deep thoughts and stories. We were just both so glad to have found a fellow INFJ in our metropolitan area. INFJ'S are rare, so finding another one in the area was a miracle.

[janestorm]

Overshared yesterday & now feel like crawling into a hole ans never speaking to people again. I feel guilt & shame.

[Ben-rfdb]

hey wenzes ! thx for the thoughts you share, very accurate and inspirational much appreciated!

[cyberthugFi]

I really found an INFJ and I be talking way too much with her around, at least she understands me

[stevenkinscherf]

Wenzes, would you mind doing a full video on this topic? Why we tend to overshare when we feel that sense of lacking in our lives and we're trying to fill that void with the relationships around us.

[jessenceq]

Agreed, yet I have outlets with friends and STILL do this 😳 probably a trauma response

[josephsarvis]

Wenzies you're like my hero, , I love you for that. So whenever you're ready to become Mrs. Sarvis, , , you just let Joey know, ok baby ❤️

[undeadmonkey]

Not everyone has “potential”. I know I’m useless, was told my family, ex gfs. Lots of people.
I stopped oversharing, sharing in general, because no one gives a damn about me. No one.