When The Narcissist Loses A Good Victim

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00:00 What is Narcissistic Supply
00:55 Who is a Primary Supply
02:22 The Injured Narcissist
03:01 Abandonment Struggles
03:30 The Desperate Narcissist
04:12 The Downfall of the Narcissist
04:40 Closing Thoughts

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Published: 16/10/2024

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[racebannon]

I have learned that you can't reason with a narcissist. They are delusional and have an unreasonable sense of reality. I was dealing with a bratty immature child stuck in an adult body. Narcissists never learn and will make the same or similar mistakes over and over. Narcissists are co-dependent for other people for supply and financial bailouts. Co-parenting with a narcissist is a nightmare and they will sabotage your efforts for attention/supply. Good luck to all.

[privateprivate]

It’s often spoken about, that they move onto new supply, when one leaves or is discarded by them. Not as true, as they age, which is why they can decompensate (? - I probably can’t remember the appropriate word). Still, they often have new supply ready. You didn’t even see it coming. This alone shows they knew what they were doing, all along.

This also happens in families. I didn’t know about narcissism and wasn’t aware my mother was discarding me. My sister had always been the ner do well, that mom always talked about. But, when my mother decided she couldn’t control me, my sister went from scapegoat to golden child. Even if it was to lure me back, after the final discard, I was discarding both of them, to never return, however.

[energy]

Great message I was married to a religious female covert narcissist for 3 yrs only live together 1 yr . Discovered the whole family mother and all were narcissists and she raised her daughters to be a narcissist.I literally had to physically put her out my house, she called the police on me (red flag).She was, extremely DISRESPECTFUL, greedy for money, selfish and entitled. I served her divorce papers and then divorced her 08/2024 I been free from confusion and chaos ever since, but now I have peace of mind. # she is a wolf in sheep clothing, petty and a master of disguises. The Most High and The Holy Spirit led me all the way out of the marriage, a true divine separation.# 2024. These people are the devil’s children and the wicked shall have no peace. A empty AWAY….

[howardandersen]

As mentioned before, I love all of these videos, it is now very empowering to just walk away and not get trapped in the narcissists spider web. 🙏

[alchemicalsoul]

I was a malignant narcissist. I believe many of us are closer on that end of the spectrum than we are aware. Social media has turned us into voyeurs and dopamine seekers from validation. Yes, O ended up with people more malignant than me, which is what forced me to see myself.

[a.williams]

Absolutely true, Clarice. They need constant supply both negative and positive to feel worth which explains their manipulative tactics to secure control over their victims. Recognising their game to no longer play and walk away is the ultimate weapon against them. They're not missing you, they're missing THE POWER they had over you. Your content is always spot on and helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻💜🩹

[gab]

A primary supply is like a body part that they need as a regulator to manage their low self esteem and sense of inferiority. They unload their negative self hatred on to the primary supply and suck the energy from their primary supply to feel better and regulate themselves.

[alexkuieh]

The loss of the primary fuel challenges the very structure of the narcissist.

[sunlightprism]

You do excellent work, Clarice, thanks for the wisdom you share.

[babzarthur]

I got away..I got away..I got away..I got away..I was the primary and I got away..after going thru 8 years of hell..I GOT AWAY

[audrablue]

I was my narc ex's best supply he ever had. Nearly 12 years and I kept trying and trying and he kept being a narc. I finally went full no contact in February this year. It took him until April to realise I was serious. I can't even imagine the melt down he must have had LOL. He tried to burn an important relationship that I had but that failed. So I found out last month (September) that he has found a new supply. His actual next door neighbour in the townhouse complex he lives in. She is now his new I haven't met her but a mutual friend said she's "not all there." That will make it easier for him to manipulate her and the golden period for her should last a lot longer.

[carolprophy]

Narcissist are the pits happy they have come to an end we have clarity and enlightment

[JOEYDEEZ]

I get tired of people confusing self centeredness with selfishness… they are not the same thing whatsoever… being selfish is not a bad trait to be /adopt but being self centered is the pits yo..

Self centeredness is often dangerously damaging… whereas selfishness is mostly just annoying…

That’s what I think anyhow.. I don’t expect others will agree with me on this but I don’t care either way to be fair !!

Thank you

Ciao ;)’

[donnadaniels]

Good 😂that's what I did when I walked away🙏🏽⚔️🦁

[elcee]

They are committed to the external, we are committed to ourselves.

[janetoliver]

When they loose someone they find another

All psychologist say they are seeking another when they are in a relationship.

[JohnSzwed]

True but doesn’t last long. They find a new doormat and start all over again. My scars are lasting

[KATOGOJIRA]

As much as I've told her how much I love her since we were kids constantly praising her I could of would of been her best victim.
But she messed up calling me a narcissist me not knowing what the hell is it
Now a year later I'm self aware of narcissist

[leonasweny]

You shine, enjoy life and forget this piece of

[AremAsha]

Are psychopaths less affected by supply and loss?