Polygyny: A First WIfe's World

What do you do when you feel unheard by your husband? What about if you feel that he is "leaning" towards your co-wife and your feelings seem to take the back burner? How do you communicate, or do you at all? Coach Nyla touches on pain in polygamy and give tips on how to communicate these feelings and challenges in a way that is received in this video.

ABOUT US:
We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges present within it.

Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the example of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).

Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla, and our polygynous journey began.

Since then, 4 more children have been born, 1 by Coach Fatimah and 3 with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.

We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors! However, after being proactive in our growth and commitment for the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.

Once we got it right and reverse-engineered the method, we wanted to take away any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.

ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
This channel is a place where we invite you to travel with us on our personal development journey to develop better and more fulfilling relationships whether you are single, married in monogamy, or practicing or looking to practice polygyny.

We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area. Being that polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime, but people are still practicing it without practical education, we decided to help.

As a man, it helps provide guidance in areas of leadership, raising your financial IQ, increasing your emotional intelligence, mental awareness, and overall levels of competence and confidence.

As a woman, we help women connect to their femininity, understand how to navigate differing dynamics, how to be attractive as a whole, and how to craft a life of fulfillment no matter the challenges that present themselves.

We help committed people go from surviving to thriving. If you are dedicated to growth, love, and connection then understand that the truth may set you free, but it may upset you off first.

We will tell the truth, share best practices, and also learn from our community.

ABOUT YOU:
If you are a man or woman who is interested in becoming the best version of yourself and in turn developing rich, fulfilling, and joyful relationships with others, then you are in the right place.

If you are looking to grow, learn more, and shine when there seems to be so much darkness around, then you are on the right channel.

Here are a few ways we want men to benefit from our channel:
1. Better your character
2. Raise your leadership ability
3. Increase your financial intelligence
4. Expand your emotional capacity
5. Develop mental strength and agility

Here are a few ways we want women to benefit from our channel
1. Better your character
2. Increase your femininity and maturity
3. Understand your female supportive and nurturing roles
4. Learn how to bring peace, joy, and beauty through sophistication
5. Increase your emotional, mental, and spiritual intelligences

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Salaam/Peace,
Your Favorite Relationship & Polygyny Coaches
Nazir, Fatimah, & Nyla

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[rhondashearer]

Assalamualaikum sis. I am the 2nd wife. I haven't been married but almost 3 months. I found your videos when I was doing research after my husband asked me to be his wife. Your videos help so much. Thank you. May Allah bless you and your beautiful family with peace, prosperity and good health. Salam

[missindependentwife]

Peace, This is a continuous challenge… we have to want to work on our relationships …. Thank you

[namukwayahanifa]

Coach Nyla Marriage has changed me so much that I forgot myself along the way, I found my partner so irritable and resorted to keeping quiet and respecting him, sealed my ego....and then after nine years, he remarries.I sighed because now I knew that my silence will start to speak...now he complains that my sister wife is so irritable.."she gets annoyed all the time, "how should I be of help?Me and My sister wife communicate, can I offer to help her?Or it's time I told him how it felt back then?

[ShaziaPKamal]

Is there any way I can message you? Need some guidance

[aminahbergliotrolsdorph]

سلام عليكم..
May Allah Protect and Bless your extended family 🤲❣️
As Muslims we know it must be a deeper Wisdom and Divine Guidance ✨️ in Polygamy being there .
Less Nafs and sisterhood too.
So when a Co Wife isn't there to Embrace with respect it is another test .
So even I am in another situation I feel concerned about my Ummah, s wellbeing and success🌏🤲❣️
Not without pain as purification.
Rumi quote:
The Light Entering through the wound ✨️..

Stay Safe..
Peaceful ✌️

[livefromplanetearth]

are there any private family rituals of collective communication that y’all could actually illustrate publicly vlog style?

[mohangela]

I’m just curious about the men having more wives….. we do refer to ancient time the china king who having such many wives….. but is come to religion is not make sense that God agree men to have many wives….. 😮