Polygyny: The Bitter First Wife

ABOUT US:
We are Coach Nazir, Coach Fatimah, & Coach Nyla. We are considered Black Americans and we were all raised as Christians. We have a keen understanding of the many facets of American culture and the ongoing challenges present within it.

Each of us accepted Islam as young adults and are practicing Muslims who follow the final revelation, The Quran, and the example of the Last & Final Prophet and Messenger, Muhammad ibn Abdullah (sws).

Coach Nazir & Fatimah were married for 15 years and had 6 children when he chose to practice polygyny. He married Coach Nyla, and our polygynous journey began.

Since then, 4 more children have been born, 1 by Coach Fatimah and 3 with Coach Nyla who has added 2 bonus children (step-children) to the family making a total of 12 children.

We had very little support and even slimmer resources when we began our journey, so things were done by trial and error and there were lots of errors! However, after being proactive in our growth and commitment for the success of the family, we figured it out and decided to be a resource for others who may be experiencing similar difficulties.

Once we got it right and reverse-engineered the method, we wanted to take away any excuses from those who say they didn't have a way to learn how to practice it correctly.

ABOUT THIS CHANNEL:
This channel is a place where we invite you to travel with us on our personal development journey to develop better and more fulfilling relationships whether you are single, married in monogamy, or practicing or looking to practice polygyny.

We share a lot about polygyny and its dynamics because our teachers and spiritual leaders have failed us in this area. Being that polygyny doesn't get its fair share of airtime, but people are still practicing it without practical education, we decided to help.

As a man, it helps provide guidance in areas of leadership, raising your financial IQ, increasing your emotional intelligence, mental awareness, and overall levels of competence and confidence.

As a woman, we help women connect to their femininity, understand how to navigate differing dynamics, how to be attractive as a whole, and how to craft a life of fulfillment no matter the challenges that present themselves.

We help committed people go from surviving to thriving. If you are dedicated to growth, love, and connection then understand that the truth may set you free, but it may upset you off first.

We will tell the truth, share best practices, and also learn from our community.

ABOUT YOU:
If you are a man or woman who is interested in becoming the best version of yourself and in turn developing rich, fulfilling, and joyful relationships with others, then you are in the right place.

If you are looking to grow, learn more, and shine when there seems to be so much darkness around, then you are on the right channel.

Here are a few ways we want men to benefit from our channel:
1. Better your character
2. Raise your leadership ability
3. Increase your financial intelligence
4. Expand your emotional capacity
5. Develop mental strength and agility

Here are a few ways we want women to benefit from our channel
1. Better your character
2. Increase your femininity and maturity
3. Understand your female supportive and nurturing roles
4. Learn how to bring peace, joy, and beauty through sophistication
5. Increase your emotional, mental, and spiritual intelligences

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Salaam/Peace,
Your Favorite Relationship & Polygyny Coaches
Nazir, Fatimah, & Nyla

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[sarafarah]

Hi my Muslim sister, shout-out to all of you, you guys are great people, I am emotionally not prepared to acknowledge, when dealing with emotions, I always watch your videos and listen with open heart and try to understand what you are saying. You ladies are great people and you inspire me to become open and understanding in shaa Allah. Jazaka Allah qeyr for these videos and advise that you give everyday.

P.S sorry for the long comment.

[Blackaveli-tv]

Alhumdullilah, this Sister is powerful!

[BintGumby]

The Queen has spoken and not hanging around toxic insulting people is a rule of thumb for any marriage or relationship. People always find something they dont like about u or use against u if they dont understand. Allah y barik feekum

[gairoonishaboolay]

So wonderful to hear you wives can respect and be kind to each. In shaa Allah maybe one day myself the the co wife can get to this level. Ameen

[kwadwoamponsah]

Y’all are very courageous, and have nothing but the upmost respect from a viewer in Toronto.

[mansafamara]

Hello! I really need someone to talk to about this. My bf wants this life style. He is African. His dad was more monogamous. His grandpa did have 2 wives. His linage allows for this. I can not deny. We talked about this, but I was deeply unaware of how close this possibility was. I am American black and the secret love child of my parents. So I do understand a man’s need for variety. I just feel so unprepared and frágil. I am jealous. I am mad. Im recovering. It’s still so new. Help. ❤

[noreenhussain]

It's true. Shouldn't care about anyone says. This is your life and you know better how to live it and deal with it. Pray you all are well and doing good. Well done for supporting others from your experiences. Great video as always. X

[MaryamShamsWayMaryamShams]

Assalamu'alaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh my beautiful sister, I love your attitude shot out to you and your family I need to adapt that to myself 💯 👏🏼 🙌🏼 ❤☝️🏼🌹🥰👑

[fatimamohamudjama]

Asc my sister your 💪 strong women my allaha subhana watacal increase your Iman. ❤ you.

[aminahbergliotrolsdorph]

سلام عليكم و جزاك الله خيرا..
I ❤️ you ..
May Allah Bless you and your beautiful family.

[aishahwilliamsmobley]

As-Salaamualaykum wa'rahmatullahi wa'barakatuhu Outstanding Muslim Parents and all other Brothers and Sisters as well. How about interviewing some other women who are or were very accepting of polygyny being a first wife please?