8 Reasons Men Fall In Love | How to Inspire His Attraction

How and WHY do men fall in love? It’s simpler than you think! Here are 8 reasons guys become emotionally invested in women, and what YOU can do to activate their attraction and love.

How can I make him love me? How do men fall for women? What can I do to open a man’s heart? I get asked questions like these OFTEN by clients, students and women in my life… so I created a video that outlines the 8 biggest reasons men fall for you and how to inspire that emotional investment from him.

TIMELINE
0:00 Intro
0:31 Subscribe
0:53 Men & Love
1:53 - 1) He Can Relax And Be Himself Around You
5:17 - 2) He Feels Emotionally Safe Around You
8:00 - 3) He Feels Ready To Emotionally Invest In Someone
9:21 - 4) He Deeply Believes He Can Make You Happy
11:25 - 5) Fit Well Into His Current Life
15:31 - 6) He Can See His Future With You
16:22 - 7) You Have Passion And Purpose In Your Life
17:42 - 8) He Genuinely Has Fun With You
19:45 - Recap of All 8 Reasons
23:29 - Closing Comments

If you want more support in creating the life and love of your dreams, this is how I can help you ❤️ 👇

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[Mat_Shaffer]

QUESTION OF THE DAY - What have been the reasons men have fallen in love in your own relationships?

[tigerpepper]

8 Reasons Men Fall in Love
1 He can relax/be himself around you.
2 He feels emotionally safe around you.
3 He feels ready to emotionally invest in someone.
4 He deeply believes that he can make you happy.
5 You fit well into his current life.
6 He can see his future with you.
7 You have passion and purpose in your life.
8 He genuinely has fun with you.

[sandyg]

Be yourself. Be vulnerable. Tell him your truths. Be open.. Be kind. Be loving. Be affectionate. But mostly realise if it's meant to be it will be.. I found the one after years of abuse from a shitty relationship.

[valeriem]

Hey, Mat. I am an older lady and have been married for 41 years to my college sweetheart. Your videos provide insights into the masculine and feminine dynamic that I enjoy learning about. You help me see how and why our relationship has worked well all of these years. But I also learn about ways to improve our partnership and to connect on a deeper level. It is never too late to learn how to improve. Keep up the good work!

[pureeraco.]

Just being myself!! I think that is a golden rule :) also realizing when a man is opening up, and appreciating him for it ♡

[patriciamasuda]

Two complete people coming together. Not two people completing each other.
Most powerful point of all, no doubt. Your outline so well laid out, you could write a book based on this video alone.

[wendybrown]

I was a stranger and He fell in love with me cos i was soo caring and kind to him, even more so than his own family. Esp wen he was going thru a hard time. Stranger to friend to the love of his life!

[laurapreston]

He worked his way into my heart...i didn't see it coming!
We are very happy!

[GodIsLove]

APPRECIATION means a LOT to a man. It’s a sign of RESPECT. I make him feel like my HERO everyday and it makes me SO happy to give him that respect.

[barbaranavarro]

I think we women do have needs as well and lately I have felt that men are the only ones in the relationship who need support. Its like they are babies! I am a woman and I want someone who knows who he is and what he wants. If he is insecure or he needs too much from me I'm out. I have done it before and it didnt go well, he cheated on me and i felt really stupid. Last time! If they need help, they learn first before trying to be in a relationship with a real and serious woman.

[Curiamacabre]

He is spot on about everything!! Amazing insight, how does he know all this?? Haha!! My boyfriend told me he realized he loved me because he could be himself around me, I am very open and have learned over the years to be ok with being vulnerable and honest and it does attract a real love. Sometimes we are not even aware of who we really are or what we really want unless we go through some relationships that end. Instead of closing ourselves off, we must move forward with what we’ve learned and be honest with the next person we meet. Always be real and don’t blame the new person for what the past person did!! Move forward together and the man will drop his guard and real intimacy will come out of it!!

[nathlete]

O my gosh Mat, I found you through Helena and you’re a blessing. So many things I want to say, but mostly, thank you for bringing a male perspective that is based on feelings and genuine emotion. So many male coaches teach from a place of manipulation and strategy. You’re so appreciated.

[keshakellogg]

Three phenomenal things, Mat:
1) Advice
2) Hilarious video cuts
3) Bookshelf styling
I super-appreciate your presence here on YT and offering your perspective. My friends and I benefit from it so much. 🙏♥️

[reginareneerobertson]

omg lol, Mat why are you sooo funny?!? open to luh-uuuv?" hahaha love how you integrate humor while you're giving us ALL the tea!

[alonagsofly]

You’re smart. I have watched other male relationship coaches but you’re different. You’re good. You know exactly what you’re talking about and it shows how you talk with a heart, with real emotion. Just watched one of your video. Then watched one again.. I’m your fan now. Thank you.

[pamelamidlane]

This is the most telling man, about men... I have heard to date! So glad I found you, thank you🥰❤️

[julierose]

Awesome. I love this Mat. You hit the nail on the head with me and my man. He also tells me that He loves the way I live my life and that I have done well for myself. 🥰

[ilikestampy]

Mat, you put your heart and soul into this video. Great stuff. Thanks!

[sanchez]

I am a vegan and try to stay away from all fast foods. I also believe that our thoughts can create our realities. My boyfriend definitely eats animals regularly, and has a depressed mood most of the time.

[r.lynnsteinberg]

For me, it wasn't magic. We just laugh together and ferl comfortable with each other and know that we each want to support each other. We love each other. We've been through hard timrs, but support each other.