How Do I Stay Calm With My Child?

When your child throws a tantrum, what do you do? When they test your patience, do you just burst out of frustration? In today's episode, me and Vicki are going to talk about how to stay calm with your child. It's not the easiest of things to do, but you have to know that it can be managed! Stay tuned!

00:13 Remember how patient we were before we were parents?
00:41 It's important to know how your own brain works
01:10 Your brain is divided up
02:00 Limbic System
03:57 Chemicals have a half-life
06:55 What are we expecting at different stages of development of a child?
09:40 Let's keep a perspective of who these kids are

Watch and Enjoy!
Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[clyfan]

I love how you simplify everything so we can understand why we are acting the way we do with our kids

[mrsyvonnenlee]

I love this channel! You make sense of the arrogance and ignorance in parenting, while enabling parents to retain their dignity and giving children a voice like nothing ever seen before in our time. It is also endearing watching you guys chemistry. When one is talking the other is fully engaged listening. The way that you look at one another also conveys the love you share in a honeymoonish type of way, though you’ve been married for many years. Thank you for giving us a part of you every day to help us sail smoothly though these uncharted waters of parenting our children with the confidence of a seasoned seamen!

[WordsPictures]

" Getting better at accepting more than we expect " ... Thank you so much for this, especially for pointing out that doesn't mean being okay with bad behavior just simply not allowing it to upset you so that you can deal with it better.

[robbinsnest]

I'm more patient with other kids. I've worked in daycare, public schooling with special needs kids, but lately my own my patience has flown the coop.😅

[snowflakes]

Once again thank you so much!! Dr. Paul could you please make video about how to spot any symptoms of disorder i.e NPD, BPD in early age and how to fix it before its getting worse. Thank you.

[urlvesolo]

Just found your videos. Thank you for this.

[kushbabyy_walkaway]

I'm so tired of loosing my cool x( my kid doesn't respect me, I tell him please stop doing that, and he just says "noo" "nothing" and laughs, but if his dad tells him he will stop sometimes..(he's turning 4 in November)

[LaBella]

Thx for your help! I'm a mom of 2 and a nursery school teacher and this really helps me❤️

By the way...
I tried the whole "on your feet or on my feet" thing with my nearly 3 year old. He took it literally and I had to walk him out with him standing on my feet like when you dance with kids... Now I refrase it😜😂

[nananunu]

I had panic attacks when my daughter was 2 years old!

[sharathyadav]

Wow! Informative one 💛
What plant is that behind you guys ??

[marwagad]

I told my 5 year daughter today before bedtime that I am going to get sick or die if she doesn't behave well....I think I made her sad ...I regret making her feel unsecured or sad ....I am so wrong

[yessicapeters]

It's like you are living beside us HAHA!! this is so hard.

[ellenifeisa]

Dear Sir my question is my 8 year daughter crying for nothing then I am mad please what can I do

[paulaj.newman]

Your right eye looks like it’s really red..

[laurachevrette]

Fantastic video! I loved learning about how the brain works in certain situations. This is so helpful! Thank you!!