How To Go Out Alone And HAVE FUN!

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[kenthawley]

After my divorce, I was a recluse for three years. Then it dawned on me I was dying the slowest of deaths waiting for others to lead me out of my depths. I decided to put myself out there in various ways, finding activities I could do on my own--hiking, biking, kayaking. Afterward, I would find a great place to eat, sit at the bar, and talk with the other patrons and the bartenders. I met a lot of great people, dated some great women, and had some great times. You CAN go places by yourself.

Oh, and I am a 4, a true extroverted introvert. I have learned over time in social and professional settings to get over my reticence and talk to people. It doesn't come natural, but I know it's a skill that's necessary to living a full life.

[TxmmyBeats]

Going out alone is great! You’re on your own time, nobody bothering you, easy going and you get to eat good food. 10/10

[G.Charles]

Been doing it for years - love it! I'm a 10 on comfort level. Being on the road often this is 'old hat' for me.
A man needs to be comfortable with himself and going it alone.

[Steven-hkwb]

I learned that 30 years ago when he said talk to people like you already know them. It is great advice. I use that advice every day.

[hugojimenez]

I go out to bars nearly exclusively by myself. When I used to rely on others to go out with me, they flaked, killed my game or tried to dictate the flow of the evening. So much better to do what I want, when I want and to meet new people every time.

[Nick.Brough]

Good to see GentZ getting a name check here, he’s more like “40 UNDER fashion” but has a lot of solid advice for people of all ages. I’ve been to a coffee shop on my own a few times recently & you’d be surprised how the staff & other patrons engage with you.

[stylishoversixty]

As a single mature gentleman, I certainly can appreciate this video...admittedly I don't go out much, but it is indeed something I would be interested in exploring thanks for sharing so many useful suggestions!

[toobasaurus]

I'm 43 and have always loved going out alone. Women gravitate to a man that is comfortable in his own company.
I'm off to Europe for the first time in May. I cant wait for what awaits... so many friends to make, drinks to share, and women to meet. 😉

[chuckcribbs]

Interesting topic. I’ve been happily married for 24 years, so not really an issue for me, but I do enjoy going out by myself shopping or just taking a drive. My wife is a dispatcher for our county sheriff so she works most 2nd or 3rd shifts, which leaves me by myself at times. Heading to the gun range or taking the tops off on my Jeep and just taking a drive out into the country is usually what I do.

[rasta]

I love going out alone because it makes you talk to people more. 10/10

[D]

I appreciate this video. I go out often myself, I enjoy it. Nobody to pick up, or pay for or work around someone else’s schedule. I’ve learned to talk to everyone, waiters, people next to me etc. I make friends everywhere. Btw it’s sad these days people think a t shirt & jeans is dressed up, since everyone looks like they just rolled out of bed.

[Fritz-fx]

Hello John, I have no problem with going out alone #9, especially now that I've been watching your video's and upgrading my style and grooming, thank you so much!
Fritz 66 from Riverside, Ca.

[caseyX]

It DOES take A LOT of confidence to out by yourself.

Thanks for the tips!

[garyjones]

I’m a 9 out of 10 on that scale. Absolutely love the freedom of going out solo and seeing where the evening takes me. Had some fab nights.

[DiegoB]

10/10
Yes, it would be nice to go with someone but I'm not going to let that stop me from doing what I want.
I've gone to the movies, and even to restaurants by myself. Its relaxing to be honest.

[musicmanMJS]

Another great video John! I still say I am very glad I learned to square dance when I was 15 years old and called my first square dance at 17. I've dated several girls and now the girl of my dreams within the square dance community. Dancing is where the girls go. Square dancing is a social engagement It stays that way unless you want to try and elevate it with a particular person. I'm very happy. The girl of my dreams is taking me on a cruise later this year to celebrate my 70th birthday. I think other guys would meet and dance with several different great girls too. Learn to square dance, guys!

[needmoney]

Very comfortable now but it has been a lifelong process of becoming more confident. Just went out the other afternoon to a sports bar to watch March Madness and met a bunch of cool people. It was worth it just to meet these folks who were alumni of my university. 10/10

[Citizen-byvw]

Good video. Yeah, I've gotten to the point now where going out by myself is necessary. I've managed to do it a couple of times, and I'm still working on working up the courage to continue doing it. Thank you

[thPredator]

I’m 29 so I practiced going out alone in my hometown around 6 years ago which made me extremely comfortable going out and talking with random people. Fast forward a few years and it made living in a new city where I didn’t know anyone a lot easier. I travel a lot for work so it helps out in those cities as well. I’m going to push back a little bit on the t-shirt. You can definitely elevate a well fitted T with some nice pants and maybe a jacket of some sort. I’ve played around with it and I found that my choice of clothes really changed the kinds of women that were more receptive to me. Girls younger than me liked my more casual outfits and older women (late 30’s-40’s) liked a more classic look with a sport coat and whatnot. I live in Texas so when I go out of state for work, simply having my boots tends to be a conversation starter.

[brianrocks]

I'm totally comfortable. As you say, it's all in my hands.