How I Learned To Go To A Bar Alone And Meet Women

I want to share how spent a few months creating a strategy to help me become successful in approaching women in bars all alone.

Going out to a bar alone has always sounded like one of the scariest possible ways to meet women to date, but now that I've come up with a 3 step strategy - some of my best nights ever were going out solo.

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School Of Attraction

Dating And Relationship Coach

[mountainpepsi]

CAN CONFIRM, THIS WORKS!

I went out today and followed the steps in this video. Ended up hanging out the entire evening with a group of three super cool girls and we went to a few bars. Even got a number from another cute girl in one bar. Try it ou guys, going out alone and just having fun is addicting!

[dustinmiller]

"Without solitude, no great work is achieved." ~Pablo Picasso

[ivankotenko]

Hey man, love the strategy, super clever, one thing I think worth mentioning too is once you find a group of women to help you, from an outside perspective, it looks like one guy hanging out with a bunch of girls, which makes you seem much more attractive to every other girl in the venue

[DirtyDeebs]

I literally went out tonight and minded my own business watching sports and all and I got approached, going by yourself is really not a bad idea guys.

[gazrob]

I travel solo. When I'm in a bar I don't approach I just have small talk with people who sit close to me. I'm not hitting on them I'm just chatting.

[ivanyoed]

I decided to go out after watching this. It was already midnight. Went to many clubs alone. Approached a bunch of girls. Got three instagrams and good short conversations. It was not perfect, but I did have a nice experience just facing the challenge of approaching random girls. I'm sure I can keep honing this skill. I think it was pretty good to have done this without thinking it twice.

[LeeEverett]

Going out to the club tonight and tomorrow solo. Wish me luck.

[st_agent]

I’m a pickup artist out of OC.

I go out alone all the time. If I’m at a bar, honestly all it takes is live music. I pretend like I already know everyone there and eventually I’ll start vibing.

It all has to do with your mood. If you feel weird, then weird shit will happen to you. Conversely, if you self amuse, people and woman will be drawn to you.

[BIGDAWGCEASE]

I went out alone, sat by the bar with a drink in my hand, minded my own business. And this woman approached me and I took her home. When you’re alone, women feel more comfortable to approach you.

[TheDeadorgone]

straight confidence my guy go to a bar for yourself don't focus on meeting someone and eventually someone asks you up

[robertmartin]

This strategy is really good. It’s a mental exercise of what to do with that time. Things will come naturally and a sense of well-being and freedom will arise and suddenly you’ll end up talking to women you’ll end up being attracted too

[bennycastiligone]

Guys, last night was probably the best night in a while… let me tell you. I haven’t went out like that by myself in a long time. Mainly because I lost the confidence. Anyway, what I’m trying to say is this man, knows very well what he’s talking about. Listen to him, because this is my first time ever going to a clun EVER. He got me to sleep with a girl in her own house! 😂😂😂 (not boasting)

[lifebehindthebars]

I think the key is... to treat the women as your mates, talk to them like a mate and guaranteed you will succeed. I dont have to use bars to do this you can use any setting... I race motorcycles and go on my own to trackdays, its perfect for working on your social skills. Years ago I would of had massive anxiety but now I don't care at all. Rejection is another one... dont look at rejection as failure look at it as a win... because you approached that girl in the first place. Its all about repetition and Rome wasn't built in a day

[joegardnersmusic]

I used to do this in my 20s all the time women always approached me

[BizStuff]

Getting "primed": good, hard cardio workout on stair climber. Maxing heartrate, full sweat. Gets the energy flowing & gets me hype. Without strenuous physical activity in a day..
FLAT & low energy. Puts a major dent in approaches.

[mikehays]

As a single guy who goes out 98% of the time by himself and sober at that I can attest to everything you've said, good advice.

[leedavis]

I love going out by myself and chatting women up. Love the idea about warming up first and calling someone. Makes total sense.

[Cril]

Something I've realised is when I'm 4 drinks in I stop caring about how I feel, I had a family meet up party, first in over like 15 years, now I'm 22 I can hold and start conversations with family I don't know. I saw a girl around my age and thought well I have no romantic feelings whatsoever since she's my cousin and I'd like to know the family my age, 6 drinks in a finally stopped caring how bad I am at conversations and spoke, got the others our age in aswell and it was amazing. I used to think alcohol was stupid but it really gives me confidence, I'm lucky in a way I guess because once I'm drunk I don't seem to get worse the more I drink, I just become happy and talkative but I still feel self awareness to a degree I know not to spout something rude or offensive

[xfreestyle]

Going out to a bar on my own tonight for the first time. Dating is becoming more and more competitive these days, and I figured that if you don't make a move, not much will happen!

[nigelasipa]

Yes I’m actually considering trying this approach. My friends are too held up in their own lives to go out with me and I was resisting the idea of going out alone as ‘sad’. After seeing this it changed my mind. There’s a local high street to where I live that I’m going to try on Friday to see how it goes. Wish me luck!