Different Ways That Women Test Men (AND WHAT TO DO) | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over different ways that women test men according to an article I found online. Though I’m sure sometimes these things are intentional, I think a lot of the time these are subconscious ways we discover compatibility. I don’t agree with the manipulative aspect of “testing people” and it would be better for everyone if we were just honest and upfront about our expectations when dating new people. Thank you all for watching and let me know in the comments ways that you've been tested in the past!

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[JoseyWales]

Deleted all social media over a year ago. I feel like 70% of the stuff Courtney talks about wouldn't even need to be addressed if social media never existed.

[jabba]

If a woman I just met insults me, I just smile and walk away. If she thinks that behavior is OK, I want nothing to do with her.

[DallasSniper]

I hate that dating has become a game. I wish it was like it use to be when two people like each other, they both make it known to each other and make the effort to establish a relationship.

[mikebingham]

One time I went out on a blind date with a girl at work' We were talking on the phone as she was a supplier for my Company. We got along
so well on the phone, that I asked her out. We met at a restaurant and sat down and began to talk before we ordered. She said, I thought you
would be taller. I responded, I thought you would be prettier. We never saw each other again. What a shame, two honest people.

[chriskubond]

I just recently quit talking to this lady. She seemed real interesting, had a good sense of humor, very funny, great at conversating. But after a while she would excessively talk about her ex's and how horrible they treated her and how she never did anything wrong. To me that was a major red flag. I've had bad experiences and I've learned a lot from them based on MY mistakes.

[kc]

if a woman tests you, never get rattled, always remain calm and confident or even better crack a joke

[renzokukenleonhart]

When a woman test you, she's looking for reasons to leave you not to stay with you.

[marksherrit]

My ex wife of 20 years continously flirted with other men in front of me then just said she was being nice. She's my ex for a reason.

[haruoki]

I find it childish when a woman tests you, life is tiresome enough without someone consistently annoying you about the little things that don't matter.

[azzans]

Its strange how social media is the thing that is meant to connect us together more easily but is actually making it more difficult to make connections and is driving us apart as a society.

[jonathanansleymusic]

If a woman told me I wasn’t her type then I would just say, “Okay, have a nice day.” 😂

[LeftSinkHandle]

Tests belong in schools, not in potential relationships. Be up front with your expectations and if it works, it works. If it doesn't, keep it moving amicably

[JasonMoir]

"Toxic and narrow-minded" can easily describe social media in general, not just the manosphere.

[JoseGarcia-rtfy]

What I have learned over time. Is that the more heart broken a woman has been in her life through past relationships the more she will do these tests. It's a red flag. She comes with a lot of emotional baggage

[mockingbeard]

So here is a test I had to endure on a few occasions. The woman I was trying to date would constantly try to get me to be late for things to prioritise her. For example, I would be on the phone to her and tell her I was playing badminton at say 8pm, I would be on the phone to her around 7pm... Well I would need to leave around 7:45 and usually around 7:43 she would bring up a heavy subject... "It has been a tough day, and I am really struggling...". She made me late a few times before I realised what was going on. I started to predict her doing it, and was right each time. I would be at my work, and messaging each other. I would start by saying I only had 30mins break.. and 27 mins later, she would choose then to tell me about a bereavement she was reminded of that hit her hard... So I was like "yeah that sucks. Gotta go". She eventually broke it off citing that I wasn't "emotionally supportive enough". lol.

In my experience, splitting up with someone is tougher than being split up with. Both are horrible, but watching someone cry because they want to be with you... and you don't want to be with them is a worse feeling in my opinion. So when I realised what she was doing, I was delighted when she split up with me. It kinda felt like the trash was taking itself out. I pretended to be a little disappointed, but it was a good day! I didn't miss her one bit.

[johnnysilvercloud]

As a vet with a lot of interrogator friends I always saw the tests coming, especially compliance tests. When I was interested in a lady who did those immature things I usually called them out, literally explain what they are doing. I then state my bar (standards) might be too high for them, indicating that those tests are substandard behaviors.

I’m currently married to a beautiful, loving woman who has the same high standards as I, never shit testing each other. We communicate efficiently.

[christophernash]

If a woman says jokingly to me, "You don't seem like my type!, " I'm gonna to think, I guess you aren't my type either. If a man said that jokingly, he wouldn't be getting a woman that night. I guess, this is why so many women who are in their thirties and forties haven't gotten married yet and if they were stuck in a relationship, it was toxic. Toxicity breeds toxicity.

[charlestoncambridge]

'Tests' = playing games = goodbye. When you find the 'right person' no tests are needed.

[angelvillarreal]

I don’t like when people watch video encouraging them to use these type of toxic behaviors and “tests”. The rest of us have to suffer through it 🤦🏽‍♂️. Just be yourself and establish boundaries. You’d be surprised how fast you get to know someone when you are yourself and set boundaries.

[bobsponge]

This channel has convinced me that I just need to stay single. Dating and being in a relationship is just too much trouble.