How To Be a SOFTER WOMAN *without losing who you are*

When you’re trying to learn how to activate your feminine energy and how to be more feminine, you need to tap into your inner softness. We all have it - and you don’t need to change who you are to bring it out. So if you want to know how to be a softer woman and how to live a soft life, these tips are for you!

Your divine feminine energy is very magnetic, and your softness can be your strength. Learning how to be softer as a woman will not make you weak - it can actually make you feel more powerful!

I hope you enjoy this video! ❤️

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WHAT I’M WEARING:
Top: old from the brand Saltwater Luxe

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CHAPTERS:
0:00 How to Be a Softer Woman
0:25 Reminder about feminine energy + softness
1:27 Which woman are you? (and why I’m bringing this up lol)
3:03 Tip #1
4:22 Tip #2
5:51 Tip #3
7:05 Tip #4
7:52 Tip #5
8:53 Tip #6
9:52 Tip #7
10:46 Tip #8

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[ZapatosVibes]

Strangely enough, as a man, listening to your videos inspires me to be a better, more masculine man to be a match to that feminine energy.

[rimaaouadi]

Finally a channel about femininity that doesn't make me feel so uncomfortable, i always wanted to be a soft woman but people talking about it always made it seem like being weak and submissive and always meek and sheepish and sometimes even dumb and that's just not who i am, love your channel and your content so much

[ivanarudolf]

I haven't had a mother figure in my life. I used to be afraid of femininity because it was foreign to me. But through your videos femininity radiates warmly and Jilian, because of you, I'm bravely embracing it.

[TR-nhxf]

This is another great video. I struggle with aggression. I have more masculine than feminine energy. I really would like to be more soft and feminine, but I have behaved this way for so long, change is hard, but I am working on it.

[heaven-leeneville]

Yes indeed, the soft life is the life for me. Feminity in it's healed and pure state is a woman's silent but blaring strength. She is empowered to express it. Thnx a ton, Jillz! Bless✨

[IM-uhtk]

3:10 start being soft towards yourself

4:32 let down your defences

5:56 embrace vulnerability

7:08 slow down

8:20 soften your body

[dewshine]

I live with my mom, sis and grandma. So we are like 4 women living together without a man. Sometimes the going gets tough because of this and i find myself becoming more aggressive and masculine to compensate the lack of men in our family. But everytime i behave more aggressive and manly, i feel out of alignment with who i am. Your videos are helping me get in touch with myself and being soft and feminine and not having to constantly fight to be seen and to prove myself. Thankyou from the bottom of my heart, Jillz🙏❤

[sydneycamille]

Sometimes when I’m listening to you I just cry… not because I’m sad! You’re just so beautiful and radiate so much love! Thank you for being you 🤍

[justinegreen]

I love being a woman. It is an enchantment all its own. I can use my femininity to both create and destroy. I choose to use my feminine wiles for good, but I am very much aware of the ability to use it otherwise. I would say I have a healthy respect for the darkness and shadow aspects of my femininity, but I intend towards the light and softness. It is a strength all its own. A quiet, cozy, smoldering blaze... But it burns all the same, no?

[magda]

Alright I have to say this, START A PODCAST I wanna be able to listen to you in a walk, long drives, on my way to school

[SweetCicely]

Walking away or being silent by not responding to negativity/negative people is a soft energy that is a powerful strength💥

[tanningandtarot]

Slowing down your movements is the best advice. It does work, 100%

[moonraccoonkatyafedotova]

I like your videos so much! 😊It's exactly what I need because I am not familiar with my feminine energy. When I was a little girl, my dad left my mom and wanted to take my brother with him. He said that he didn't need a daughter, he always wanted to have a son. And my mom always told me that boys are smarter and better than girls in so many ways. I even thought that I am a transgender and want to be a boy because of that! Because I was so afraid to be rejected because I am a girl. And it made me didn't want to become a woman. I wasted so much time trying to prove to my mom that I am smart enough by competing with guys and showing that I can do the same. Now I am a grown woman but people still think I am a teen because I am not in harmony with my feminine energy. And I finally feel that it's time for me to heal my childhood trauma and not be afraid to wake my feminine energy up. Your videos helping me a lot! Thank you!

[Kathyfili]

definitely a hot woman, and i came into a point in my life where i realized I need to be more soft and in my feminine energy. which is what led me to your videos a month back. so wonderfully said, as always thank you for the content! ☺️ always make my sundays.

[lasantuzza]

i’m definitely hot and cool and the example you gave was perfect! i’m sicilian and i noticed most mediterranean and latin women are like that perfect blend of hot and cool. very sensual, confident, passionate and opinionated yet at the same time extremely nurturing, soft, and motherly. something ab the culture allows women to love and embrace their nature and express it very freely i’ve always been grateful for that

its just that pure venus energy that makes men go wild lol. you gotta have heat to you or you will be seen as weak and bland. but if you don’t have any coolness, you will be seen as a liability. i think like you mentioned about mother nature it’s important to have both and that makes an ideal man or woman imo

[lovellytshotshi]

I thought i was a "Hot" woman until you said "Usually extroverted" 😅 Definitely not that but i am more passionate, even explosive about my feelings. Sometimes i'm too aggressive with my words that it comes out harsh. I'm working on chilling and mellowing out. It all starts with being self aware and actively working on being softer from the inside out. Thank you Jillz, i was actually avoiding this video because i thought i never wanted to be the "Soft" woman. So i'm soooo happy you pointed out that you don't always have to be soft nor is it an entire personality, just a small trait that comes out in a few situations 🤍

[joanagoncalo]

Definitely cold woman. I love the way you introduce the subject by bringing in the vast expansion of what a woman is. This video is more than amazing!! Thank you so much 💙🌸✨

[evb]

Jillz ~ you are sharing things in a way that really brings it home to me. I am 68 and have been quite 'hard' my whole life, mostly as a means of survival. Your other video about reinventing myself and this one have given me so much inspiration! May you be abundantly blessed for your sharing of these beautiful concepts.

[astromama]

I love you jillz. My feminine energy heals in real time as I watch your videos. I can literally apply everything you’re saying to my life and that’s very rare for me. Thank you for sharing your journey and to the angelic beings behind your beautiful testimonies. I just started following and I already feel like the woman I need to always be. You know, this energy is so complex sometimes and I’ve felt myself rushing through it most, if not my whole life. Feeling uncomfortable with it even, when I should definitely feel more uncomfortable in the opposite energy but it became a norm. Most of my astrological energies are masculine lol, my mother and older sister (the only women I had growing up to be an allegory of femininity) seemed to be so in their masculine. So I honestly didn’t see the use in or why I should even like pour more into my feminine nature. Im extremely goal oriented; a mix between hot and cool.

This feels invigorating. It’s crazy now it seems weird to be so hard and on fuckin edge 😂 I definitely rather be soft and in control of my inner world. The other way around.. I can be so nervous, angry, and honestly just those two drive me crazy; it interrupts and clouds my inner soft dialogue. Then somehow turns it into monologues of me talking myself out of this state which sinks me deeper so to say. 😂 it’s been a tough ride and I’m just happy to see beautiful women like yourself during the quest. Thanks again queen 💚

[laurenw]

The critical comment hit me hard. I'm so so critical of myself and have always been such a perfectionist. While it gives me an awesome work ethic, it makes it impossible to live up to my own expectations. I've been working on that so I don't put unrealistic expectations on my kids, husband, and friends and family. I also constantly preach to the girls that I mentor to give themselves grace, but I have a hard time doing that myself. I guess I have a hard time reeling it back because I don't want to go so far that I become lazy and apathetic towards things, so it's been hard to find the happy medium where I'm allowed to set goals and have standards, but don't allow them to define me as a failure and maybe learn how to adjust them when it's needed.