How to make him bond to you by increasing vasopressin | Adam Lane Smith

Want to learn how to make him bond to you by increasing vasopressin? Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith has taught hundreds of thousands of people about vasopressin and what it means in human bonding. Especially how vasopressin changes dating and marriage by helping men bond more closely with their partners. Now Adam is back to show you the best way to make him bond to you. By following these easy steps and using Adam's best methods, you can bond through vasopressin and build the ultimate relationship.

You've heard about vasopressin. And you've got a man in your life you want to bond with. How can you use it to make him bond to you? To boost your intimacy and closeness on both sides? Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith makes it easy to increase vasopressin and build the bonds that will keep you both bonded for a lifetime.

This video is part of an ongoing series about attachment.

Vasopressin is the magic ingredient you've been missing in your relationship bonding. It turns a fun time into a team experience, and a casual fling into a committed partner. Want to learn to harness vasopressin for the ultimate bonding? Attachment Specialist Adam Lane Smith shows you how to work these secret steps into every part of your relationship. When you boost the vasopressin, the bonds will heat up. Get ready for commitment through the power of vasopressin.

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[Kelli-ruyy]

This explains why my boyfriend and I bond so well, among other things.

I'll go to him and cry over an issue. He'll listen, empathize and comfort me. It'll relieve my stress and build that oxytocin.

Then he'll offer me solutions and he's actually very level headed so his solutions are reasonable and obtainable. So I'll thank him for the great advice and I'll give it a shot. Which increases his vasopressin bond.

At the end of the day, we both feel appreciated and it's very easy to make love.

Beautiful stuff.

[xiaomoogle]

I went on a few dates with a guy and I suggested we do activities, eg bowling, playing pool together as I wasn't sure if we were a good match and didn't want awkward conversation dates. During these games we would try and solve how to get the best shot etc. After a few dates I didn't feel he was the one for me but he was really keen and wanted to be my boyfriend. Now I understand. I get it.

[kaitlin]

My husband is crazy in love with him and just follows me around all day trying to teach me stuff. How to tie a shoe, how to cross a street, constantly telling me to do every stupid little thing. It drives me crazy and it annoys me but now I see why he likes me so much. I'll use this to plan family date nights.

[erinh]

“We know you’re not a video game. We’re just trying to bond with ya.” 🤣🤣🤣

[martamanera]

The main point is when HE solving your problems it’s makes him more attached. Not opposite.

[jackintheboxhater]

I feel like he is doing Gods work.
We have misunderstood each gender for too long.

[KatelynB]

Becoming Allies is the best martial advice I’ve ever heard

[CorkysFlora]

I think I just realized why my husband married me. I played videos games with him.

[myra]

LOL the ikea shelf reference! I broke up with someone because he didn’t help me assemble something 😬

[hannahr]

It’s funny how men bond by solving problems while women don’t want their partner to solve their problems; women just want them to listen. It’s interesting. Should I try to be more receptive to my boyfriend's advice when I’m venting, even if that's not what I'm looking for at that moment?

[beancheese]

My avoidant ex and I were on a sales team together and he was my manager. The second he saw my face twist during a sale, he would immediately rush over and give me tremendous support. Those were my favorite work days since it felt so good to make a sale together!

[steventipton]

Action and problem solving together is the way men bond that is the short version of what he is saying

[sararistow]

Wow, this made me realize that I have issues with oxytocin bonding. I can’t handle cuddling, but the best I’ve felt in a few years has been hunting with some friends that I only see a couple times a year.

[emilyingridlaura]

It just completely blows my mind because the Lord Jesus made men as to be the head of the home and problem solvers and he made the woman to be a help meet to come alongside the man and his mission and to help him to accomplish the goals in missions together. It's amazing to me because that's exactly how you explained your marriage with your wife. And I love it that her mission and love to serve and help to assist and nourish helps you to bond more to her with a vasopressin bonding. It is so amazing to me that this is not coming from a church or Christian spiritual channel but yet everything you're saying is lining exactly up with the word of God and the way he created men and women. Remarkable

[LexiGailMusic]

When I tell you this is exactly how I date and by the end of every relationship it ends with “you deserve better than me” and not “I’ll do anything to keep you” and I never understand lol.

[jzuszvq]

Sooo…THIS WORKS! Adam, you have the keys to relationships!
I’ve been married once (abusive and terrible so there was no fix)…my second was in a 4 year relationship with someone who was an avoidant attachment, not meant to be in the long run…but with your help, I realized THIS newer marriage is me being anxious attachment which I’ve always been, and he’s avoidant HOWEVER; we have always oxytocin bonded. I’ve never known about vasopressin bonding and after watching this video along with some of your others, I feel like I’ve unlocked the secret door to my man!
I’ve been consciously tapping into vasopressin bonding and taking advantage of every opportunity when I see it (there’s a lot of opportunities by the way)…we’ve had the BEST sex & connection this week 😩🥰
I’m the opposite of what you describe most females. I’m the high sex drive, basically begging to have sex. He’s tired and stressed with work. I’ve tried some of your tips and sex isn’t something I feel that I have to beg for or hint around towards. Any other advice for someone like me?? Thanks again for your videos. I discovered you on Mind Pump!!❤️ you’re awesome!

[galshevah]

You have articulated and explained something I have noticed and believed in for a long time.

I have been thinking for a while now, that men need stress to bond while women need comfort to bond.

I just never understood how to apply it to relationships until now.
Thank you!

[kelligray]

Love this! My new boyfriend and I work like this and are developing a great friendship and share kind of an “ inside joke” type of connection as well- very much the same sense of humor, can talk with our eyes, he beams when he feels he has helped me. It’s sooo cute. First thing we asked eachother on our first date was what three things would you like to accomplish in the next five years.

[debbie-annsmith]

This was great. I see now why couples that got together young and go through the building a life together phase never break up. And I see why my husband and I argue nonstop and are more like enemies. There was no team building. Maybe my next relationship. 😂