You can Bond with Him Through VASOPRESSIN | Here's How...

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Vasopressin is a hormone that impacts how you bond with the man in your life.

Here's how you bond with him through Vasopressin:

This hormone is key to male bonding.

Vasopressin is about stress bonding, or bonding while resolving stress together.

Men have more vasopressin receptors, so when you overcome challenges together with your boyfriend or husband, you help prove that you're a good match with him.

This will allow you to bond with him!

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Vasopressin= teamwork + solve problems together

ellammix
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So I feel like being a friend to a guy first is most important because you need time to bond. Also I think maybe that’s why if a man is “friend zoned” they always end up falling in “love”.

jbabygotback
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Thank you again for these videos. My relationship seems to be getting better, we are talkiing more and this year we are having Christmas with some of our kids and grandchildren. I am feeling hopeful and more secure. It is so great that you do this, there is altogether too many man hater vids out there contributing to the insecurities.

sheradenart
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I'm a women and I feel this vasopressin bonding is important for me in all my relationship, not just romantic. I'd like to start with my brother.

abraxadabra
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Thank you for teaching me what vasopression bonding is. 🙌 I have always loved working through challenges with people in my life, including personal and clients. I feel like it really shows someone's character, and if we can work together well, our relationship has always been stronger.

It could be things like a real estate transaction, financial or job issues, health crises, and tough things, which are where I can bear down and shine with my level of commitment.

dvegas
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This is amazing, I heard about Vasopressin before but never understood how important it was specially for male bounding, this help us women understand men better and help us helping them connect better with us, if ironically that we are set backwards ( Vasopressin-Oxytocin for men; Oxytocin-Vasopressin for women) thanks for pointing that up in your amazing videos, Gracias 🙏

Mar_La_Rey
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Oh my gosh- we have only been seeing each other for 6 weeks, but every time we are together, we have experiences like this. Our first meetup, we went on a sort of "treasure hunt" downtown, looking for the Coraline Cat sculptures(we are in PDX), and we worked together to check the map, trekking all over parts of the city, trying to find these are installations. Every time we found one, there was a mini celebration. We also popped into a thrift store and were trying to find him a shirt- we weren't successful, but we still worked together! We have gone treasure-hunting in antique stores to help him find fun trinkets to leave on the porch at his friends' place as a kind of fun game he is playing. We were very successful at finding cool things. Our latest day out involved us working NY Times word puzzles together, and LITERALLY high-fiving every time we figured out a word, or successfully completed a puzzle. There were a LOT of high fives. We had done those puzzles before and high fived and he even said "Yay us! Teamwork!". Hahahahaha. I guess these are actually very important moments for us and I had no idea!!!! We have them every time we are together!

joshangout
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I haven't commented on any of your videos, because I didn't feel like I could contribute
something new/worthy of sharing;

here, I just.... I just feel I have to share my "eureka!" moment at 2:03- THIS right here explains
why I always felt more happy for doing "manly" stuff, doing things together more than cuddles
or talking about emotions. Somehow could explain why I became such passionate artist;
doing drawings, handmade stuff and helping my artist friends with their projects or character/design ideas.
This is all about problem solving in a family where emotions are not talked about,
yet critic, anger and guilt tripping was always there.
No problem solving teaching.

Also, for many years I struggled with being oversensitive to touch or at least "just" uncomfortable with,
which could come from the brain not being comfortable with "too much" oxytocin levels, untill I got used to this.

martakeczek
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Thank you for all of your videos. This teamwork hormone makes sense why people often choose co workers when they cheat on their spouse.

athompson
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Could this be why some men choose hanging out with their friends over being with their partners? The friends have vasopressin bonded with the man in ways the woman never thought to since we aren’t wired to want the same things.

Jbelly
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Thanks a lot. You have wonderful content and didatic. Your channel is exceptional. I learned a lot in this video....now I see why my last romantic relationship didn't progress.

milaladislau
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Love it! Great info Adam, knew about the Dopamine & Oxytocin but this Vasopressin info is new to me & so important. Thank You!

MHarmony
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This is so interesting and helpful! I am wondering if you could share some ways in which men might initiate this in an organic way (ie very early on in the relationship) that women might miss, or maybe misunderstand the motive behind it?

I’m generally a very aware and attentive person but I don’t believe I have ever been with a man who actually initiated this type of bonding. I also have a suspicion that all of my partners have been avoidant. So I guess I can’t tell whether I didn’t pick up on a cue, or if an avoidant attachment style may have interfered with their ability to initiate this type of bonding.

thunder.ceases
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I am so blessed to have found this information!❤

dianacarreras
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This excites me! My avoidant, (love of my life!) Spent the last two weekends teaching me how to can my veggies and this weekend im helping him work on waterproofing his basement. I don't care what we do together, i just cherish every minute im with him!!

MaryMartin-vp
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Wow! This information is so eye-opening! Thank you!

TaniaSeabock
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Also, this information is absolute gold

nunyaabizz
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The suspension bridge effect could be an example of how vasopressin affects attachment as well.

socialfive
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Now now, i just realized during my school years few boys fell in love with me after i asked them to teach me some subjects and we solved the assignments together 🤔 huh.. so that's finally makes sense

qonitasyahira
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Quite a few people came to my mind during this video

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