What To Say to a Narcissist to Shut Them Down Permanently

What To Say to a Narcissist to Shut Them Down Permanently//If you've ever had to deal with a narcissist, you know how frustrating and infuriating they can be. But what if there was a way to shut them down permanently? In this video, Rebecca Zung, top lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, shares crucial steps and phrases that will make any narcissist run for the hills!
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[brutalhonesty]

I’ll never walk on eggshells for anyone ever again.
I’m done apologizing for who I am.
I’m done living in fear.
I’m done approval seeking.
I’m done defending myself to a deeply dysfunctional person.
I’m done giving myself to people who aren’t worth my time.
Do what I want to do. Say what I want to say. Don’t fear anyone’s reaction.
I don’t care what they think or what their opinion is. I can’t please the unpleasable.
I don’t owe anyone an explanation about anything.
I’m calling the shots.
Don’t worry about losing them; remember that I am someone who can be lost too.
Never appease to the extent of compromising my own boundaries.
I will not lay down my intellect and conform to them.
Refuse to be controlled by the controller.
I don’t need their: approval, affirmation, blessing, acceptance, support, endorsement, cooperation.
Their words & opinions are irrelevant. They have no authority to assign value to me.
Stop trying. (To be kind enough, good enough, understanding enough, communicative enough, loving enough, caring enough, etc.) It’ll never be enough.

[karenmininni]

LOVE WHEN REBECCA SAYS THE MORE THEY CAN BAIT YOU AND KEEP YOU IN AN EMOTIONAL STATE THE HAPPIER THEY ARE BECAUSE THEY EMOTIONALLY ABUSE!

[e.]

Pretty sure there are narcissists watching These vids & claiming their victim was actually the narc. That's a promise. I pity any of us trying to reclaim our reputations after 'dating' a narc. Thanks for your Channel 👍❤️

[lisavansant]

I use the don't disrespect me line today when I blocked him everywhere so I'm enjoying this video I had like 25 calls yesterday when I was in Walmart driving me crazy block block block

[yukio_saito]

2:27 "Let them think what they want."

So true. You don't need to engage with them. Just let them think.

[wolfgang]

#9 I have found dis-engaging very difficult because some narcissists have a tendency to follow the target until they get a reaction.

[michaelflusche]

I made a narcissist cry when I broke up with her. She bought dinner at a restaurant. After we got home, I asked her to step outside with me. She was starting to cry and I didn't say a word about breaking her up with her yet. She thought that she was not at fault about anything. I just told her that I'm breaking up with her. She tried to brainwash me again and I haven't talked to her or seen her in close to 12 years.

[jloggy]

I am still recovering from being in a 23 year marriage with a narcissist and getting my self worth built up and finding my voice and teaching our 10 year old daughter that her thoughts and feelings matter as well. This has been a journey thus far and i want to thank you for taking the time to create these videos. I have found that with my narcissist that she deals with absolutes as in it is all or none with the words like our, sometimes, and occasionally not being in her vocabulary. I am also finding that she is of the mindset that if she just thinks sonething or has a dream that it must be real. I have used all these sayings to try to shut her down in the past but now see where i failed is that i did not require to be respected as for many many years i was treated as a mechanical object and not as a human being. Thanks again for the info you provide in your vids.

[elainebatchev]

Great video and great comebacks. Speaking from experience here, the best way to deal with them is using the old saying "Silence is Golden". It takes all of the second-guessing and stress off of you and finally allows you to finally be free. You can't ever change them. So, if the situation allows it, don't give them any reaction at all, they thrive off of that. Literally, do absolutely nothing and they get bored and go away eventually....unfortunately usually to go find another victim.

[earthboundnomad]

I use ¨Those are your feelings.¨ instead of ¨I´m sorry you feel that way, ¨ because I am not sorry about anything, except knowing them.

[marymaye]

Thank you for your help.it’s my sister that is the narcissist.I’ve had that all my life.now I’m in my seventies.I’ve had enough.I’ve no contact now thanks again

[iamgoddessoflove]

You can forgive a person for all the hurt that they put you through, but don’t be gullible enough to take them back and find yourself in the same position all over again.
💙YouTuber That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships

[marymaystrali]

I told my psycologist to give me tips on how to answer to a narcissist, compare to you she said nothing! You are great help. THANK YOU

[denisebuethe]

Oh how I wish this was available when I was going through my divorce!
Please...LISTEN to her advice!!!

[jamespimentel]

I always push back its the most important thing to defeat a narcissist

[alfredbenedek]

I always told such, as I used to call them, double standareded whatevers, - ' ' ALRIGHT, YOUHAVE IT YOUR WAY, I'LL DO IT MY WAY. ' ' But I also told some of these characters, but in that case doit, do it as you told me / as you suggested it to me?! What they really didn't. And than, thyan I knew, who / what I'm facing / standing across with. - Thank you Rebecca.

[Vashti]

I did the "say nothing" which wasn't so good for me. I held too much in for too long and then when I was done, I blew up inside. I ended the friendship after she really pulled a well orchestrated phase-out of her social circle. Probably the best thing I ever did, but could have been handled better. I've learned so much since then, thanks to videos like these. Hell, I didn't even know what a narcissist was, to tell you the truth.

[darlenejansen]

READY! Love this method to get them GONE!

[davidavi]

Thank you so much for another valuable content. I have been trauma bonded by so many narcissists in my life I am finally coming to grips of breaking away from the packs once and for all. It may be too late though as the damage has been done. But first step is I am trying to disconnect from them forever, .

[tarawinter]

During a heated phone conversation, my narcissistic in-law didn't want to hear the truth and hung up on me. That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I refuse her calls and no longer attend her family functions. To make herself feel like the "victim", she is telling everyone that I don't need her anymore because I have a new friend (I've known this friend for over 30 years). She's basically saying I used her for her companionship until I made a new friend. 🙄Pathetic. I'm soooo much more relaxed without her poking her nose in my life on a daily basis. I no longer argue with my husband about her either. So much happier!