INFJ in the Workplace

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The INFJ in the Workplace!

Its helpful to compare the INFJ to the INTJ to see how they orient themselves to the world.

The INTJ wants to change the world for the better (Elon Musk, Nikola Tesla)
The INFJ wants to change humanity for the better (Jesus, Ghandi)

Both have a vision of a better future, with starkly different methods of getting there.

[brians]

INFJ in the workplace: Leave me alone and lemme do my effing job. Go bother the slackers. 😁

[sirlancealittles]

I am a Clinical Psychologist with 30 years of experience dealing with people. I was branded a INFJ quite sometime ago. I never really accepted that evaluation because placing 'labels' on people puts them into a box. It limits their potentiality and personal growth. At worse, it can destroy a individual's self determination and freedom. I have never encountered a 'classical' INFJ before. Why? Because certain characteristics of this personality type have many subgroups some of which overlap other MBTI personality types. That being said I will describe the characteristics of how a 'orthodox' INFJ thinks, behaves and responds in strict accordance with the MBTI Personalty Test. Be forewarned, I find some INFJ 'stereotypes' rather funny. And will approach such in a humorous fashion. INFJ's posess a wonderfully unique sense irony and will immediately recognize the silly 'stereotypes' others have attrubuted to lts break some myths about INFJ Personalty Types.

When a INFJ gives you the dreaded 'Death Stair' they are not sttempting to understand you. They are wondering if you're carrying a gun. Killing INFJ's is a pleasurable experience. Why? Because everyone hates a smart ass.

INFJ's frequently experience 'Sensory Overload' issues. They love Forests, Parks and Woodland areas to recharge their batteries. Why? Because trees don't talk! A squirrel cannot complain it has 'Daddy Issues'. Pine trees do not suffer from 'gender identity' problems. And I have never seen a bunny rabbit strung out Crack Cocaine. Solitude is bliss.

Never say to a INFJ, 'I do not understad', They will run away screaming or jump infront of a bus. No one understands them. INFJ's sometimes don't even understand themselves.

Why do a INFJ 'Door Slam' people? Because it's called a Coping Mechanism. They dislike being emotionally hurt. There is nothing strangebecome acholics others pill poppers. INFJ's will just run away and per you never existed. It never works.

INFJ's have the psychic ability to absorb people's emotions. No. This is phenomen is called 'Transference'. If you continuously talk about your problems, a INFJ will unconsciously adopt some aspects of your emotional state. However, INFJ's posess strong identities which prevents them from going completely insane.

INFJ's are the most honest, compassionate and sensative people on Earth. Not really. Mother Nature just screwed them up genetically. They're brains are hard wired to respond during crisis situations. A 'diehard' INFJ will instinctively sacrifice their life attempting to save yours. No questions asked. Why? I have no freaking idea. I didn't invent the rules. Ask God. I'm sure She knows.

INFJ's think differently than others. Yes. They think outside the box. They live outside the box. They have never actually seen the box. What does it look like? Does it contain groceries?

INFJ types are occasionally arrogant, cold towards others and aloof. This is actually true. Being omnipotent has its drawbacks. INFJ's have a difficult time sugar-coating the truth. Being overtly honest is their trademark. However, if they sense someone cannot handle the truth, they lie to protect that person's feelings.

INFJ's are stubborn yet will openly admit to errors in judgment and making mistakes.

INFJ's think too deeply. They want to solve everyone's problems. They get frustrated when people ask for advice, then completely ignore their recommendations. They do not understand why everyone keeps making the same mistakes over and over again. Eventually, a INFJ will simply give up. The phrase 'People need to learn the hard way' was invented by a INFJ. So was the 'unfriendl' button on Facebook.

INFJ's do not respect authority because they have developed their own Moral, Ethical, Spiritual and Cognative belief systems. Mature (older) INFJ's care very little about how people perceive them and less about the impressions they make upon others. INFJ's enjoy approval and acceptance (like everyone else) but infrequently compromise their princepals to simply fit in.

Do not mistake a INJ's confidence as egocentrism. There is a difference.

INFJ hate themselves. They feel alone within the world and misunderstood. Being a INFJ a curse. Consequently, a small minority INFJ's often experience psychological Depression, Alienation issues and Avoident Behavior problems. The phrase 'You are your own worst enemy' accurately describes a INFJ's perception of themselves.

The most admirable personality traits of the INFJ are (1) INFJ's care more about other people than themselves which makes them a easy targets for emotional exploitation and abuse. Never play 'Guilt Games' with a INFJ. They already persecute themselves (subconsciously) for being different. They don't have the ability to forgive themselves for past mistakes, A INFJ's unforgiving 'Guilt Complex' is an integral part of their personality. INFJ's have occasionally been known to slowly kill themselves over time, believing they deserve such suffering. 'Hell on Earth' is their punishment and they willing accept it....sometimes. Not always. (2) Once you secure the trust of a INFJ, everything about them suddenly becomes clear. The stereotypes vanish. They are people you want within your life. They have incredible insight into human nature and will identify your weaknesses and lift you up from darkness. Seeing the world through a INFJ eyes is the greatest gift they can offer.

It would be impossible to understand a MBTI typology without stating the negative traits of a specific personality group.

The 'Dark Side' of a INFJ is rather frightening. Never test their 'Authenticity' or personal dignity. Do not play games with a INFJ. They have limitations like everyone else. A INFJ can determine your intentions or plans within minutes. Literally. This Hyperobservient behavior is quite unique. Avoid getting into heated arguments with a INFJ unless you are prepared to be intellectually, emotionally or psychologically castrated. They have cognitive resources almost beyond understanding. A vindictive INFJ will never stop until they destroy your life (this has nothing to do with physical murder). Such behavior is almost Psychopathic in nature (hence the concern INFJ's may be catorgized as possessing a Psychological disorder rather than a Personality dysfunction). INFJ's are not prone violent behavior. The good news is they give up easily, This is where the Door Slam or simply walking away from a argument comes from.

If a INFJ loves you, be prepared for lengthy romantic rituals. Box's of candy, flowers, poems, lovely e-cards, teddy bears and such. But be careful. A INFJ understands how to manipulate situations to their advantage. Including the human heart. Once they reveal their true inner nature however, you will begin to understand why only 2% of the world's population are INFJ's. They are just so dam charming.

INFJ's dislike small talk, idle conversations, superficial people and hypocrites. Life is too short talking to such individuals (but they understand its occasionally necessary to be socially accepted)

INFJ's are not spontaneous. They just pretend to be spontaneous. Their minds are always attempting to 'connect the dots' even when there are no dots.

Avoid getting into deep conversations with a INFJ. They are walking encyclopedias. They will jump from topic to topic then back again to support a idea or theory. Male INFJ's are 'scattered brained' in the worst way possible. But there is method to such madness. The are searching for the correct answer to a specific problem. And 95% of the time they will discover it... or have a complete nervous breakdown trying.

Occasionally, you will notice them acting rather mysterious, doing unusual things or just behaving weird. Get used to this behavior. It has absolutely nothing to do with you. The INFJ is just going through a 'stage' or experimenting with something that interests them. Like building a Thermonuclear Bomb or discovering a cure for Herpes.

Never tell a INFJ they possess a 'Old Soul'. They are terrified of being reincarnated again. INFJ's are aware that neither Heaven or Hell wants them. Why? Because God doesn't want the extra competition or deciding who should run the Universe (Him or a INFJ) and Satan can't deal with a INFJ pestering him for all eternity. That would be considered cruel and unusual punishment.

Aliens will never abduct a INFJ. There are some things too bizarre even for Extraterrestrials.

So next time you accidentally encounter a INFJ, break all COVID 'Social Distancing' issues and hug them. They are a endangered species. Literally. Whatever purpose they were created for has already been accomplished. I like to think they represent the noblest form of humanity. A personality type which everyone aspires to immulate....Intelligent, Wise, Caring, Altruistic and Protective.

[fluffyclouds]

I’m an INFJ. This is good stuff. I got into MBTI 4 years ago although had been drawn to it my whole life starting in high school as it resonated with me. As I’ve developed my weaknesses, rounded myself out, and grown to be more self aware, I think that the suggestions are spot on. In my experience, more people will appreciate the gifts of an INFJ if they can get out of their own heads by producing their work/idea into the physical world. It takes systematizing and a commitment to improvement, and building self-confidence to get there.

[Angel-gbgi]

Infj in the work place...oh my gosh these people are so boring and evil...i want to go home oh lord help me get through this day...pours another cup of coffee and wishes his coworkers coyld be put on mute so they can hear their mozart of thoughts playing in their head without the meaningless chatter of thise surrounding them. I want to go into my own thoughts soooo bad at work but i cant because of all the noise. A co worker asks me all the time what i am thinking and i truely am thinking nothing because i cant think with all the noise. Im robotic going through the day, i can not go into deep thought so its like im stuck in robotic thinking of completing the next task and the next ect...so that empty look is really empty, just there to do what i have to do to get the job over with. Sometimes watching lazy people trying to get out of work is pretty entertaining...i have watched a woman work in a tiny area surrounded with stuff that needs put away but she is too lazy to do it so she waits for someone else to put it away. Or when their running out of work and have to help you they start up a conversation so they can drag that last 15 min. Out so they dont have to help...its funny to watch peoples behaviors at work. Then you got the person that comes in 15 min. Early every day so they can brag out it all the time then run themselves and you out of work but they want everyone to know how dedicated they are and gow much they do. Then you got the picky people whom has to have everything a certian way...they are a drain to work with, they notice every little small detail and they cant let it go..oh the torture to work with these people. People that cant handle change at work they malfunction if their is change because everything has to be a certian way and change is sooo hard on them. Or the people like me that dont talk much and are robots just doing the job and its all about getting it done and going home. I dont care to hear about your boring life id rather go into my own selfish thoughts but im stuck with an old boring woman that talks non stop about her grandkids. Her grandkids are her life which is sweet but my gosh i dont care. You learn to never ask these people how their weekend went because they will bore you with it. Ok so im a self absorbed infj. I admit it, i cant get out of my own world, im stuck.

[LOVE_ALL_AROUND]

As an INFJ working in the corporate world over 20 years what you said is true. It can be challenging for me yet works well in sales and reading people. As for the sensitivity with criticism so true. I have left jobs because of it. At 55 I am better but still take it personal.

[scottbrown]

Elon Musk vs. Jesus Christ! Love it! 🤣

[kaarigiella]

At :46 when the cartoon of a violinist is backwards... because we hold the bow in our right hand... And now I can't hear what is said til I point that out.

[claudiamanta]

0:18 Umm…🤔 The Father and the Son…and the common sense Ghosted both of them.

[mckou]

Great video, might want to select a new hairstyle.