7 Tips On How To Keep A Conversation Going With Women | Courtney Ryan

In this video, I go over on some tips on how to keep a conversation going. Holding a conversation, especially with someone we're attracted to, can be a daunting task. Hopefully this video can make it a little bit easier on you! Thank you all for watching and let me know in the comments how you guys keep a conversation going!

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[johnrblur]

Honestly I started having great, non-awkward first dates when I stopped worrying about how it would go. Just show up like you're meeting a friend for the first time. Talk about stuff. Make jokes. Flirt. It's really easy. Best way to practice conversation is to talk to random strangers when you go out places. Strike up conversations with them. Better yet if you do this with attractive women. It's like having a first date before the first date. What worked for me is "What's the worst that can actually happen? Never going to see this person again anyway."

Good luck out there!

[teddychalgren]

Saturday morning 25 September 2021.
1. Prepare a LITTLE bit. (Things you want to ask the woman)
2. Ask the RIGHT questions. (deeper meaning questions.)
3. Tell her about yourself (briefly, don't go on and on, bragging about yourself)
4. Find her GOLDEN nugget (something that lights them up when they talk about their golden nugget).
5. LISTEN to her, pay attention to what she is saying.
6. Silence is NORMAL. Not every single second of the date has to be filled with talking.
7. Be AUTHENTIC. Don't try to be someone else.

[LivingALifeOfAbundance]

In the name of the cheek slaying clapplations, “if she laughs at your jokes she shall moan to your strokes”.

[wldm]

I think most women like to talk more than men. It's pretty easy to stay in a conversation by asking a few questions and just being a good listener. A lot of women are attracted to good listeners.

[abdelkariml]

My biggest tip for having fun and interesting conversations is to STOP THINKING and comment/ask about stuff you see around you. Just be present, in the moment, that means you observe what you see, hear and feel around you.

-You guys are walking the park, see a animal > ask her whats her favourite animal is.
-You on a date with someone and they are shy/distant, just say 'i can feel you are a bit shy' and they will ramble on why.
-You guys see some kids playing > make a statement like 'bet you was a very shy/energetic kid'
-You guys are together and see she's wearing a item > tell her you like it and she will tell you about it.
-You guys walking the streets, see restaurants > ask her what her favourite cuisine is

[sinhidden_sound]

The FORD method works great. These are usually the things I talk about or ask about when talking to anyone I want to get to know better. 😎
1) Family
2) Occupation
3) Recreation
4) Dreams

[chrialivest]

LISTENING is HUGE! And, the follow up question pertaining to what she just said is key.

Another point that is big (from my perspective) is not interrupting. It goes with listening, but it can be a point all on it’s own. It’s a respect thing. Let her have “the mic, ” allow her to speak her mind, and when she is done talking then ask the follow up question.

Finding that “golden nugget” is a great point, and a great metaphor. Listening to people talk about what they are passionate about is so much more enjoyable. It’s their “fire” so let their passion burn. Then, if the fire begins to cool off, ask the follow up question to “stoke” the fire.

Again, great points and things I will definitely keep in mind for future conversations.

Thank you again 🙏

[sanecatlady]

This is really helpful for me as a woman with social anxiety. In conversations I always worry if I'm being awkward or the other person is bothered by me. I have to work on not mind-reading and just make it a goal to get to know the person a little better through conversation. If we don't click then we don't click, that's fine

[GEORGIOARCADE]

Courtney i appreciate you giving us this conversation advice with women. I think women should be given the same advice. You can be the best talker; but if she doesn't add much to the conversation to keep it going; it's not worth it. One of the things i do when i first meet a woman is I'll ask how her day is going and maybe make a lighthearted compliment or funny joke about what's going on around us.

Judging by her mood, what's going around us, and the way she responds to me; it lets me know how far our interaction will go. This can work on the date with your advice Courtney. Also if the woman ie talkative after you ask her deep/open ended questions about things she enjoys; that's a good thing. Anyways hope you have a great day if you see this 😊👍

[restcayz]

1. Prepare, think about what you're going to say ahead of time.
2. Ask the right questions, open-ended questions (what, why)
3. Talk about yourself a little, but not too much.
4. Find the golden nugget, so find what they are passionate about.
5. Silence is okay, see if they make conversation as well.
6. Be authentic (pretty cliche)

[dibakardas]

1. prepare a little bit
2. ask the right Questions
3. tell her about yourself
4. find her golden nugget
5. listen
6. silence is normal
7. be authentic
Thankyou
Good Luck!

[curt]

Important Question: "Do your parents live around here?"

Get her talking about her dad gents. Find out how her relationship is with him.

[josephstevens]

From experience, it takes practice, especially if you're a natural shy person. It is nice, however, to listen to have a knowledgeable coach like Courtney!

[EmperorWelkin]

The focus of a conversation is completely different for men and women. Men in conversation are focused primarily on the transfer of information. Women are focused on the experience of the conversation or how it makes them feel.

[ultrabidoof]

Ok guys, Courtney pulled a solid on 7 ways to maintain conversation with a woman.

All we need now is learn how to start one. 😂

[stevefreeman]

Excellent points. I know the order could be arbitrary. Here's my take. 1) Generally, women are more adept at talking and really love it. Listen, listen, listen. However, do speak and with good grammar. 2) Silence is golden. It's appropriate to look into each others eyes with you exhibiting a relaxed manner (no fidgeting or being distracted, she's your focus). Non verbal communication is paramount and can be more meaningful on several different planes. It's important for both to be comfortable with pauses of natural duration. I remember this simple exercise... Be the man my dog thinks I am.

[jordandodi]

Hi Courtney! This really helped me, not just with women but regular social interaction. I am a high functioning autistic and this really helped me ALOT. Thank you. Good job and keep up the great work. 😊

[LEVIAHAN]

Start the conversation as if the person is like a friend. It will help you feel comfortable and will inturn you will feel confident.

[Robbyrool]

Authenticity is everything. If you can fake that, you’ve got it made.

[ΝίνοΠούτσο-λη]

4:00 thank you . Conversation is between two people . I went on a date once, and after I learned everything about her family tree, she didn't asked anything about me, she said " say something"
I couldn't hold my self and start laughing.
I excused myself like I was going to the toilet, paid the bill, " nice to meet you " and I left.