Why Men Sabotage Great Relationships ~ It's Not YOU

Why Men Sabotage Great Relationships ~ It's Not YOU

There's this almost fantasy many men & women approach during the dating process without giving any thought to the emotional maturity of a possible candidate for a relationship.

But here's the thing, on some level we are all wounded on a subconscious level from childhood which causes us all to have negative patterns & limiting beliefs in life. In addition, we can also have emotional traumas in our adult life that causes us to choose unhealthy partners.

In today's video, we are going to explore a deeper reason why many men (as well as women) often sabotage a really good relationship which often has nothing to do with their partner, and when you understand this, you can make better choices in the dating process especially before sleeping together.

Let's talk about... Why Men Sabotage Great Relationships ~ It's Not You

[marevagodfrey]

Totally resonated and it's come at a perfect time. Trying to come from a loving place and let go of a man that needs to heal himself. I've done and continue to do this work, so we are not at all in the same place emotionally. He has embarked on it and I wish him the best, but I know in my heart that staying would only breed a co-dependent, unhealthy dynamic. I am done with all of that. Sigh...it's heartbreaking, yet liberating to know my boundaries.

[allystevens]

Thanks for sharing, when I was 6, a teacher shook me in front of the whole class for talking. It gave me a complex for years.

[sherriflemming]

We need to let go of men that aren't on the same page and that need to heal from their past.

[toscadonna]

My ex husband was literally yelling at me and ascribing attributes of his mother that he hated to me. I’m the antithesis of his mother. He was such a mental patient. I kept saying, “Who are you talking to? I’m not her! I don’t even do what you’re yelling at me about (spend money)!” I had a male teacher who told me that I was too dumb to be a chemistry major; I felt really upset about it, but I got pissed off. I got my degree in chemistry, so he was wrong. There’s no excuse to hurt others just because someone else hurt you. Get over it, and don’t hurt other people.

[drakemyson]

Thank you for sharing and for the hug... we could all use more of those! Blessings

[sharmainevanderwesthuizen]

I am so glad to hear I am not the only one who took more than 10 years to heal from a broken heart 😁🌺

[flowerchild]

My question is, Did that teacher get fired? That was beyond cruel, of all people teacher's should boost your confidence, sorry that happened to you. Our self worth definitely starts and is formed in childhood, as soo many people have experienced some form of abuse.And unfortunately is brought with us into adulthood and determines what types of relationships we form, for some it breaks us or makes us stronger. Thank you for sharing, sending you a { Hug } 🌹😊💕

[jazznbluessinger]

Terrific info! I don't feel so bad now that it took me the last 10 years to go thru my own hero's journey. Plus it confirmed some of the people I've dated not being emotionally ready for relationship. They're still on their journey. 🙏💕

[karenwilliams]

Yes.i can relate Jonathan 💕 this from.inner child work I've done. I understand after a divorce it took me many years to heal due to the level of trauma I experienced.

[LD-qokf]

Johnathon, I appreciate your willing vulnerability. It takes a person with High Moral character and strong Self Love like yourself to share such an extraordinary event of your past. I have one from a 3rd grade Teacher as well. But more importantly Love covers a multitude of wrong doings. Your vulnerabilty is a BREATH OF FRESH O². ALOHA

[HypnotikaSinCityDiva]

Wow today has been such a great day 4 me. Lots of manifestations. It's like you knew I needed this RN. Thanks

[aries]

What does being friends with an ex boyfriend look like?
I know maybe a little off topic of this video but would appreciate your input.
Thank you Jonathan

[holisticchrissy]

We were in a relationship for three years, he broke up with me at the beginning of June, we hash out some tough communication and came back together for a great, intense weekend over Father’s Day. Then he withdrew and we haven’t spoken for over three weeks. I’m so confused. I’m letting him have space and have contacted him. I’m just so lost as to what happened. We cared for each other so much and things seemed to be on an upturn...

[padminiseecharran]

I love listening to you ❤️ you are an inspiration thank you

[puspalimopranoto]

Spot on. One of a kind video, amazing that there are so many wounded adult out there. Not only within relationships.. thats why there is terms grumpy old man etc😉

[APerez]

3:31 comment. This is why parental supervision and strong leadership is so important in the household. (Me too similarly by the way) . I suspect that if someone had been there to help us navigate through/analyze the occurrence at the dinner table for us that night, we would've made it out with less scars onto adulthood. 😭. Literally made me tear and then laugh with the picture thing. Much love fam!

[Chemilia]

Finally best video I seen today.. Explaining so much.. I want this book

[oldirtydasher]

My ex cheated on me an lied about it while in couples therapy. I've yet to recover. It sucks.

[faithstrong]

Thanks for sharing. I bought the The Hoffman process. I had childhood abandonment issues since I was raised by my Grandparents. Thanks for the suggestions of the books. That includes your book.

[zoraidacastro]

Excellent points. We are attracted to people like our parents. 6 x 6!!!! Oh WOW....I would have been crushed as well. 140 IQ, teachers are extremely powerful and they don't know it.