5 Texts To Make A Man Fall In Love With You

When it comes to love, you probably have the same set of ideas in mind. Flowers, candle lit dinners, holding hands and planning your happily ever after with the man of your dreams. Well that’s all cute and charming, before you can share those experiences with a guy, you need to make him fall in love with you… which is exactly what I’m going to teach you today.

Hey ladies, Amy North here. For those of you who don’t know me I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada and author of The Devotion System, a program I’ve designed to help women around the world find and lock down the love they want and deserve. If this is your first time visiting my channel, thanks for coming by, or if you’re a regular viewer, welcome back! Either way though, sit tight because you’re in for a real treat today! What’s that you ask? Well, today I’m going to share with you the text messages you can send a man to make him fall in love with you.

Now before you get all worked up or start panicking that this is a HUGE, seemingly impossible challenge, don’t. Stay calm, and believe me, this isn’t as hard as it seems. Better yet, in this video I’m going to give you text messages that you can use yourself. That means that all you have to do is listen to what I tell you here, and plug in these messages into your phone.

That said, there are of course going to be situations or circumstances where these messages will be adapting — I mean, you’re not going to text a man about a trip to Cuba if you’ve never left the country — but again, don’t worry. I’ll give you the templates then all you’ll have to do is personalize these messages.

Before I get ahead of myself though, I do have to mention that there are some super important “rules” to keep in mind. Now, I say rules because you should never do otherwise, but really they’re just tips. Let’s use RULES as an acronym to help you remember these pointers though.

R - Re-read your message

Before you hit send on your phone it’s important that you read the text message you’ve typed up. Check it for clarity, spelling and tone. Read it at least five times; you’d be surprised how easy it is to overlook the simplest mistakes. Besides, if you send him a powerful message that then has to be followed up with a spelling correction or explanation, the original message you’ve sent is going to lose it’s bite. So don’t sell yourself short, read your messages before sending.

U - Use visual language

Now, when it comes to text messaging men and women are quite different from one another in terms of the types of messages they best respond to. See, while us ladies like getting messages that are descriptive and evoke her feelings, men on the other hand, are visual creatures that respond best to descriptive messages that will let him easily imagine and feel the messages you’re sending. This means that you’ll want to use visual language. Let me give you an example. Instead of texting him, “I really want to kiss you right now,” you’d want to say something like “I ….”

See the difference between the two? Take the time to add those details, they make all the difference.

L - Leave him wanting more

This one is pretty self explanatory so simply put, it just means don’t over do it. If you blow up your man’s phone with pointless messages, then he isn’t going to look forward to hearing from you. However, if you only send him well thought out, cleverly crafted messages, well those are the ones that are going to keep him hanging off your every word…. Or text rather. ;)

E - Excite him (avoid boring messages)

I don’t know about you ladies, but there are few things that bother me more than the one or even two-word text message. You know the ones I’m talking about. “Hi” or “What’s up?” They make my skin crawl! Maybe it’s because they come across as lazy or give the impression that the sender is bored and only texting for their own entertainment, or maybe it’s because they don’t make me feel, well, anything really… asides from irritated.

Anyways, enough about my feelings, the point I’m making is that every message you send your man should be exciting. Now, I know this can be tough, especially if you have the kind of relationship where you communicate daily through texts, and share those little mundane thoughts and updates, but seriously, believe me when I say it’s time to stop. From here on out you want to make sure that every text message you send is captivating and exciting! I’ll touch more on this later.

Now last but certainly not least, “S”...

S - Stay positive

*** More from Amy North: ***

[hildaeliona]

I love your teaching...they made me get in the arms of the man I love.... thanks Amy

[jesusislord]

I believe when a man is truly into u, he will move the earth to be with u.

He will communicate more, give u his time, passion, romance, prioritise u, loves u, give u fun, attention and the commitment u want.

Never convince someone to give u that.
It should come naturally and a man who's into u makes everything clear, no second guesses

[shawnbunch]

As a guy I've only received the 'thinking about you' text, but can confirm that girl drove me insane. Years later that same girl and I reconnected in a bar, venting about our struggles with dating in the past and she said "you know I was in this 'I hate men' phase for so long..and then I met you" followed by a kiss on the cheek and laying her head on my shoulder. I almost shed a tear right then and there. That was in 2018 and I still think about that moment to this day. Ladies I have no idea why showing appreciation is like kryptonite for you, but trust me it goes a LONG way

[MrsKunis]

An old lady told me once to "flirt but don't chase" the man. Rarely call or text him. Let him chase you. Be an elusive butterfly. Men will lose interest in you if you are texting him a lot because he will see that as chasing him.

[fonsi]

I’m a man but I got a woman of my dreams by watching all your videos! Thank you so much!

[passionatepeople]

listen if he loves you only "hi" will have worked

[kanikaanand]

and we're getting married in december, thanks amy.

[rjcatan]

what if he blocks you all in his social media 😂

[cursuchuu]

- thinking abt u text
- i love your laugh/smile/eyes text
- imy text
- bring up a shared memory

[kazimd.shabbirfaisal]

Thanks, he blocked me.
Update: he's now dating my ex best friend 😗

[KubajzSliepka]

As a man, what am i doing here? It feels like to be spy in the enemy base XD

[justimagine...]

“There are many ways of going forward, but only one way of standing still."

[TheDesireeFox]

If he ignores you, DON'T LET HIM KNOW IT BOTHERS YOU. Relationships almost ALWAYS set the tone in the first couple of months. The PROBLEM is by ALLOWING him to treat you this way, he thinks that you're desperate and YOU HAVE continued the cycle. When you started allowing him to get away with it. Put the brakes on, no matter HOW MUCH it will cause you pain. It's for the best. Do not text him again!! Let HIM wonder where you are. And try being a little aloof with him! Grow a backbone!! You'll either never hear from him again or he will do a complete 180° turn around. But IF that happens, DON'T FALL BACK INTO YOUR OLD PATTERNS!! STAY THE COURSE and make HIM CHASE YOU... GOOD LUCK

[Fancynancytv]

Ugh this is so hard I’ll just stay home with my cats and be single for life T.T

[Melonism]

All the things you need to do to get a man! Too much work. I'll just get a dog!

[vanesslo]

Personalize all of them.
1. Thinking about you. Simple but personal
2. Drive me wild text. Say something that gets him going. Just for fun.
3. I love your text. Nice compliment
4. Recognition reminder. Love and appreciation. You notice what he does.
Best of luck ladies.

[sammyjays]

Idk about this video but I always let my fiance know how I'm feeling whether long or short text doesn't matter. It's not about the "Text" it's about spending QT with your man also Loyalty and Honesty. Old school style.

[asmrambient]

what if he ignores you😭😭

edit: yall i commented this like three years ago, im gay now lmao

[mirjanamaya]

Idea is learn to love yoursel first...no trick or tehnick will help - whan you love yoursel, you will know exactly what to do and what feels right and how you want to be treated.

[anuskajuliien]

I tried it an he thanked me so much for making him know he's appreciated for all he does now I wanna thank you for teaching me