Here are some RED FLAGS 🚩💀

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Andrea Subotic

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These are all normal. Texting you at night = might have a 12hr job, my dad does at least, or even could be running errands all afternoon after work. Having no goals sometimes is very normal when you're depressed or simply haven't known anything you like. And being friends with your ex is the most common of all, sometimes there's not at all any feelings left, they ended in good terms and they're... Friends?

lucascattai

I feel like texting at night isn’t a bad thing. I usually feel more energetic and talkative at night than during the day.

sweetalyssa

Not all breakups have to be bad ones or even ones where it's completely one-sided, with the other still pining after them...

LB

The ambitions one is really complicated. I have dreams and things I want to do and achieve but circumstances are a major factor. Plus when you suffer from mental health issues like myself it makes it that much harder to do plus my parents aren’t the most supportive

Muneeb

It’s normal to text you only at Night cause some ppl have things to do the whole day or smt like that

Amy-nyhz

what’s wrong with being friends with your ex it just means you aren’t a 12 y/o with an explosive attitude
talk about controversial 😍💕💖💖💘💓

luvxiao

Friends with their exes... Is definitely a red flag. It's hard to start a new chapter when you're still reading the old one.

EddieShotCaller

“only texts you at night” sorry i’m sleeping all day i’m depressed. “having no goals/ambitions” sorry i’m depressed and don’t see me actually achieving anything in my life, i want to or see myself being around long enough some days

toulousesho

I'm a girl, never had motivation for goals or ambitions. Everything I like is just a short few week phase anyways. I still take care of myself and am not judgmental. It's better this way, since I can go with whatever my S/O's dream/goal is!

Also, just because someone is friends with their EX could mean they are a better person. They ended things on good terms, and it just didn't work out. Trust issues are bad for a relationship, you should trust your partner would never do anything with their EX. If you have suspicions, then break-up.

Also texting you at night could be the only time they are free. It could also be something innocent like they can't sleep or are saying good nights too you.

Be cautious of people but don't completely lose trust in them for these small reasons that are easily justified.

Rose_

I keep my visions and dreams to myself pretty lady ✨

tonylama

...No.

1) I work from midday to closing most days, so my primary free time is at night. I can't humor a meaningful conversation earlier in the day knowing I will have to leave for work in the middle of it.

2) Just because my goals aren't as lofty as some others doesn't mean I have none, but also, being content with where you are isn't wrong. Some people are only satisfied with a life of grandeur, and others are fulfilled when getting a new soup ladle. Being humble and low-maintenance is NOT a bad thing.

3) This is only an issue if YOU don't already trust him. Being friends with exes shows maturity, that the person is capable of amicable breakups without harboring petty hostility.

Basically, you are right. These are red flags. About you.

gagejoseph

Don't know, my wife seems happy, we have been together for 12 years now and I used to have all of those "red flags"

zenman

i agree, except for the last one. i mean, i’m still friends with mine. but then again he’s a guy and im a lesbian so im not the best person to ask lol

zoeismadeofmolecules